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consent is fucking hot

The NC part of CNC is almost always what's focused on in every CNC concept, literature, video etc. And yeah, it's cool and all. But the consent in CNC? It's the main event. The foundation. It's everything.

non-consent is often emphasised cause it's the alluring part, the risky part, it feels like it's the thing that makes CNC what it is. But it pales in comparison to the consent aspect.

Like, here you've got a sub who is so devoted to you, so longing and needy that they want to give you full, raw control. They trust you to look after them with their whole being; they want to give you everything. They feel so safe around you that they're willing to fully submit to the idea of giving you what you want when you want it. There's just something so great about the fact that a sub is consenting to—asking; begging to—be completely beneath you, to being nothing, defiled, cause they want you. They love you. They know that you will keep them safe above all else.

And don't forget the aftercare!! The soothing cuddles and warm baths. The "you did so well, baby, I'm so proud of you," The reassuring that your sub is important and safe, making sure they're okay, ugh. It's just all so wholesome.

Don't agree with me? then get out of here. Consent is important and the hottest thing; it trumps every kink, soft or hard.

Oliver Marinkoski

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Rope art by Zevsa

I like the use of rings to guide the ropes

• interaction

Rope art by Zevsa

Enough psychoanalysing why people have kinks. We need to psycholanalyse why they don't. Like you don't enjoy getting tied up? Clearly your tumultuous upbringing has given you a patholgical need to be in control at all times. Don't like fauxcest? That's because your petite-bourgeois class background means you view the nuclear family as a pure and sacred institution, automatically reviling anything that undermines or subverts this. Not into piss? That's easy; you're scared of the piss gnomes

Black people also practice Shibari. // My Collection for Black is Beautiful.

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Some of my favorite phrases/comments to make in a scene/dirty talk w reasons why:

“Who the fuck said you could talk to me like that?” Gives them a chance to decide what direction they want it to go, by defiance or willful submission

“I can tell you want it from looking at you, and yet I’d like it even better if you fucking begged.” Consent check disguised as dirty talk, but make sure they know this before hand

“No no no, don’t you dare close your eyes. You look at me when I’m fucking you, understood?” Keeps some people grounded, keeps them in the moment and gives a feeling of intimacy I feel has been ignored in the BDSM scene.

“Keep acting like this, yeah, it’s cute I promise. Pathetic (title)s are my favorite when they whine.” Another consent check, plus it gives the illusion (a sub is always in control in a healthy sub/dom dynamic as it’s them allowing control) that they are being degraded when in reality (for me) I just wanna know if they are enjoying themselves

“Praise yourself and I may actually let you cum, depends.” Making someone praise themselves to cum is cute because it’s A) humiliating/embarrassing and B) encouraging to a lot of people that you actually care, because who would ask for them to praise themselves if you didn’t care?

“You like that?” Another consent check

“God you really are so handsome/petty/etc, im so lucky, aren’t I?” Praise is a huge thing for me, sub or dom, they need to know that I value them even in degrading/harsh scenes.

“You’ve been so good for me, you’ve got this, it’s ok to let go” i use this one specifically either in the middle or end of a scene, praise and clarifying safety, it’s a part of my aftercare routine

“You have three seconds to quit the fucking attitude before I fix it.” Similar to number 1 but mainly used on brats

“Look at you, a pretty little thing aren’t you?” Another praise one, best used if you have a mirror, I especially love this if it’s the morning after with the marks (if any) on their skin

With or without a blindfold? 🤔

And now for something a little different 👀🖤Here’s a clip of myself and leviathan dauntless performing for SEAF produced by twisted windows video courtesy of Russel Harmon

TREVOR BROWN

I theorize the reason "bottoms" appear more prevalent than "tops" on these types of spaces is that it is simply easier to be funny about being a bottom than about being a top without sounding like a sex offender

"uuuuu 🥺 pls cock me aaaaaaaa *runs into wall like Wile E Coyote running into his own tunnel painting*" easy as shit comedy

"I want to put my DICK in someone" whoa dude calm down, take it easy

尼采_成都

And now for something a little different 👀🖤Here’s a clip of myself and leviathan dauntless performing for SEAF produced by twisted windows video courtesy of Russel Harmon

Paris Fairy Salon Mars 2022

Artistic direction by me

vinnifantastic

Anyway here’s the original clip with curiouskatxo

'Traveler's Room'. Marcin Kolpanowicz.

Mariano Peccinetti

Say your prayers, Brittany Shepherd

Fairy tales by 冯伟 Feng Wei（c12）

Pact