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The Story of Salahaldin Ahmad Khalil Hor and His Family: A Journey of Struggle and Hope
Hello everyone
I am Salahaldin Ahmad Khalil Hor, 38 years old, and a father of three daughters. My life and the lives of my family have changed drastically because of the war, and I am writing to you today hoping for your support and assistance during this difficult time.
My Family
My family consists of five members: my wife, Sundus (34 years old), and my daughters, Maria (10 years old), Farah (8 years old), and Maryam (3 years old). We used to live a simple life filled with hope and ambition.
The Beginning of the Crisis
When the war broke out, we had to leave our home in the north. The family was split, with half of us staying in the north, suffering from famine and displacement, while the other half moved to the south. But even in the south, we were not safe. The house we sought refuge in was bombed, and Maria and Maryam were injured by shrapnel.
Daily Challenges
I studied accounting and obtained a master's degree in accounting and finance, aiming to advance my career and achieve my personal aspirations. However, the war prevented me from completing my thesis and destroyed my dreams of development. Our home was completely destroyed due to this brutal war. I lived in Belgium for six months, but I chose to return voluntarily to be with my daughters and not leave them alone in this ordeal.
hope and Prayer
Now, I am searching for a shelter for my family and me. My greatest wish is to reunite with my daughters and wife and start a new life together. We seek your help to overcome this ordeal and return to our normal lives. We need your support to provide medical care for our family members, continue our education, and build a better future.
A Call to Humanity
Please, I need to raise the necessary funds to leave the country and save my small family. Your support will be the hope we need to start anew, far from war and destruction. Any help you can offer, whether financial or moral, will make a significant difference in our lives. We ask you to share our story and help us raise the funds needed to evacuate to a safe place and find peace.
From the depths of our hearts, we thank you for any support you provide. We will never forget your kindness and generosity in these difficult times.
Thank you,
Salahaldin Ahmad Khalil Hor
Hi radfem tumbrl
Hello! im new on tumbrl (not really) Im going to be direct, im here to read and express myself about radical feminism. I always were a feminist but sometimes I feel a little alone about that and and never really expressed it because of my shyness. Thats why I made this space. to talk about radfem and meet radfems like me. Dont be shy to add me!
things to add about me: nothing really surprising, i am a nerd who loves random shit but in special: art books, anime, drawing and diverses ways to make art in general, feminism (duh), animals, cute things, natural spaces, biology, humand and above all female anatomy, languages and linguistic. Im a minor but i will no longer be one in a few months (yeah im kinda in crisis about that).
aaand something important to add. I am not a native english speaker, Im hispanic actually, so the way I write can be weird/very reduced so keep that in mind. XOXO.
The Myth of the White-Only Radfem
What is up with these anti-radfem/TERF people acting like only white women are radfems/TERFs? Because last time I checked, most of the radfems I’ve met are women of colour and such. I mean, there is a huge radfem movement in South America, and parts of Asia, Africa, and Eastern Europe. It’s seemingly only in the West where feminism is more liberal.
So why is it that they are making up such lies??
Oh wow looking through all these posts it makes me really reconsider my relationship. I've barely had tumblr for an hour and it's already opening my eyes
It's so nice being on tumblr and seeing all these other women who agree with my views!!
Hiii I'm so new to tumblr aaa! One of my friends from my art class recommended it so here I am!! A little introductory I suppose;
I'm Olivia and I'm 24 (going 25 this year so big aaaah!!) and I have a wonderful boyfriend Danny (been together two going three years!!)
I love everything about makeup and want to start my own makeup brand one day
I support the LGB drop the T! Looking for others who share my views to make friends 💕💕
Us real women gotta stick together and fight back against these impostors!!
If you only knew how much Muslims want to wage jihad. They want to be heroes of the Islamic war. I feel sick every time men talk about massacres with reverence.
It's not widely publicized, but Islam allows sex slaves. Only for men, of course. And then they try to convince me that it's the most feminist religion. Fuck zombies
The most insane psyop of the twenty first century was people trying to convince the world that Islam is a #progressive religion or somehow more progressive than Christianity when— ignoring all of its other flaws— Islam and Islamic societies have engaged in just as much colonialism and colonialist atrocities as Christianity and Christian societies, and that colonialism is still on-going today. Places like Chechnya, Uzbekistan, Libya, Malaysia, Sudan, and even fucking Iran did not just come into being as Muslim, it took centuries of oppression of indigenous populations and their religion to get to that point. Islam (as well as Christianity!) is not above criticism.
Happy International Women's Day! I admire you all! I feel blessed to be part of this movement that brings together so many brave, determined and kind women❤️
Should a radical feminist refuse to wear a dress and skirt, just as she refuses to wear makeup, high heels and manicures?
Because of these trans inclusive radical feminists, I don't know what posts I can like. I usually look for the tags "terf" and "terfsafe" under the post. These tags let me know that I'm reading a real radical feminist, not a man in a dress who demands attention
Men are constantly trying to divide us and make us quarrel. They try to talk nonsense about white privileged women. Or they try to make us think that women criminals are much more dangerous than men criminals. I read similar nonsense on Instagram the other day. Thanks for your "concern", but in a world without men we would all feel safer than in a world without dangerous women
"The Devil's greatest trick was making you believe that he doesn't exist."
Kind of like how men's greatest trick was making women believe that the patriarchy is an illusion and that their oppression is just a fantasy in the minds of a few crazy, shrieking harpies who call themselves "feminists."
