Are U Trans?

I think everyone should make dumb ugly zines and bad music and write shitty books with weird premises and publish them for pay what you will online. I think people should write plays that are only ever intended to be performed with their friends in their living rooms. I think people who like ttrpgs should explore bizarre itch.io games and new systems that have no affiliation whatsoever with any major publishing house. If youre lucky enough to have a cool local community radio station nearby you should listen to that and what people close to you have to say and what they're creating that has no focus on being nationally appealing. I just think creation should be more joyful and local both in a geographic sense and a personal and social sense and unconcerned with whether or not it will be commercially viable or slick or even good beyond your own pride in it. And I think it's good to seek out art that exists for its own sake or to appeal to the community it was created within

Hoes, please stop buying the same AP and HB sets as eachother then shooting with the same photographers with the same concepts and eerily similar captions... it's overdone😅

I've got recs for similarly priced lingerie brands that are way better, quality and design wise, and less circulated on heaux-twitter

For captions, watch a movie, series, or read a book and stop using the same (overused) Charles Bukowski, Pablo Neruda, Pablo Picasso, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Coco Chanel, etc. quotes... same goes for wearing a powersuit and captioning "Ms. (blank) will see you now😀

some bonus zelda design thoughts

“SELF-CONFIDENCE will solve almost everything in your life. You must never, I repeat, you must never stop complimenting your qualities and loving yourself as deeply as you possibly can. A great tip: record a long audio-file of the most powerful affirmations (that is, positive sentences about yourself, your life, the world, and your future) that you can possibly think of. Hear these sentences when you are taking long walks, when you are cleaning up, when you are doing the dishes, in short, whenever you have any time to spare at all. Keep this habit going as long as you can…and your life will soon improve massively…because the thoughts and beliefs that underlie its quality positively has.”

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can’t stand a bitch w no survival instincts . do not call attention 2 your weaknesses

Hollywood will never let Marilyn Monroe rest. They will wring her memory of all its commercial value despite being instrumental in her downfall. Sick and twisted

I promise I’ll stop bitching after this, but the fact that women now, both young and older, are incapable of articulating their essences without reference to another entity as a template for their way of being and thinking is beyond sad. When you go out into the world and live your own experiences and reflect upon them without outside noise, you realize you do not need anyone else’s label. You don’t even need to label yourself. You just stand firm in whatever makes sense to and for you and call it a day. No Pinterest moodboard needed. Identity becomes meaningless because your essence remains.

Sugaring the smart way

My main advice for SBs is have clear and concise financial goals and budget. I’m my opinion there’s no point to sugaring if you don’t have specific financial motivations/goals you’re working towards.

Some examples are:

Paying off student loans

Paying off all debt

Start a business

Travel frequently

Pay rent off for the year

Buy a new car

Get nails done every 3 weeks and hair every month

I write out my financial goals and put an actual cash value to them. I take that add it up and divide that by when I want to accomplish these financial goals. That is how I determine what allowance I need per month.

I also separate my goals into categories. Like expenses, entertainment, 2020 goals, etc. in order to prioritize what I want to accomplish first

Below is a list of some (not all) of my goals and expenses

So in order for me to accomplish my 2020 goals, have my monthly expenses and non essential expenses paid I need to get around $8,500 a month. This helps me determine what monthly allowance I’m willing to accept

In my opinion, if you write down goals and budget it not only a reminder of what you want to accomplish but is a useful tool in determining allowance needs and expectations