新村あかり Kinbaku KAI

shibari figurines by constant heaven

consent is fucking hot

The NC part of CNC is almost always what's focused on in every CNC concept, literature, video etc. And yeah, it's cool and all. But the consent in CNC? It's the main event. The foundation. It's everything.

non-consent is often emphasised cause it's the alluring part, the risky part, it feels like it's the thing that makes CNC what it is. But it pales in comparison to the consent aspect.

Like, here you've got a sub who is so devoted to you, so longing and needy that they want to give you full, raw control. They trust you to look after them with their whole being; they want to give you everything. They feel so safe around you that they're willing to fully submit to the idea of giving you what you want when you want it. There's just something so great about the fact that a sub is consenting to—asking; begging to—be completely beneath you, to being nothing, defiled, cause they want you. They love you. They know that you will keep them safe above all else.

And don't forget the aftercare!! The soothing cuddles and warm baths. The "you did so well, baby, I'm so proud of you," The reassuring that your sub is important and safe, making sure they're okay, ugh. It's just all so wholesome.

Don't agree with me? then get out of here. Consent is important and the hottest thing; it trumps every kink, soft or hard.

Rope art by Zevsa

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Gesture drawing by Dorian Vallejo

Damn, i need a good little sub. If only to have a body to practice ropework on. I can be quite thorough with my knots. Perhaps i'll lure some inocent an naive little slut saying "oh, it's completely platonic. i just need the practice." somone who is already into it and have an apreciation for the craft. Step into my parlour said the spider to the fly. I'll spend a couple of minutes, half an hour perhaps, tying them up. And as their eyes glaze over and their tiny little mind recede into subspace i'll strike. It's too late for them anyway; their limbs already stuck to other limbs and their body ripe for exploitation. I'll penetrat them, rough, selfish. i'll use them. there is no resistance.

Maybe they knew it was going to happen, maybe they didn't. regardless, their mine now.