Why Practicing Your Dream Self Privately is so Important
We all have versions of ourselves we want to be. Let’s call her “She.”
She may be smart, beautiful, oh-so-sophisticated, knows exactly what She’s doing when walks into a room full of unknown people, accomplished…everything you’re aching to be.
You’re struggling to achieve Her because you’re not used to being Her. You keep that version 2.0 of yourself in your thoughts but you don’t practice it irl.
Not practicing it means that when you suddenly have to turn on your charm or have to remember etiquette in the presence of company, you can’t seem to recall those practices. Perhaps you might even feel uncomfortable, shy or awkward trying to remember all those talking points you had noted down, the “elegant gestures” that one tiktoker talks about constantly… suddenly you’re wondering how on Earth you can leave this godawful event without seeming rude.
The problem is lack of practice. You’re so used to sitting on your couch at home with your legs spread wider than a man on a metro seat that it feels uncomfortable to now sit in a mannered way at the office dinner with the important employees. Your stomach is so used to gobbling down food without patience that you look longingly at the bread basket longer than the person seated in front of you.
So therefore, if at home you’re not used to being even half of your best self, how are you going to feel fully confident when you’re supposed to bring “Her” out?
Obviously being fully dolled up at home makes little sense. But if you don’t practice the manners, the behaviour, the etiquette of Her - how will you comfortably transition into Her?
Do you expect to just wake up someday and become Her? Do you not think that it will take time, energy, practice to get what you want?
No amount of senseless manifesting or daydreaming is going to make your dreams come true.
Certain habits, gestures, expressions will only come naturally to you when you make them natural to yourself by way of practice.
You’ve read enough, saved and liked enough posts, you’ve learned all the mumbo jumbo theory to getting your life together but it’s all useless if you don’t put your learnings to practice irl.
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Honestly one of the things that helped me shifting was not giving a fuck anymore I just had it w this reality and all I said was " fuck this shit,I'm tired of this I'm shifitng tonight" suprise suprise I shifted the same night
ever notice how a lot of us can't let go of grudges/drama in this community? what about the supposed cyberstalking? the fake accounts? the bullying?
i've come to blame our individual placements instead of our shared synastry. gathered in one place online there is likely an usually high amount of 8h/12h people. its a spiritual community after all - 8h loves taboo things, the occult, the unknown, dark aspects of the self, etc. 12h loves spirituality, hypotheticals, learning about karmic cycles and fate, etc. neither one is a fan of secrets and prefers to look behind the veil. myself included in that - i have 8h sun, moon, and mercury AND 12h uranus.
but 8h people are often obsessive and struggle to let things go if they aren't working with their placement(s). 12h placements are our "hidden enemies" - i realize a lot of us know who is who behind the "fake account" but often we only have another username to connect to the secondary (tertiary, etc) account and no actual real life names. neither can stand not knowing what someone is likely saying about them, so they peak at those who blocked them or who they blocked with another account.
we (humanity) hate not having control - that's why a lot of us are on here in this community to begin with. we seek understanding and making the unconscious conscious. the hunger for control is what drives a lot of people, but often 8h/12h people seek it the most. we seek it because at some point we lacked it (in terms of "trauma responses"). these placements are well known in the community for going through hardships and struggles in life - that's why a lot of us react the way we do. personally, i withdraw. i am someone who struggles to say no. i will shut down and say/do whatever i must just to survive fallout - survive the day or weekend and not get yelled at or bullied. i'm not a fan of sides - i'll pick myself if i must, as imperfect, immature, etc as i can be.
social media gives this illusion that we know each other more than we do. even when it seems like someone here has it more together than another person that doesn't make it true. we have all gone through something - we all have personal stuff going on outside of this community. no one is going to always have a perfect and mature response - it's just not how life is.
no one is perfect; we are all learning as we go. at some point, if we can't forgive and grow together, i have to wonder why we are here to begin with. this community doesn't get bigger it only gets smaller when we are picking sides, blocking each other, etc. do what you have to do to protect your peace, but let's stop perpetuating hatred with anons and multiple accounts. give grace. be kind.
thanks for listening to me ramble.
-a.d.
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Hey guys, I just wanted to give you a huge update after affirming "I am God," starting last night and today throughout the day. So, when I started to affirm I am God, within seconds I started to see flashes of white light. I have experienced this before, but not to the intensity, and my whole body and bed were vibrating. I thought I was going to fly. On top of that, saying that affirmation seemed to have overstimulated me and I suddenly felt very energised. I had a hard time sleeping last night afterwards, but this morning I woke up feeling completely refreshed as if I did actually sleep last night. It was bizarre, there was no sign of sleep deprivation. Can someone please explain if they experienced something like this before?
