Autistic People Sometimes Struggle With Apologizing, Because They're Never Taught How To Do It The Right

Autistic people sometimes struggle with apologizing, because they're never taught how to do it the right way.

When autistic people are taught how to apologize, they're often taught that the sincerity of the apology is determined by how well they can hide their disability.

Not enough eye contact = insincere apology

Struggling to phrase it = insincere apology

Wrong tone = insincere apology

Asking questions to figure out how to prevent doing it again = insincere apology (and "arguing" or "making excuses")

Meanwhile, neurotypical people can continue their patterns while still being considered sincere by these standards.

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2 months ago
In Regard To My Prior Trans Sky Post.

In regard to my prior trans sky post.

Reblog if you're not homophobic

Every url that reblog’s will be written in a book and shown to my homophobic dad. 

11 months ago

yeah im “transitioning” *dissolves into tiny pieces as i click to the next slide*

2 months ago

Genuinely hate when people act like misgendering me is this big thing that I’ll have a mental breakdown over. (As an afab non binary person)

If it’s a mistake; Totally fine, understandable, try to do better. If they don’t know how to use them in a sentence I’ll give them a tip or examples.

Purposefully ignoring my pronouns and identity in an attempt to hurt me: You’re a dick, but I’ll move on.

On another note: I have genuinely had people say that if I piss them off that they’ll just get me back by purposefully misgendering me.

Am I supposed to find that funny? “Haha, that’s so funny that you’re threatening to try to invalidate my entire existence as a trans person if I mildly annoy you”? Yeah, that’ll work out well.

I really do not care if you misgender me as long as you are actively trying to get better, are apologizing, and as long as it isn’t purposeful. But I have no respect for people that use it as a cheap way to try and make me upset.


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2 months ago

Answer my fucking questions Jesus Christ are you stupid you want me to leave you alone but you won't do the one thing I said would get me to go back to acting like you don't exist

And your reasoning for being right is purely emotional and opinion-based; what happened to facts over feelings hm? Or does it not count for you and like I've said so many fucking times I don't do drugs

Also, you get triggered by our existence, you can't see a trans woman without getting angry, you can't see a trans man without getting angry, and you have an entire blog dedicated to being triggered by trans people then you get pissy when a queer and trans person questions you like seriously you can't answer a single question that would back up your argument but you can call trans women a fetish

You're pathetic

Anything made by the Woke, dei , queer trans etc movement is SHIT . Ruins everything and force us to walk on eggshells . Fuck it yall are a bunch of drugged up fools and the neo pronouns dam yall are sensitive fools

11 months ago

if you don't think that cis men who are aromantic are queer, get out. if you think that lesbians who are sometimes straight and gays who are sometimes straight are not valid, get out. if you don't support trans people who are sometimes cis, get out. if you don't support lesbians and gays who are genderfluid or multiple genders, get out. if you don't support xenogenders, get out. if you feel "uncomfortable" around disabled people, get out. if you don't support straight people who are sometimes gay, get out. if you don't support trans people who don't want to transition, get out. if you don't support feminine trans guys and masculine trans girls, get out. if you don't support gnc people, get out. if you don't support straight trans people, get out. if you don't support people who use neopronouns and xenopronouns, get out. if you don't support trans people who don't pass as their gender, get out.

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