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In her essay Less TikTok, More Screaming, Persinette writes that these e-therapists have turned healing into “a religion, a lifestyle, and above all, a brand” while promoting a culture of isolation and individual optimization. In this ecosystem, “...therapy has become a litmus test for social belonging and inherent goodness, a sign that one is aware of and has adapted to the newest standards of how to behave.”  The social standard this culture offers is one of controlled, placated solitude. Its narrative often insists that you’re surrounded by toxic people who are trying to hurt you, and the only way to ever become the person you’re meant to be is to cut them all off, retreat into a high-gloss cocoon of talk therapy and Notion templates, and emerge a non-emotive butterfly who will surely attract the relationships you’ve always deserved — relationships with other “healed” people, who don’t hurt you or depend on you or force you to feel difficult, taxing emotions. And finally, your life will be as frictionless and shiny as you, alone, have always deserved for it to be.

Rayne Fisher-Quann, no good alone

Evet, seni seviyorum budala! Tıpkı denizin, kendi dibindeki bir çakıl taşını sevmesi gibi... Evet, işte sevgim seni böyle kaplıyor! Ve Tanrı izin verirse, senin yanında bu kez ben çakıl taşı olacağım...

Milena'ya Mektuplar, Franz Kafka

אם יום אחד תצטרכי לבחור בין העולם לאהבה, תזכרי את זה. אם תבחרי את העולם, תאבדי את אהבה. אבל אם תבחרי את האהבה, איתה תכבשי את כל העולם.

“ Kusur bulmak için bakma birine, bulmak için bakarsan bulursun, kusuru örtmeyi marifet edin kendine. İşte o zaman kusursuz olursun. ” ― Hz.Mevlana

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Milena'ya Mektuplar, Franz Kafka

And if my life is like the dust Ooh, that hides the glow of a rose But what good am I Heaven only knows