This morning, I was running late for work, it usually takes me 10 minutes to get there and I had 8 minutes to go. I affirmed to myself that I would get there 2 minutes before my shift started, which would have been impossible due to the time. I think I froze time because I got there 2 minutes before my shift started!!!! Today, I also had a customer be kind of rude to me, and usually I would spiral. When I felt myself get sad, I instantly reminded myself that I was God, and I felt an instant sense of calm and peace. I told myself: "This never happened. I'm revising this shit." So yeah I revised it, I guess, because it doesn't bother me and doesn't feel real anymore? If that makes sense.
As you guys know, one of the things I was trying to manifest for fun was red hair and guess what??!!! MY HAIR IS TURNING RED I HAVE STRANDS OF RED HAIR!!!!!!
Overall, I also felt so happy and invincible today. I don't react to the 3D anymore. To be perfectly honest I haven't ever been this happy before. When you feel it you will know it, it's a euphoric feeling that is indescribable. I really feel like reality is at the palm of my hands and I can manifest anything instantly and I just keep persisting. Another thing I noticed is that I view affirming "I am God" not from lack of feeling like I am God, but a reassurance that I AM GOD. Honestly I haven't been affirming all day either, I do it from time to time and it makes me so happy affirming it.
From now on I'm going to affirm "I am God" and "It takes me less than 5 minutes to enter the void" and update you all as time goes by. Please everyone, give this affirmation a try. You will see so many amazing results, it is groundbreaking on your manifestation journey. I am so happy...
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Capricorn Sun
― a desire to be recognised for their efforts to build structures in society which stand the test of time. the ego is connected to work and the results that come from it. mastery, over themselves/and or others. feels like they have the right to take over when the ship is sinking. levels of vitality are connected to their judgement of their current position in life. material success is desired, but it won’t satisfy them wholly. incredibly resilient; they’ve often had to be solution-focused for themselves and others. can hold themselves back by focusing on things of a base nature, as opposed to integrating the spiritual side of life, too. can provide encouragement to others on perseverance and moulding the future to how you would like to see it.
Capricorn Moon
― structure is given to the changeable nature of the moon. the heat of the moment extended. too much self-imposed restraint could hinder them when it comes to relating to others. could worry about appropriate ways to display emotions. there can be a strong emotional need to be respected by their peers, family, and society. often goes through tough times with just themselves to comfort them. hates feeling like a burden to people. may prefer to socialise at work events where structures are in place. not ones to ask for advice, unless they really want to hear what you have to say. prefers brutal honesty from people, because they know they can take it. needs to be careful that they don’t use their suffering in life/what they’ve been through to demand respect from others. sensitive to disappointment and favours, with strings attached.
Capricorn Mercury
― a mind tinged with seriousness as they tend to think in terms of longevity. a cynical outlook on life can alienate those around them. great at schmoozing with those they respect. great at giving age-old advice to those they care about. in conversation, they are ones to hold back so they can gauge the other person’s character. they are motivated to learn by persistence, ambition and steady progress in life. methodical and thorough in whatever they do. needs to be able to apply what they learn to the real world. the mind can be too preoccupied with the next step to appreciate the present moment. the straight and narrow may offer them a sense of comfort. can be great at brainstorming ways to revamp something that will hold up in the long run.
Capricorn Venus
― relationships either have potential, or they don’t. appreciates a partner that wants to make something of themselves. independent lovers from the outside looking in, but they can be real dorks with their partners. may struggle putting themselves out there due to low self-esteem. may cringe at compliments about their beauty but do better with hearing how powerful, independent, strong, focused they are for example. an aloof, impersonal approach can have them feeling protected but ward off potential suitors. the type of people to dress humbly but the labels tell a different story. doesn’t need a huge friendship group, just solid people. attracted to people that step up to the plate with them, not add more weight for them to carry in a partnership.
Capricorn Mars
― a savvy nature that encourages making decisions to set themselves up for success in the future. acknowledges goals take time and effort. may feel that once they tell people about their ambitions, they may face criticism or rejection. positions of importance may be easy for them to obtain, but they need to be careful that they wield this power wisely. the comeback kid. anger can appear restrained, but it’s more so that they will not waste their breath on something they consider below their standards. discipline is highlighted with this placement, the lack of or the abundance of; usually there isn’t a middle ground here. motivated by material security. when it comes to sex, they like to call the shots, and then sometimes move the pieces on the board.
Capricorn Jupiter
― seeks to grow and improve themselves by doing right in society and/or their personal ambitions. opportunities for expansion can manifest when they surround themselves with the people they aspire to be like, implement the habits of the movers and shakers in society and share what they’ve learnt in life. the risk-taking ability can be stifled by wanting to know the outcome. needs to recognise intuitive hits and act on them. should follow their dreams, not what they think a dream is. their outlook on life may be something passed down in their family. they can teach others about the significance of determination, character and grit. great at building people up.
