Call me Lark! Detrans lesbian w/ a DSD (chimerism), and 21 years old. Gender-critical. Diagnosed OCD and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Wildlife enjoyer and proud masc lesbian.
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Latest Posts by chimeraaas - Page 3
When trans people say, "Kill terfs", "rape terfs", they're using their "transness" as an excuse to be violent to women and everyone is accepting it simply because they're trans and misogynistic.
i really like the definition of “adult human female” because it says “thats all it is. its not femininity, makeup, submissiveness, softness, anything. all it is is biology. the rest is up to the individual”
homosexual man: when i came out as gay, my loving parents suddenly became extremely abusive and distant. i was sent off to a conversion therapy camp when i was a teen and the trauma that i endured still effects me today.
lesbian woman: when i came out, the youth leader believed he could 'fix' me by systematically raping me. i ran away and was forced to engage in sex work because i had no other way to make money.
bisexual person: when i came out, i was considered to be perverted, and promiscuous. i was cut off from my family and i was no longer able to access their help. i was kicked out and have been struggling with being unhoused
straight demisexual person: i didn't feel the spark on the first date, neither did i want to have sex on the second! i'm special and oppressed!!!!!!!!!!!
Gendies like to say "sex ≠ gender." And this is correct.
And if we agree that sex ≠ gender, then riddle me this: why do you people try to force your way into sex-segregated spaces and sports based on gender identity?
Could it be that you may just be incredibly dishonest people who move goalposts and change rules based on what benefits you in the moment?
For most people, life doesn’t truly begin until they’re 26-30 or older. The way we romanticize and obsess over youth is super harmful. Your life is not over at 21, I promise you. It’s just beginning
What an interesting post about a woman’s feelings! I wonder what her comments are like…
..oh!
Progressives and liberal feminists will tell you troons in women’s bathrooms are not a threat!
Honestly when I hear people say “not receiving gender affirming surgeries will make me feel suicidal” I hear the same thing as if someone said “if I don’t get a nose job I’ll feel suicidal”
It’s a physical insecurity that wouldn’t exist in a vacuum. I’m sorry that you were influenced to feel this way, but surgery will not fix something that is rooted in self-hatred. If you change it with surgery, you will find another insecurity to fixate on within a week.
Also, can we talk about how rebranding gender affirming surgery as some life-saving procedure is just promoting and glamorising a very misogynistic and corrupt industry.
reshelved ‘Females’ into where it belongs today!!!
if your feminism excludes trans people, you are not a feminist. Feminism means equality.
The definition of feminism:
The definition of radical feminism:
I am a feminist, don't you dare try to silence me just because you've been brainwashed into thinking that being trans is okay.
the transrace vs transgender thing is sooo interesting to me. like they really just picked which one would be okay and which one wouldn’t be. it’s okay for a man to put on a dress and makeup and decide he’s a woman and we all need to shut up and support him and let him in to woman’s spaces but the white girl putting clips on her eyes at night and saying she’s korean is totallyyyyy different and bad. and the tras can’t even answer what the difference is they just dance around it
it takes an inhuman amount of strength for me not to say to my they/them friend “no you were not ‘serving twink’ today you are a woman in a heterosexual marriage” at the end of a long ass day
Someone was asking about gender-critical ideology and seemed genuine, so I went to their blog and saw this ask. And like..."just doing research" is cult recruitment now? Is science in general now propaganda for the TERF lobby??
i'm still thinking about that handful of posts earlier this week that were all saying versions of "masculinity is punished"
when a tif says it, she's usually just restating basic misogyny stuff in gendie vocab
when a tim says it he usually means someone called him a creep
why won’t anybody deny reality for me????!
Are you like, stupid?
‘progressive’ misogyny is men telling women they aren’t able to be at the forefront of conversations about womanhood because it might hurt their male feelings
What women (female human beings) experience under the new administration's executive orders and subsequent introduced bills by republicans:
Potentially being charged with a felony and in some states the death penalty for taking the abortion pill or contraception pills.
Being politically forced to incubate and going through unwanted pregnancies, which will result in ~20+ years of being a caregiver to a child emotionally, financially, physically.
Rapists can now choose the mother of their offspring.
Women will be unable to medically treat sometimes life-threatening and extremely debilitating hormone cycle related conditions through contraception.
Women's healthcare is now required to also meet the needs of men (house resolution 7). In other words, honey, does your husband want you to have that hysterectomy?
