You're not grown until you know how to communicate, apologize, be truthful and accept accountability without blaming someone else.
Speak the truth at all time, but let it come from a heart filled with love to see the other become better.
Speaking the truth without love is cruelty, so also to love without speaking the truth is deception.
Most people don't know the true meaning of being truthful, which means to tell the truth with empathy, to do it in love, instead of just saying whatever is on your mind disregarding the damage you can cause.
Speak your mind, but ensure the words you find are true, loving and kind.
People can get hurt with the truth you speak, and that's okay, as long as you say it with the goal of helping the other grow, learn and become better person.
It becomes dangerous and wicked if you speak it with the intention of damaging another. Whatever you do, do it in love, anything other than that is far away from the truth.
Speak the truth, no matter how difficult, but do it in a gentle, kind and inoffensive manner. Let the other see you have his or her best interest in heart. Your motivation to speak should be as a result of love, and must be delivered with wisdom.
For the goal of truth is freedom, not destruction.
#Abdullah.
A story doesn't exist unless it's Told.
“Everything (that happens) is by way of al-Qadr, even when you place your hand upon your cheek.”
I want to marry you.
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where, I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I don’t know any other way of loving.
This is for You. Feel this song...
Because without looking for you, I find you everywhere, especially when I close my eyes.
- Abdullah
A story doesn't exist unless it's Told.
"She was heavenly femininity and demonic sensuality. She was angelic divine chaos and alluring sultry seduction. She was pure innocence with a devilish grin. With eyes that pierced his soul and made his heart flutter. She was kindness and empathy, and ice cold as the first winter's snow watching bridges burn to ash. She was forgiving and strong. She was freedom and captivity. And she loved him with everything she had. Everything that made her -her. She loved the devil without looking back. Accepting his utter darkness and his endearing light. He loved everything about her. He wanted her for exactly who she was, without changing any part of her. She wanted all of him, every fiber of him. She soaked him in and breathed his fire. Without ever looking back. It was a love of glorious fury as the sky opened up and applauded with thunder and lightning strikes."
If you don’t love yourself you will always be chasing after people who don’t love you either.
whatever you're going through, istighfar is the solution. your sins block khair coming to you, make istighfar and see how it changes your life.
First love does not mean best love. And best friends may not mean best friends forever. But they both mean at some point, somewhere, someone did care. And their memories still there.
"Perhaps, somewhere, someday, at a less miserable time, we may see each other again" - Abdullah.
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