Capricorn Saturn
― can feel blocked in their ability to make something of themselves in the material world, feeling resentment when they see their peers being rewarded in terms of wealth or positions for example. giving up before they start is something they need to watch out for. but usually, success does come but later. tradition often plays a major role in the life with some feeling it is something they have to live up to or sometimes defend themselves against. skilled at navigating the social ladder and attracting respect from those higher up than them who could open doors for them. often take on more they need to carry and experience burnout. needs to take a break sometimes, and not berate themselves for it.
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Find your 10th lord here, and find your 10th lord's nakshatra here.
The 10th house rules our life's honor. It represents the services we perform for society as well as the reputation we earn as a result. It is associated with the father and the career because traditionally, this is where both our standing in society and the role we performed in society would come from - inherited through the father's family line. However, in our contemporary world, this isn't always the case, which is why it's important to know the grander themes at play.
The three Sun-ruled nakshatras are Krittika, Uttara Phalguni, and Uttara Ashadha.
The sun is the planetary object that represents what we make of ourselves. It is not our most base self (the Ascendant) or what our experiences make of us (the moon). Instead, it is how our decisions define us. Growth, and personal development must all come through the sun in some way - because success, while partially circumstantial, is also dependent on us pursuing joy, or even just allowing ourselves some happiness in whatever form we find it. Essentially, the sun is who we choose to be - and who we might be if we put forth the effort to flourish rather than just survive.
Katharine Hepburn, Cardi B, and Eartha Kitt all have their tenth lords in Sun ruled nakshatras. Katharine's is in Krittika, Cardi's is in Uttara Phalguni, and Eartha's is in Uttara Ashadha.
This placement is a ticket to a rising status - which is good, because individuals with this placement have an inborn need to improve their station, and then to improve the world through their new influence. They come across as effortlessly magnetic to the public, and yet, to their peers, they remain thoroughly relatable. They are capable of spearheading projects that nobody else would have the courage to even consider, but they may allow their ego or pride to dictate how they handle their responsibilities to society.
As for famous natives, well, fame is the wheelhouse of the sun, particularly in terms of popularity. The term cult of personality comes to mind, as it is these natives who come to immense profit simply by acting like themselves. In turn, this is the only placement where benefitting from fame nepotism is more bad than good, as the native's sun is eclipsed by the star that already hung in the sky, after having risen to prominence of its own accord. Regardless, this is a generous placement, and a lot of philanthropy can be traced back to these celebrity natives, even before it was trendy.
Shakira, Lon Chaney, and Billie Lourd all have their tenth lords in Krittika. Others with this placement are Christina Applegate, Franz Kafka, Wayne Newton, Alan Turing, Sandra Bullock, Vanessa Hudgens, Mae Whitman, Russell Crow, Alexandre Dumas, Bing Crosby, and Karl Marx.
Create and receive positive energy with your public interactions.
Have trouble maintaining consistency with your work habits.
Have more precise control of your physical body and its movements when you are being observed or reviewed.
Are passionate about various social causes and have strong ideas about how they should be handled.
Have no patience for dishonesty or deception when it comes to professional relationships.
Criticism and skepticism comes naturally to you, and you are compelled to communicate your skepticism for better or worse.
You are involved in workplace affairs, tempted to be involved in workplace affairs, or find they are common wherever you work.
Diplomacy, which may or may not be a skill of yours when handling private manners, becomes much more difficult in the workplace or when the matters are made public.
You are more temperamental, fiery, or easy to anger at work and in public than you are at home or in private.
You end up responsible for a lot of "cutting" and 'shaving' in the workplace - physical, like shredding papers or chopping ingredients, or figurative, like budget cuts.
KRITTIKA is the Star of Fire. Industries and career types favored are those involving crafts that depend on heat and fire, critiquing, oversight, education, spirituality, cutting or needlework, modeling, fashion and styling, military, building contracting, and leadership.
Rami Malek, Fiona Apple, and Kirsten Dunst all have their tenth lords in Uttara Phalguni. Others with this placement are Austin Butler, Mae West, Adam Driver, William Wordsworth, Samuel Adams, and Rachel Miner.
Are naturally attuned to social graces, traditions, and etiquette.
Come across as straight-forward, likable, and friendly in public.
Are ambitious and productive, so advancement comes easily.
Swing between excessive generosity to others, and entitled or ungrateful behavior for what you are given.
Hold yourself and others to high standards in the name of maintaining your ego.
People you meet in public or through work are compelled to do favors for you - or you for them depending on situations - which may lead to treatment from your superiors that peers find unfair.
Opening up about hardships, turmoil, or conflict in a public setting is grossly uncomfortable and embarrassing to you.
Your relationships attract unwarranted attention, with others treating them as scandals rather than your personal business.
