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Lee says:

Gathering up the #nsfw transfeminine resources!

Masturbation:

NSFW-ish tips

Masturbation, Relationships, and Sex: A Guide for Trans and Gender Variant People

Alternate Masterbation Technique For Trans*Women

Submission: An Alternate Masturbation Technique for Trans Women

Sex Toys for Trans Women

Another list of sex toys for trans women

Transfeminine specific: Having sex and masturbating [Broken link?]

Relationships:

10 Essential Dating Tips For Trans Women

Trans-friendly dating apps

Sex:

Talking to your partner about having sex

Coping with dysphoria while having sex

How to Have Lesbian Sex With a Trans Woman

A Guide to Muffing: The Hidden Way to Finger Trans Women

Your First Time: A Sexual Guide for Non-Binary People Working Through Trauma

Safer sex

How to put a condom on

Having sex and STIs

Consent

All About Birth Control Methods

What is consent, assault & harassment?

Don’t let lube slip your mind! / All About Lube

Safer sex for trans bodies

How I Started To Learn Trans Sex Ed (And How You Can, Too)

Here Is A Worksheet To Help You Talk To Partners About Sex

Harnesses For Trans* Women

Sexual activities that aren’t penis-in-vagina sex

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I need some help with dysphoria. I'm not able to start E for about another year or two, but I'm really dysphoric about my hair in general. I haven't been able to grow it out, so that's one thing that bothers me, but also it's starting to recede and thin, and I need support and advice for preventing it as much as possible and cope with how much I've lost already. Sorry, long ask, its just really bothering me and worrying me.

Hi anon! I’m sorry you’re feeling nervous and dysphoric. I know that feeling and it really sucks. 

If you’re able, I’d talk to your doctor about hair regrowth treatments. There are medications out there that can help slow or stop hair loss, depending on a few factors. Unfortunately, since I am not a doctor, I don’t know what drugs are good options for you or if there are any safe OTC drugs you could look into. 

The good news is, there are trans women who had receded hairlines pre-E who have beautiful long, natural hair now. There are some examples of them in the Before and After tag. 

I hope you’re able to get the help you need soon!

Please help... My abusive father is making me get a haircut, despite him knowing how much distress it causes me. Its either I get it cut or get kicked out so do you have any pictures of feminine short haircuts cuz my hair isn't that long anyways. (trans girl if looking for clarification)

Hey there,

I’m really sorry that you’re in this situation! I hope you’re able to get somewhere safe and healthy soon, and that you’ve got a support system now.

Pixie cuts are pretty feminine short cuts. Kpop guys tend to have pretty androgynous haircuts as well. “Skater boy”/Justin Bieber haircuts are also good for someone who wants longer or shorter hair cut can’t get it (true trans masc and trans fem solidarity). There are lots of pictures online if you google it, and you’ll know better than me what pictures your dad would accept.

Good luck, and I hope you’re able to get the haircut you want soon. :)

On the flip side of the coin to the anon who asked about whether going on T would force you to have a wardrobe change, what about going on E?

Harper says:Heya!So part of the effects of feminising hormone replacement therapy (HRT) includes body fat redistribution, and decreased muscle mass. So depending on what body you already have, and how you respond to HRT, the effects on HRT on your wardrobe will differ a lot!As to forcing you to change your wardrobe, I’d say there’s not a lot that would be a specific result of HRT in the departments of decreased muscle mass and fat redistribution. Things like your diet and how you exercise will affect how these things happen to you and to what degree.Generally speaking, ‘HRT causes the body to accumulate new fat in a typically feminine pattern, including in the hips, thighs, buttocks, pubis, upper arms, and breasts… The body begins to burn old adipose tissue in the waist, shoulders, and back, making those areas smaller.’ (from Wikipedia; original source.)As mentioned in the quote, your breasts will grow too. You may then consider wearing a bra, and you may have to for comfort if your breasts grow to a size that is uncomfortable without support, or if you choose to undergo breast augmentation that has the same affect.You may also see your junk decrease in size, making wearing certain underwear easier, making tucking easier, or making it easier to wear tight dresses without your stuff making curves or bulges where you may not want them.I’d also like to say that all of these effects happen over time at various rates to different people. So if you do need to adjust your wardrobe you’ll have plenty of time to do so.Hope this helps!

Some advice for dressmakers:

1. Pockets are a thing. 2. Breasts are a thing.

Leave room in your design for both.

Are there any LGBT dating sites/apps that aren't Grindr? I'm over 18 so age isn't an issue, but the amount of transphobic people on Grindr (I'm a pansexual trans girl, pre-everything) and the people just looking for hookups make it impossible to use.

personally, i’ve used Her in the past. it’s original purpose was for lesbians, but it’s definitely super trans girl friendly, as well as just trans friendly in general. funnily enough it’s actually where i met my girlfriend-turned-best-friend back a few years ago. tinder is like….okay. it really depends on where you are in terms of people, but it is definitely trans friendly. interestingly enough fetlife is pretty trans friendly, but the interface is total garbage and that’s definitely more for the kink crowd and that’s not everyone’s cup of tea.

i hope this helps! 

~kacie