When There's A Breakup, People Always Advise You To Move On, Forget The Other Person And Distract Yourself.

Addiction,

It’s an ugly thing.

But it’s what happens when

us addicts don’t know how

to heal in a healthy way,

don’t know how to feel

in a healthy way.

We pop pills,

shoot up,

smoke up,

drink up,

just to feel anything other than

what we’re feeling.

We rely on our dealers

as if they’re giving us the

breath of life we need in

order to survive.

It comes to a point where

it isn’t fun anymore,

but becomes a way of survival.

Addiction is repeatedly calling

anyone and everyone who can

get you drugs.

Doesn’t matter if it’s 3

I’m the afternoon or 3

in the morning.

Addiction is doing things

you swore you’d never do,

it’s doing things that you

never imagined or saw

yourself doing.

Then you get so disgusted

with yourself,

so you use more and more

and more.

You get caught up in the

the chaos.

Addiction is wanting to quit,

but not wanting to be sick.

Addiction is using just to

function.

You think you have it all

figured out.

You think you have everyone

fooled.

But sooner or later the party

has to come to an end.

Either by getting clean.

Going to jail.

Or ultimately, death.

Living clean is hard.

Staying away from drugs

is easy.

It’s learning how to come

back into the fold of

society that’s hard.

Every day a battle to stay

clean.

But a clean lifestyle

is better than numbing

the pain.

“Love is when other person’s happiness is more important to you than your own.”

—

Loving

Love such a beautiful dream,

We all want a kind of love,

That seems out of this world,

The one which everyone craves,

And keeps looking for everywhere.

But no one ever taught us,

The most loving is self love,

You'll never ever feel complete,

Without loving yourself first.

Oh how euphoric it feels,

I can't even explain,

It's like sugar in my veins,

Like cotton candy in my brain,

Like fireworks in my heart,

Like gazing at the stars,

Like a dreamingly sighing,

Feels like the breeze cutting through your hair,

Like the amazing smell of your favorite flower,

Or reading something you like,

There are so many things which can describe,

The feeling of loving yourself,

It's seems so funny to explain,

I can't even comprehend.

Hearing yourself giggling alone,

And falling in love with the sound,

Peaking inside your heart,

And loving the person who you are.

Stop looking for love outside,

Just give yourself a part of love,

That you seem to be giving everyone else,

And I give you my word,

You'll never feel so loving,

Except for this,

I've always craved unconditional love,

But now I understand,

No one is going to give that to you,

More better than yourself.

So be a little more loving,

To yourself than everyone else.

-s.b.

What if she leave you, will you able to live?

When things are not going right in ur life,u see everything which u never thought too that one day u will think about that..

I was not able to sleep from last 48 hour's the thought of seperation has made me distorted completely from head to toe my whole body was as boiling as like my pressure cooker,i don't know the reason why it was happening i haven't eaten from last 3 days just sitting in the corner of the room and thinking about something which is hard to explain in words,hope words are made to explain that penetrating feeling which i was going with it.

It was not the first time that i was feeling that loneliness it has happened in past too but that was just a childish one ,when u don't know what u are doing,u don't have any idea that school times loves..

Now a days people say just baby "i will not be able to live without u'' there is no life without you please don't leave me,it's like requesting water to flow against the shore..

Why do we get so attached to a person ?

Why does it all happens at the just age from 20's to 30's?

Why we are not able to live without that person?

It's all emotions like,anger,sadness,love,compassion and joy, we can't control that but we can manage it with our thought's..

Emotions are the part of life..

See ur parents they are the same guy who were so pampered in childhood so attached to their parent's they also use to say without maa i will not be able to live but they are managing you and your family..

That's how we live in family

Everything is made to happen..

Be grateful for each thing

Nothing is permanent ,everything is temprory..

Love

Ankit

What if i need

Somebody to love?

Please tell

Will u will be

there at my worst?

What if i need

Somebody to love..❤

I know my baby

The whole world,

Even the destiny is

Going to against us..

I just need somebody

Like u to love❤

What if i need

Somebody to love?

Just answe me

Will u will be

There at my worst?

To give me

One more hug?

