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the thing that made me see the light re. gender ideology/trans rights movement was the whole “a woman is anyone who says they’re a woman” thing

because it doesn’t make sense. there’s no universe in which is makes sense. youre not asked to just not define something in any other arena but this issue. i just imagined if we were asked to view other things in the world this way. it’s crazy. things have to have definitions.

but these people do have a definition, even if they won’t say it. they think a woman is just someone who wears skirts and makeup. that’s why they think a woman is anyone who wants to be one. 5 year olds have a better understanding of reality.

it’s all just good old fashioned misogyny. by this logic, if a woman doesn’t wear makeup or present super feminine does that make them a man? you ask questions and all of a sudden it’s [insert sputtering TRA word salad here]

it really is just a worship of the binary. masquerading as something revolutionary. and people are frothing at the mouth to defend it. acting like it’s a human rights issue. the biggest fucking con ever.

Yes, gender ideology is the denial of female oppression. TRAs hate admitting this.

mmm yes but terfs are the misogynists actually …

TIL men consider themselves to be without human rights if they can’t legally pretend to be women

Trans activists offline.

ive been trying for weeks to find the right way to say that, the way people my age (20s) nowadays, especially those who are very lefty in their ideology, speak about having children is fucked up

ultimately i think its just fucking rude and an overcorrection to the whole "women bear the children" part of living in society

honestly i can understand being scared of the biological parts of child bearing, i sure am, but acting like a spoiled brat and being all "i would never want to give up my freedom, i dont want a screaming pooping demon in my house, blah blah blah" its like ...its just a baby... its a little human. like you once were.

maybe yeah raising a child wouldnt fit in with your lifestyle.... but i sincerely doubt it, since these kinds of people dont do much with their lives it seems except be online and buy toys for themselves even though they're grown adults.... maybe yeah they shouldnt have kids then. just wish they would be less RUDE about it - and dont demonize women who do want kids!!!

ppl on this site love to say this lmaooo . about so many things

when i say ive been in a long process of Unlearning Tumblrism/Tumblr Ideology, it means i'm:

-not putting identity/someone's labels on such a high pedestal over their qualities as a whole human being

-not reflexively being anti american. not making everything political. no not everything is political actually

-not engaging in self-degrading talk

-acknowledging my own faults and working to change for the better, instead of just blaming society for everything

-acknowledging that things are hard but you still have to do them (goes hand in hand with ^ )

-being less critical over stuff that doesnt matter in general

-spending less time with fandom, more time with life

im starting this blog as a safe space for my own refuting of gender ideology and other extremely tumblr/popular liberal-lefty ways of thinking that i dont agree with anymore now

doesnt mean im a conversative. doesnt mean im some frothing at the mouth ideologue. just want some common sense brought back.

this drives me crazy because that's literally not what feminism was about ... autonomy is part of it of course but that was a result of.. females being oppressed due to their sex.

"self determination" well unfortunately some things you just cant change. people on the left are like "you should accept this, this person cant change it" about everything EXCEPT gender, which is WILDDDD