Ending things is always impossibly messy for you, and you have a hard time fully completing anything with any satisfaction.
You allow sentimentality, patience, and generosity to sucker you into enabling the poor behavior of strangers or coworkers.
Luxury and comfort become a top priority in your line of work, regardless of whether that's because you seek it out in those circumstances, or if it's a matter of meeting work standards.
UTTARA PHALGUNI is the Star of Patronage. Industries and career types favored are those involving entertainment, performance and public speaking, counseling, philanthropy, diplomacy, patriotism, service, animals, food and nutrition, caretaking, mathematics, sales, and personality management.
Dolly Parton, Jeff Bridges, and Saint Bernadette all have their tenth lords in Uttara Ashadha. Others with this placement are Billy Joel, Justin Timberlake, Napoleon Bonaparte I, Patsy Cline, Otto Von Bismarck, Umberto Eco, Lady Iris Mountbatten, Shia LaBeouf, Betrand Russell, and Peter Jackson.
Are modest and down-to earth, but also ambitious and idealistic.
Network perfectly naturally, without strategy, with great results.
End up creatively or intellectually absorbed in any projects that engage the public or your profession, always digging deeper.
Are susceptible to flattery, and get frustrated when people don't appreciate your efforts or don't react as you want them to.
Act like a martyr for work-related stress, despite it being a result of your own choices and priorities.
Things come much, much easier to you when you handle them in public or at work, rather than other settings or environments.
Work or public service projects that you start nearly always prosper, not just to the end you had in mind, but beyond that.
Others treat you as moral authority as you're compelled to speak up when you witness injustice in public or in the workplace
Reading and learning has benefitted you, and helped you to stick out as particularly knowledgable or skilled in your career.
You face adversity early in your career, only for success to come quickly and plentifully once you are older and more established.
Both traveling for work and finishing projects brings you more trouble than it feels like its worth.
UTTARA ASHADHA is the Universal Star. Industries and career types favored are those involving authority, judgment, leadership, religion, exploring, discovery, combat sports, athletics, defense, preservation, construction, archives, research, and causes.
Venus in Sagittarius
“We need love, but all we want is danger, we team up then switch sides like a record changer.
Venus in Sagittarius is the enticing spark of the refined and radiant Venus. Sagittarian Venusians float from one love interest to the other, wanting to expand their horizons, looking for someone to stimulate and relate to their yearning for freedom.
This Venus placement represents a new generation of lovers, they search for something profound and exciting, but not necessarily emotionally. Their kind of love is revolutionary and they seek to enjoy themselves and others and to not get too caught up in the details and sappy love letters that relationships usually consist of.
They are fun loving, optimistic and exhilarating in their relationships. These Venusians look for someone who can ignite and expand their fiery passion for love and will make them feel like they have found what they’ve been looking for all their lives.
They look for someone who is adventurous, is brave and will not be fazed by their constant need of freedom and expansion. They fall in love quickly and intensely for their object of affection, which they will pursue with vigor and expect the same towards them.
People with this placement feel dissatisfied very easily, they may have many serial monogamous or polyamorous relationships with people because they feel as if their dreams aren’t being fulfilled or aren’t being intellectually stimulated enough and they may depart without a trace if they get bored.
Throughout their lives they travel, party and celebrate the world and its possibilities and along the way they eventually find their lone wolf, the person that they settle down with and are willing to take on their adventure through life and that connection is what really makes them feel free.
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most prominent when aspecting venus, ascendant, or mc and in 1H, 8H, or 10H
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aphrodite (1388)
shows your sexual attractiveness
bella (695)
what features you have that are most beautiful physically as well as beautiful traits in your persona
tantalus (2102)
what makes others desire you
eros (433)
similar to aphrodite
hera (103)
represents goddess beauty
sirene (1009)
how well you can manipulate others with your beauty and charm
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This post is about calling a trick ass bitch out for stealing MY work and other individuals work from tumblr. I’ve stalked this girls page throughly and I have read many things I’ve seen on here. This account is clearly stealing and plagiarizing others work and taking it as their own for clout on TikTok.
If you follow me @aastrobabe, get a fucking life and come up with your own shit you trick ass bitch. And I know karma will come for bitches like you eventually💅🏻
I will be posting things from her account from which I have seen on tumblr and ONLY on tumblr. I sadly do not know who’s work she has stolen personally because she is plagiarizing all of her content. None of it is her own nor originally her own.
If you know the original creators, please give them credit in the comments.
Go report this TikTok account PLEASE. She will block you instantly if you try to comment (what a surprise🤡) or personally message the people who follow her. Just report the account because this bitch does not deserve the clout nor credit she is taking.
I know I’m being petty, but seriously, fuck this bitch and her “astrology is the cheat code to life” account.
This post is about you, Aastrobabe.😩✋🏻