What Tribes are experiencing:
A complete freeze to federal funding—the vast majority of tribal nations as sovereign yet dependent nations almost solely rely on this funding for very basic human programs (education, housing, food, elder care, youth care, protection).
What gay people are experiencing:
Rollback of gay rights and same sex marriage which allows us extremely important legal protections including allowing us into hospitals to care for our dying loved ones, property rights, etc.
What trans people experience under the new administrations executive order in comparison:
"I'll have to hide my pronouns in my social media bio :("
"I'm not able to alter my birth certificate"
Males can't be transferred to women's prisons.
Trump recognized there were two sexes.
Literal children and teenagers under 19 years old can't be pumped full of hormones or given surgeries to drastically alter/modify their sex. Adults over 19 still can.
Boys in high schools can't follow girls into locker rooms and bathrooms through just arguing they don't identify as boys.
Schools can't be federally funded (incentivized) by students believing they aren't really of their sex or by them just using different pronouns.
this is from some awful TRA ‘guide’ on how to spot terfs and why terfs are bad
there’s many things wrong with this whole ‘guide’, but one thing i found so stupid is them saying calling yourself an “adult human female” is a dog whistle or a sign of bigotry or whatever
because “adult human female” is…quite literally the definition of woman. like in almost every dictionary that is the exact definition of woman. calling yourself a woman is a bigoted terf dog whistle that is deserving of condemnation, apparently 🫠
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/03/25/woke-institutions-backpedalling-on-trans-ideology/
to all the radfems who idolize JK Rowling... does her going after asexual people open your eyes to how evil she is or are we really that far gone???
Hey ladies. You wanna know what trans "women" think of us? You really wanna know? It's disturbing, I warn you.
See that? See how they think of us as lesser? They aren't our "sisters" they are not our allies. They're just like every other porn sick, abusive, disgusting man out there. Do not fall for their whining that they "just want to pee" or "are trapped in the wrong body"
They're perfectly happy in their bodies, they love that they can hurt us by raping us. They love even more that they've created a category that makes them untouchable. Don't give them the benefit of the doubt, this is what they are.
tims will literally write graphic rape fantasies about women and how they want to “correct” lesbians but will throw a tantrum when you tell them that males shouldn’t be in women’s spaces
“We’re all viewed the same in the eyes of facists” okay and what does that have to do with the fact that you’re being actively homophobic
I wonder if women who identify as men see males as the "basic, default person" in a way. TIFs dysphoria sometimes begins with discomfort toward their breasts because they've been sexualized, or the trauma inherent in puberty and getting their period, or the expectation to wear makeup or objectifying clothing - and then they think, "Well, men don't have breasts or periods. They don't have to wear makeup or clothes like that."
I wonder if it's less about truly "feeling like a male" and more about seeing the male as the standard person who does not have all these additional problems and expectations and identifying with that.
0 males belong in female spaces, i don't care how castrated they are
Virginia Woolf, from a diary entry featured in "A Writer's Diary," originally pub. in January 1953
The only thing holding me back from the edge these days is knowing the butch experience of adopting a trans identity is actually almost universal and not as isolating and soul crushing as it feels right now. Every day I wonder if the world will ever accept me as a woman again when I look and sound the way I do. Every day I’m recovering from the confusion and self hatred that prioritizing how others perceive my gender caused. When I think about the shitty reality of how much damage my trans identity did to my body and self image, I have to remind myself that I’m not alone. All around the world, there are other butches like me suffering silently. Some are quietly detransitioning, others are stuck with that trans identity, holding the regret at bay and pretending like its all ok. Acknowledging them and feeling compassion for them is what allows me to have compassion for myself. I have hope for myself because I have hope for all of us.
We all went through adolescence envying boys because of our crushes on straight girls, we all rejected patriarchal beauty standards, we all struggled with the rise of social media, and we all mistook puberty, mental illness, sexual trauma, and internalized lesbophobia for gender dysphoria. We walked the same path right into that doctors office asking for testosterone. Right now its hard to see this first wave of detransitioners speaking out get bullied. But I have hope that in 5 more years, this generation of young butch women will be bonding over the hair loss, the surgery regret, the deep voice, the body dysmorphia, the sexual dysfunction, and the isolation of being a medically masculinized female in today’s world. We wont care that we can’t go back in time anymore, because we’ll know we aren’t alone. The worries of our youth will be left behind, and together we’ll be able to close that chapter and go on living with purpose again.
