in almost every other children's book where the main heroine is swept away to a land of whimsy she's shown having a lovely time; braving dangers occasionally, trying to find her way home, sure, but ultimately delighting in the magic around her. meanwhile alice spends her entire time in wonderland like
Lmao.
It’s a struggle to want to be seen as the same gender as a cis man but also not wanting to have the fact that I’m trans erased.
Yes, I’m a man like he is. No, I don’t get treated like one. I’m not getting paid like one. Doctors think I might change my mind about not wanting to get pregnant and are more concerned about what my future cis straight husband might want after I detransition, a thing they’re sure will happen despite me having zero desire to detransition and being happier living as a man. Cis women act like I’m forcibly turning them into lesbians if I show any sign I might want them sexually, even though lesbians either want nothing to do with me or think they can “fix” me. Cis gay men don’t want me in their spaces and accuse me of wanting to do conversion therapy on them.
None of this is how a cis man would be treated but I’m still the same fucking gender as him. Kind of like how a gay man and a straight man and a bi man and an ace man are the same gender but get treated differently. If you can wrap your head around this concept, the rest should not be that hard for you.
You really are a pathetic individual reblogging this on a blog about a minor venting you keep saying leftists need to be sent to an asylum but you're really just projecting what the hell is wrong with you
I hope you die alone<3
I'm a trans guy, I'm still a minor I live with my parents and my little sister I've tried explaining dysphoria to them in so many ways it's driving me insane I've tried explaining chest dysphoria as feeling like my breasts are tumors(cause that's what they feel like to me) I've tried explaining voice dysphoria as feeling like someone else's voice is coming out of my mouth, I've tried explain that when I look in the mirror it feels like the wrong person is looking back but it still just gets treated like an insecurity or like I'm being dramatic I'm not insecure I don't think I'm ugly I just think I look incorrect and I don't know how to explain it to them when I've tried in so many ways I might as well try learning another language to explain it in that one
I'm constantly misgendered I get deadnamed all the time and then get treated like the bad guy when I get frustrated or upset I've been openly trans for over a year most of the adults in my life do not know I'm trans cause my parents haven't told them and they completely ignore pronouns pins or the fact people are referring to me as a guy or in a gender neutral manner they act like they're being inconvenience by having to use the correct pronouns and name and gendered terms, like me doing things to feel more comfortable in my body is an annoyance to them, I get slightly side eyed when I talk about my dysphoria and wanting to go on testosterone or top surgery
hell they've tried making me promise I won't medically transition till I'm 21 which is bullshit because I've told them how I've literally fucking cried because of how badly I wish I was more masculine, told them how it feels like the person in the mirror is wrong, like my voice isn't my own, I've told them how much distress my dysphoria caused me and they don't give a fuck and then I get yelled at and punished and mocked when I get upset
I have been told to my face before by my mom that she wishes she wishes I was a cishet Christian girl who wasn't asexual and who wanted kids(I'm paraphrasing because my memory hates my guts and I can't remember the exact wording) while she knew I was openly trans and in a long term relationship with a woman I'm expected to sympathize with how hard changing how they talk is for them but they don't seem to give a shit that it's not just difficult for me it's distressing and damaging to my mental health
But they're not transphobic right?/s
But they're so supportive right?/s
God I can't fucking wait to move out
My dad can get so drunk that he literally can't walk and be forgiven the next day even though it could literally kill him even though he's supposed to stop drinking but I can't even take birth control that keeps me from having periods every month🙄
This elderly woman was one of the leaders of demonstrations against the Vietnam War in 1968, when she was a student at Columbia University. Today, 56 years later, she returns to the same place and says, "Palestine must be free."
My gender is like a dad who went to go get a pack of cigarettes and never came back
happy pride to all my aspecs and arospecs out there
happy pride to asexuals
happy pride to aromantics
happy pride to aplatonics
happy pride to aroaces
happy pride to alloaces
happy pride to alloaros
happy pride to het aces/aros
happy pride to demi romantics/sexuals
happy pride to grey romantics/sexuals
happy pride to ace/arospecs in platonic, romantic, and/or sexual relationships, or relationships that dont fit into any of those categories
happy pride to ace/arospecs who aren't in relationships and never want to be
happy pride to people who use microlables to describe their ace/arospec identity
we are all valid and we belong in this community no matter what anyone says. we deserve pride too.
Aw thanks for saying that I was feeling kinda dysphoric, if you checked out my profile you'd see I go by all pronouns by she/her so you saying I'll never be a she is surprisingly nice for someone being such a jackass and I don't dress fem by the way I've always been masc even as like an 8-year-old I know I'm not a main character I don't want to be I just want people like you to realize people end their lives cause of the bullshit you spew seriously explain how people like me do any harm other than hurting your feelings
Anything made by the Woke, dei , queer trans etc movement is SHIT . Ruins everything and force us to walk on eggshells . Fuck it yall are a bunch of drugged up fools and the neo pronouns dam yall are sensitive fools
Hi nice to meet you I spend very little time on Tumblr and will often go months without touching it I go by all pronouns but she/her including neopronouns feel free to DM me as long as it's SFW
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