Saw this while I was omw to the cinema lmfao these people are so delusional. Mtf troons will always be male and ftm ones will always be women .
a little about me
hi, i’m kesair! (KESS-eer)
basic stuff:
🌎 USA
🕓 21
♀ TRA -> radfem pipeline as of discovering radblr a few months ago
💕 biromantic, asexual, febfem
yeses and nos:
❌ pornography
❌ sex industry
❌ beauty industry
❌ religion
❌ kink/bdsm
✅ female separatism
✅ gender abolition
✅ pro choice
hobbies and personal stuff:
🌱 ecology major
🎮 video games (skyrim, TOTK, BG3, and more)
📕 reading + creative writing
🎲 dungeons and dragons
🌷 gardening (currently starting a garden on my apt balcony)
🎶 music (the neighbourhood, chase atlantic, susannah joffe, set it off)
“template” very much stolen from @lorynna
How are trans people supposedly 1% or less of the population, and yet "everyone" knows someone who's trans at the same time?
Also do you notice how the first statistic says ‘all transgender people’ and the second says ‘all trans-identified males’ - does anyone know where this statistic is from, because I for one would like to know how many of those ‘all transgender people killed’ were trans-men ie females
Can’t know for sure without looking at the actual source but I’d be willing to bet money that if we looked at ‘trans-identified males killed’ instead of ‘all transgender people killed’ that we’d be looking at a different number, and that the gap between trans-identified males killed vs in prison would be even wider…..
That’s actually an insane take wtf. I’m begging people to stop basing women’s identities off of men, whether it’s for or against them. Women can and DO partake in things that doesn’t have anything to do with men. We are not based off of our differences to men. Oml.
Why do I keep getting the “Transandrophobia” tag across my dash, I literally don’t interact with any trans tags whatsoever but half of the posts I’m seeing are people whining about how it’s bad to dislike men because some are trans and don’t commit violent crimes as much.
Which like, I agree that trans men don’t commit violent crimes as often, hence why I’m not talking about them bc they were raised female and usually know better, but if I leave them out then I’m transphobic or whatever there’s not any way to win with these people.
The terfbreaking tag is the perfect example of why TIMs are dangerous in women's spaces. It's just male fantasies about raping and sexually degrading women they disagree with. And that's what men do. They see a woman they don't like? They immediately come up with some kind of sexual debasement in their minds because to them that's enough to reduce and dismiss her. They use their sexuality as a weapon against women. And that's what TIMs do on here and call it progressive.
Just my humble experience
hmm. one of these categories of people is not like the others.
also funny that the category of women isn't mentioned.
it's always "listen to [identity group] voices!" until its detransitioners' voices.
they don't want to hear them, because their stories gaining mainstream traction would upend their whole movement.
the thing that made me see the light re. gender ideology/trans rights movement was the whole “a woman is anyone who says they’re a woman” thing
because it doesn’t make sense. there’s no universe in which is makes sense. youre not asked to just not define something in any other arena but this issue. i just imagined if we were asked to view other things in the world this way. it’s crazy. things have to have definitions.
but these people do have a definition, even if they won’t say it. they think a woman is just someone who wears skirts and makeup. that’s why they think a woman is anyone who wants to be one. 5 year olds have a better understanding of reality.
it’s all just good old fashioned misogyny. by this logic, if a woman doesn’t wear makeup or present super feminine does that make them a man? you ask questions and all of a sudden it’s [insert sputtering TRA word salad here]
it really is just a worship of the binary. masquerading as something revolutionary. and people are frothing at the mouth to defend it. acting like it’s a human rights issue. the biggest fucking con ever.
I just wanted to point something out
On a post that hated on terfs, terfs commented on the post to send hate but do you know what I found out? I clicked on their profiles to block them and they ALL were lowlife incels!
One of them was a blog SOLELY to sexualized goths and posted a lot of "big titty goths" (btw you cant be goth if youre a terf thats against our culture)
One of them was a blog to post straight up porn so I reported that very quick, their most liked post was a video of some guy rubbing some girl's chest
And the other one was apparently Pansexual (lgbtqia+ who dont support others confuse me) and also another porn poster who even said "Im always horny pls dm me" in their bio
coincidence?? I don't think so boo❤️ Tagging the transphobic pages just to be petty <33
Hate that I literally get emotional flashbacks when I see that stupid fucking flag. You know which one. Knowing that it was created by an AGP pedophile realllllyyy doesn’t help!
That’s what getting groomed and treated as a medical experiment and objectified at 16 will do to you. I hate it.
Can’t have shit without TiMs whining abt ‘transmisogyny’.
God, would be nice if that actually fucking existed, wouldn’t it?
Heya! If any other detransitioned females had their ovaries removed while identifying as ‘transgender’, how did you go abt getting on E? Because of the fact that I cannot naturally produce hormones, I have to be on SOME kind of HRT… I’m currently on low-dose T which I do NOT want to stay on for obvious reasons, and I’d like to get onto E instead, which is what my body would’ve been producing naturally had the medical ‘TRA supportive’ industry not taken my ovaries at 18.
Anyways - I’m still just kinda testing the waters and figuring out where to go from here. I know I need to detransition, bc of health concerns and ALSO bc of the fact that I’m realizing that I am just. A GNC lesbian with severe internalized sexism and homophonia, getting groomed by TiMs for literal YEARS and ‘transitioned’ at 15 also didn’t help!
If anybody has any resources (?) abt detransition, leaving cults behind, radical feminism, or gender-critical focused, PLEASE let me know! I’m feeling pretty lost and isolated rn, especially since my own former ‘community’ shunned me for having regrets. But I guess it is what it is.