Disgust has absolutely no ethical weight. If you are basing your ethical positions on the emotion of disgust you should stop, it is entirely unjustified and leads to a huge amount of harm.
oftentimes when you look back on media you enjoyed as a child it's like hello why did they let a 14 year old fight a dragon? but star wars holds up. luke is 19. his reaction to losing his whole family is to say "alright, let's do this. I'm gonna learn to meditate and hire a sexy drug dealer and his friend who's a furry to be my uber across the galaxy so I can blow up a fascist government" that's something only a 19 y/o would do
me: I triple dog dare you t-
the puppygirl: triple dog?
me: no I just-
puppygirl: where triple dog
me: it's just a turn of ph-
the ol' P-girl: I'll get the cuck chair
me: we don't have a c-
pupmaxxing girlmoder: awoooo
yeah i have an outside husband lol i know its unethical but he just loves exploring
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Pro tip for interacting with traumatized trans girls; if they tell you something about their past, there's decent odds that the 'correct' response is something along the lines of "Hey. It's fucked up that that happened to you. You didn't deserve that. You are allowed to feel fucked up about that because they shouldn't have treated you that way."