Happiness is where you are now, or nowhere at all.
It’s not a new relationship, it’s not a new job. It’s not a completed goal, and it’s not a new car.
Until you give up on the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will never be where you are.
2. Quitting is for winners.
Contrary to popular opinion, quitting is for winners. Knowing when to quit, change direction, leave a toxic situation, demand more from life, give up on something that isn’t working and move on, is a very important skill that people who win at life all seem to have.
But don’t quit because it’s hard.
Quit because it sucks.
3. If they really wanted to, they would.
If you apply pressure, they’ll do what you want them to.
If you take the pressure off, you’ll see what they’d rather do.
Never waste your life fighting what someone would rather do.
Let them go. Move on. Do better.
4. Taking no risk is the biggest risk.
You have to risk failure to succeed.
You have to risk rejection to be accepted.
You have to risk heartbreak to love.
If you’re always avoiding risk, you’re risking missing out on life.
5. Call yourself out.
The most common reason why people keep making the same mistakes is because their insecure ego prevents them from taking responsibility for their
own bullshit, their own toxic traits and their own mistakes.
6. Closure is your choice.
Closure isn’t an apology, or justice, or answers.
That’s insecurity.
If the situation made you feel awful, seeking closure by reopening it is insanity.
Closure isn’t something htye can give you.
Closure is moving on. Closure is your choice.
7. If you’re happy alone, you’ll be happier together.
There is no type of affection that can fill the void of a person who doesn’t love themselves already.
There is no independence in dependency.
There is no personal security in attaching yourself to a secure person.
Until you have a healthy relationship with yourself, you won’t make healthy decisions about someone else
8. It’s not your job to fix damaged people.
Your responsibility to hep someone will never outweigh their responsibility to help themselves.
But, it’s worth asking yourself why you resonated so strongly with someone that so desperately needed “fixing” in the first place.
Often, our own toxic romantic and non-romantic attachments tell a story about an issue we have within ourselves.
Both eyes met but one for desperate other was looking like strangers
We all try to be perfect for others,
Despite being detrimental to ourselves.
Is giving importance to others crucial?
Is doing for others wrong?
If it is wrong, then
Why did my father do it for me?
Why did his father do it for him,
And so on—the cycle continues,
Year after year, day after day.
We grew up from a pebble to a big stone,
Carrying tons of weight
That could make us sink
On any given day.
Whose mistake is it?
Mine, or the vicious, alluring society and its norms
That demand appreciation and so on.
Time has passed, decades have changed.
Now, I have realized, in the midst of all this,
I have committed several big mistakes
That were invisible at the time.
Not because I was blind or lost,
But due to the old cycle
that has been pedaled so hard.
In doing so, I have not only lost people
Whom I used to love
But also a self-hug
In conclusion, I want to say that
The scars from the past
Haunt me hard,
Waiting for conclusion.
People are silent,
Society is dark
Live life as you are.
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Who will replace me in the void you left?
Who will give me solace from the chaos you set?
Who will tell me that I don’t need to wait?
Who will set the stage for the world to be perfect?
We all lie and carry a burden on our heads,
Pretending everything is fine—
It’s human tendency to impress.
“Perhaps many things inside you have been transformed; perhaps somewhere, someplace deep inside your being, you have undergone important changes while you were sad.”
— Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet
“We think that forgiveness is weakness, but it’s absolutely not; it takes a very strong person to forgive.”
— T.D. Jakes
Have faith!
The sun will shine again..
Hy i know you are stressed up,fucked up.The beautiful life has become a mess now.
I know i can't feel ur pain,the suffering which you all are going through,some are waiting for their job,some of u would be waiting for that day to go out with ur friends and have some chill in life.life has become a chaos,everywhere there is darkness,either it's the running for oxygen or for hospitals,we have seen everything which the government was hiding from us in the form " Ache din".
Hy believe me!
You have'nt done anything wrong in your life ,it's not your fault this time stop ,stop cursing your soul ,it's not written in ur destiny..
I know half of u people would be saying that we are the unluckiest people,but what if u change ur perception,in this all tragedy,pandamic ,going on from past one year we are still living with our loved one's,with our families.
Yes we all are lucky,not to say but thousand's of people are dying everyday,everywhere we could see a family is loosing his prince,princess and queen.
Have patience!
The sun rise again,what if we are dealing with darkness today !
Have faith tomorrow is going to shine much more brighter than yesterday!
Have faith !
Ankit❤
Bro she can read a whole 400 page novel in a day. If she is not reading your one text, let her go, she's already taken by a fictional character
"Do not allow your fire to go out, spark by irreplaceable spark in the hopeless swamps of not -quite,the not-yet, and the not at all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish in lonely frusteration for the life you deserve and have never been able to reach. The world you desire can be won. It exists. It is real .It is possible . It is yours".
you will change your perception after reading my quotes,the man with thousands of thought's
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