Anxious When I'm Late Cause It Makes Me Look Sloppy And Anxious When I'm On Time Because It Makes Me

the average twitter vs tumblr community experience

MR KRABS ITS GETTING SOO LOUD

I'm going to get more lashes today.

PERPLEXED KNOWING THAT I HAVE OVER 5 PUBLIC TIKTOKS FROM THE AGES ~13 WITH MY FACE ON THAT I CAN DO NOTHING ABOUT HEAD IN HANDS

this grave keeper edible aint shit

by 夜の旅人さんのページ

“He viewed his own mentality as grotesque but useful, like a chair made of antlers.”

— Thomas Harris, Red Dragon (via bluebeardsbride)

YOU EVER SEE AN ARTIST YOU LIKE AND JUST NEED TO POUR YOUR HEART AND SOUL OUT TO THEM

Idk man it’s so easy to get bogged down in all the bullshit online but when my then-6 year old cousin found out I was trans he said “ok” then corrected my grandma when she misgendered me. I was once the third between a gay man and a lesbian. Two lesbians once invited me back to their place when I presented as a man. I met an AMAB nb butch who looked strikingly to outsiders like a cis man and it was one of the more sapphic experiences I’ve had. I nervously wore a boydyke shirt to pride and got 3 different cis-looking femme folks tell me they loved my shirt. I once told a trans group at a protest that any pronouns were fine for me and one person said “wow, I’m impressed and intimidated by people like that. I don’t know that I could be that chill with pronouns.” I once told a GNC friend I wished I could wear a type of “opposite” gender clothing after I had already transitioned and so it would be associated with my AGAB and he said “You could just do it.” I’ve had cishet men fight cops for me before. The first time I had a doctor ask me if my name was different than what was on my forms I had to try not to cry. Last week, a phone call with a doctor’s office where I am generally cis passing asked unprompted if my name listed is what I want to be called. It touched me then too. I told a lesbian friend once I felt like my attraction to men AND women both felt gay. She said “makes sense.” And we moved on. I go by different pronouns in different circles. I’ve had gay women love my facial hair. I’ve had gay men like my tits. It’s all out there, I promise. It can be hard to find it but I promise there is community like you and community who likes you. And it’s more messy and beautiful than tumblr discourse makes it out to be.