Shifting Mutuals - Blog Posts

y’know the scripts gonna be good when you whip out the wiki fandom and age calculator combo.

hey everybody, i’m jamie! i’m new to shiftblr, but have been attempting to shift since 2021. (i’m also relatively new to tumblr so don’t know exactly how things work.😬).

but i just came on here to maybe make some shifting friends/mutuals.

i haven’t shifted (yet), but my main drs are:

fame

youtuber/smosh

stranger things

marvel

bridgerton

twilight

fate: winx saga

stardew valley

anyways, if anyone has any tips, questions, or comments i’d really appreciate it!🫶

The most fun girl can have is reality shifting, manifesting stuff and dating their celebrity crush.

The shifters urge to tell everyone that they can live the life they want and that this is not all there is

Not now baby, mama is making a new script :

Me writing my script:

If it feels impossible, remember:

shifting is proof that the impossible doesn’t exist

Why are you afraid of shifting and how is it stopping you from success

This post is all about finding what are your struggles with shifting and fear and how to overcome it

Why This Happens

1. Fear of the Unknown: Shifting involves stepping into a completely new reality, and the mind can find that overwhelming. Even though you consciously want to shift, your mind might be resisting because it’s unsure what will happen or how you'll feel after the shift. (Your mind can't stop you from shifting but it helpful to overcome this)

2. Fear of Failure: While you’ve maybe built a mindset that "shifting is easy," there might still be a lingering fear of what happens if it doesn’t work. This can lead to procrastination as a way to avoid facing potential disappointment.

3. Attachment to Your Current Reality: Even if you consciously want to let go of this reality, your mind might still hold on to certain attachments, routines, or responsibilities, making it harder to fully release and surrender.

4. Perfectionism: You might feel that the conditions for shifting need to be "perfect" (e.g., the right time, mood, or setting). This can cause you to delay the attempt, thinking, "I’ll do it tomorrow when I feel more ready."

5. Energy Imbalance: Mental and emotional energy play a big role in shifting. If you're mentally drained from school/job or other activities, it can be harder to find the focus and motivation to try.

Advice to Overcome This

1. Address the Fear Directly:

Take a moment to reflect on why you might feel scared. Is it fear of failure, success, or the unknown? Journaling about these feelings can help bring clarity and reduce their intensity.

Remind yourself that shifting is safe and that you’re always in control. You can come back to your current reality whenever you choose.

2. Break the Cycle of Procrastination:

Commit to small steps instead of aiming for the perfect shifting session. For example, one night, just focus on relaxing and visualizing your desired reality for 5-10 minutes without the pressure of fully shifting.

Set a consistent time for your shifting practice, even if it’s only 15 minutes a day.

3. Ease Into Letting Go:

Practice mindfulness or meditation to train your mind to release attachment to this reality. Grounding yourself in the present moment can make it easier to let go when the time comes.

Try visualization exercises throughout the day. Imagine yourself briefly in your desired reality during small breaks, which can make the idea of shifting feel more familiar and less daunting.

4. Shift Your Perspective on "Failure":

Remember, every attempt is progress. Each time builds your connection to your desired reality and strengthens your mental state.

Celebrate small wins, like getting into a relaxed state or feeling closer to your desired reality, instead of only focusing on whether you shifted.

5. Create a Comforting Routine:

Build a ritual around your shifting attempts that feels calming and enjoyable. For example, use soothing music, light candles, or repeat affirmations that help you feel safe and confident.

Use self-reassurance phrases like, “I am in control, and shifting will happen at the right time for me.”

6. Reframe "It’s Too Late" Thoughts:

Remind yourself that there’s no "right" time to shift. You can attempt shifting whenever you feel ready, whether it’s day or night.

Think of shifting as a natural, ongoing process rather than a single, all-or-nothing event. This can help reduce pressure and make it feel more approachable.

Letting Go of the Pressure

It's helpful to approach shifting with curiosity and excitement rather than pressure. The more you view it as a natural and fluid process, the easier it can become to allow yourself to fully engage. Instead of thinking, "I have to shift tonight," try shifting your mindset to, "I’m exploring this tonight, and whatever happens is okay."

Mantra to Try

When you feel scared or hesitant, try repeating: "I trust the process. I am safe, I am ready, and I am capable of shifting when the time is right."

A little remember that it most important to find what works for you.

My reaction to reading some of y'all script (same)

How you are applying logic to shifting and why you should stop it

Examples of Applying Logic to Shifting:

1. Doubting the Process:

Thinking, "This can't work because it's not scientifically proven."

2. Overthinking Methods:

Debating which method is "best" or trying to analyze why certain methods work/ don't work.

3. Expecting Immediate Results:

Thinking, "If I don’t shift in X amount of time, it’s not real."

Focus on enjoying the outcome rather than the process.

4. Analyzing Your Feelings Too Much:

Thinking, "Am I feeling detached enough? Did I do the visualization correctly?"

Trust your intuition. If you feel ready or connected, that’s enough. And even if you don't as long as you want it, it enough.

5. Questioning Your Signs:

Seeing signs or synchronicities and thinking, "Is this just coincidence?"

Trust that the universe communicates in unique ways. Accept signs without overanalyzing their meaning. Coincidences don't exist.

How to Stop Applying Logic:

Approach shifting with the openness.

Focus on Feelings, Not Thoughts:

Ground yourself in emotions or sensations instead of analyzing your thoughts. For example, focus on the excitement or calm you feel about your desired reality.

Use Affirmation

Repeat phrases like, "I trust the process," or "Shifting is natural for me." This helps quiet doubts.

Meditate or Use Flow States:

Meditation can help you let go of overthinking. Activities that put you in a flow state—like drawing, daydreaming, or listening to music—can also help.

By practicing these techniques, you'll probably gradually get yourself to let go of logic and embrace the intuitive side of shifting.

What made me post this lmao

Don't believe stuff like "it takes time/effort to shift" because what you are doing is affirming it. You can shift in a second and even less. Don't doubt it.

Me and the girls every night before we shift

The thing I needed to understand the most with reality shifting is that I'm not trying to get to my dr, im already there so I should just enjoy being there.

Hot girls use shifting as a form of escape

How I thought being in void was gonna be like