I just need somebody

Like u to love❤

I promise

That would not

Be the last

Although i know

I hurt you,

That was just

My fault..

Will u will.

Be forgiving

That thought ?

I just need somebody

Like u to love❤

Please tell

My baby

I know at that

Time the whole

World,will be

Against us..

But at last

I need somebody

Like u to love?❤

Sometimes we think that our life has been messed up, screwed up, nothing has been left in life. we all go from these kind's of thought in our daily life, believe me, it's normal, it's completely normal you can't be positive every time in life. In the race of perfection and imperfection, whatever you do you will always be going to feel incomplete and imperfect about yourself, yes that's the harsh reality of this world we have got everything and we crave for everything "

8 Uncomfortable Truths that We All Need to Accept

Happiness is where you are now, or nowhere at all.

It’s not a new relationship, it’s not a new job. It’s not a completed goal, and it’s not a new car.

Until you give up on the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will never be where you are.

2. Quitting is for winners.

Contrary to popular opinion, quitting is for winners. Knowing when to quit, change direction, leave a toxic situation, demand more from life, give up on something that isn’t working and move on, is a very important skill that people who win at life all seem to have.

But don’t quit because it’s hard.

Quit because it sucks.

3. If they really wanted to, they would.

If you apply pressure, they’ll do what you want them to.

If you take the pressure off, you’ll see what they’d rather do.

Never waste your life fighting what someone would rather do.

Let them go. Move on. Do better.

4. Taking no risk is the biggest risk.

You have to risk failure to succeed.

You have to risk rejection to be accepted.

You have to risk heartbreak to love.

If you’re always avoiding risk, you’re risking missing out on life.

5. Call yourself out.

The most common reason why people keep making the same mistakes is because their insecure ego prevents them from taking responsibility for their ‍

own bullshit, their own toxic traits and their own mistakes.

6. Closure is your choice.

Closure isn’t an apology, or justice, or answers.

That’s insecurity.

If the situation made you feel awful, seeking closure by reopening it is insanity.

Closure isn’t something htye can give you.

Closure is moving on. Closure is your choice.

‍7. If you’re happy alone, you’ll be happier together.

There is no type of affection that can fill the void of a person who doesn’t love themselves already.

There is no independence  in dependency.

There is no personal security in attaching yourself to a secure person.

Until you have a healthy relationship with yourself, you won’t make healthy decisions about someone else

8. It’s not your job to fix damaged people.

Your responsibility to hep someone will never outweigh their responsibility to help themselves.

But, it’s worth asking yourself why you resonated so strongly with someone that so desperately needed “fixing” in the first place.

Often, our own toxic romantic and non-romantic attachments tell a story about an issue we have within ourselves.

“Perhaps many things inside you have been transformed; perhaps somewhere, someplace deep inside your being, you have undergone important changes while you were sad.”

— Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet

I’m honestly thinking about you right now. Yes, you. I hope that you’re doing alright, that you’re enjoying those simple gifts present in your life, and that you realize how magnificent you truly are and will always be. Please, please take care of yourself today, friend. -nicole addison

Abhay was lost

When ridhi left her..!

Abhay have never expierenced although he had read thousands of quotes and book on the most intrested and heated topic that is "love"

Abhay always get curious that how did people would feel after an intense breakup?

What would be going on in their mind,what t would be perspective did they wanna kill themself or others?

They would be happy or sad?

Why after breakup a person like kabir turned into an alchoholic and drug addict?

These kinds of questions crumbled in his mind everytime he read love stories..

Why is hard to digest seperation

Believe me now a days everybody wants to come in relationships,fall in love,but they don't know how to deal with it if something miserable happened..

Government and scientist should do survey in this topic as it's the most trending and heated one,the one who never reads the columns of TOI would even read it with patiently,as it contains powerful word "love"

It gives u butterfly everytime u talk to someone u forget everything,time,place,condition health u just want to flow in the shores happily.

Love is hard to get now a days as people have much more faces then the ravan had,and all the faces are hidden you can't get what's going on their mind..

To fall in love is dangerous people should paste in their bio as caution be careful " danger ahead" !