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right a week or so ago i saw a post re: trans masculinity about how it's silly to say the queer community doesn't devalue men cos gay men are often the centre of attention and the main 'representation' of the community, and i hear that, acknowledge it, whatever

but you acknowledge that's a specific type of gay man, right? usually skinny, white, a 'twink', if you will - effeminate if not outright femmy, heavily embellished in drag culture and 'the scene'. rarely (and mostly online, maybe different outside the UK) does it include black men too though they are usually also skinny and 'twinks' (and obviously in different countries this will also centre/include different races. don't be obtuse with me here. they're still usually skinny and ablebodied still).

meanwhile bears are viewed as a rarity, 'actually they're so masculine but they're very nice!' which is backhanded lol; whenever a 'masculine' looking [straight] man is a little bit effeminate they get assumed to be gay, but masculine looking masculine acting men don't get this assumption; masculine presenting and acting trans men (and neither are trans women or nonbinary people who fit this bill) aren't included in so-called 'safe spaces' for cis women, trans people, nonbinary people; any masculine looking guy in a gay space is assumed to be a threat first; every masculine gay guy i know feels a little bit annoyed/irritated that they have to fem themselves up to fit in to the point they reject calling themselves 'gay' and opt for 'queer' cos they aren't effeminate

like, yeah, sure, men are the face of the queer community when they're effeminate, usually white, ablebodied, perisex, and skinny but not when they're masculine, fat, disabled, intersex or of colour. anti-masculinity is fucking rife in the queer community at large, the only places i really see it openly accepted and celebrated IRL and online is in kink and fetish spaces (where they're also presumed to be tops, dominating, aggressors until they prove otherwise - usually by making themselves act more effeminate as mentioned previously - and then society at large considers these types of men predators and pedophiles etc for daring to express their kinks in spaces made for them in a safe-for-work manner)

then older men are better at accepting masculine men, also, but the queer community especially online doesn't acknowledge older people ever. so

no, actually, i do think the queer community has a problem with men, but more specifically masculinity (which isn't limited to men of course). so the moment trans men dare to dip their toes into masculinity, embrace body hair, beards, embrace 'men' mannerisms, to take up space, to be loud, to have masculine-associated hobbies, they're not considered trans anymore. and you barely like trans men when they're more feminine, anyway.

"yeah i agree trans men are affected by oppression but also anybody who uses the word transandrophobia is transmisogynystic for magical reasons i can only explain with bioessentialist rhetoric and the ridiculous idea that any trans person is "exempt" from misogyny"

then you go onto the transandrophobia tag and its just trans guys showing screenshots of people saying they should be killed and then asking "hey dont say this stuff about us please"

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I asked you how and you couldn't explain give me one example of how you have to walk on egg shells but since you've given me more questions

How are we degrading "actual women" as you put it because if trans identities aren't valid well then I'm a woman and I wanna know how they're hurting me

How is a community that has been around longer than most current religions harming people? How is a community that is in multiple other species (penguins, giraffes, octopi, dolphins, and many many more) harming people?

I want an explanation and I want one backed up by actual evidence and not just feelings because if you want I could link multiple cases of queer or trans people either ending their life due to homophobia and transphobia or being murdered because of homophobia and transphobia

Anything made by the Woke, dei , queer trans etc movement is SHIT . Ruins everything and force us to walk on eggshells . Fuck it yall are a bunch of drugged up fools and the neo pronouns dam yall are sensitive fools

since theres been an uptick in transandrophobia and aphobia lately:

you need to care about and support trans men and transmasc people that are asexual or acespec

you need to care about and support trans men and transmasc people that are aromantic or arospec

you need to care about and support trans men and transmasc people that are aplatonic or aplspec

you need to care about and support trans men and transmasc people that are afamilial or afamspec

you need to care about and support trans men and transmasc people that are aspec

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Damn you don't even have a response you just decide to wish harm on a minor I don't do drugs the closest drugs I do is stuff a doctor gives me and it's one of the lowest dosages available for the brand I take I hope when you're old and miserable and you're asking yourself why nobody wants to be around you you remember this moment, when someone, a minor, showed you evidence from backed up organizations everyone with half a brain trusts and said they were on drugs and hoped things go wrong for them fuck you, sick bastard clearly you're more mentally ill than I am when you can see the statistics and say I'm just high what the hell is wrong with you do you get off on pissing people off I'm sorry you hate yourself but don't try and drag people down to drowned with you in your misery and suffering we have our own shit to deal with

Anything made by the Woke, dei , queer trans etc movement is SHIT . Ruins everything and force us to walk on eggshells . Fuck it yall are a bunch of drugged up fools and the neo pronouns dam yall are sensitive fools

We are witnessing the grotesque reality of the martyred Palestinians and thousands of their massacred children being written off as mere afterthoughts. The way western media outlets steadfastly refuse to call the Israeli aggression and onslaught for what it is, which is genocide and ethnic cleansing, is just another way of dehumanizing Palestinians.