Deactivated Cheater

Let’s be honest.  Just because you upped your domestic game doesn’t mean you need to give up on what you really need and are good at.

Tight bodies are great, but I honestly prefer a woman with some hips, thighs, and ass that are ready to put in some work. I work hard for my abs, but I like some softness on a woman's stomach. I associate abs with more of a masculine feature and find it kind of gross when women have muscle definition on their stomachs. Maybe that's why I love fucking moms so much.

I’m sure you get this question a lot but how did you first start hooking up with and aiming for married or taken women?

I was in college and met a married woman in a bar.  She had a kid that was enrolled at the same school and she stopped in for a drink.  She wasn’t an alcoholic, but she was kind of bummed that her husband didn’t make the trip out there to drop their kid off as well.  He was traveling and didn’t change his plans for a milestone visit.  We flirted and hit it off.  I fucked her that night and since she wasn’t very far away, she made extra efforts to come visit her kid by herself and then come visit me to fuck.  She was in her 40s and it went on for some time.

After that, I actually went out of my way to meet older women, who happened to be married.  I always had some flirting with me, but I was too young and stupid to realize it.  So it became a goal.  I wanted to fuck as many married women as I could, which was kind of a stupid goal, but one appropriate for a young college kid.  It was actually easier than I expected and I’m a fun person by nature (not a disrespectful or abusive piece of shit, so most women kept me in their back pocket to fuck again if they needed. 

After college I got into my field, which required a lot of travel.  Naturally, as a horny 20-something I just made it another goal to find and fuck women on the road, which I realized that married women were easier than single women.

It became a vice.  Now I’m in my mid-30s and I’ve fucked and cum in a lot of married/taken women, which has become my fetish of sorts.  I’ve had some open relationships, but that’s the extent of it.  I’m pretty damaged when it comes to relationships.

The illusion of choice. Just say “no” to make it hotter when I cum in her anyway.

Experienced: Please say YES 🍆💦🙏🏼

Sex addiction

Someone I’ve been fucking lately started probing and asking me questions about myself.  Things like, why I do what I do.  The topic of sex addiction and maybe understanding where my promiscuous and taboo-seeking nature comes from.

I haven’t seen anyone professionally about this, but I will say (and many of you can deduce) that I’m addicted to sex.  I always seek it.  There is a form of validation that I receive when I fuck new women, sure.  It comes in the form of a thrill that I’ve attracted someone to the point that they will fuck.  The taboo is interlaced with it in that I validate my own sexuality when someone will cheat on their husband with me.  I see attractive women with wedding rings and I get hard.  I feel compelled to talk to and flirt with them.  I’m an attractive male with a big cock that makes a lot of money in my sales job.  It makes it relatively easy when you couple that with my confidence.  I feel that validation when I see a woman’s eyes and absorb her responses to flirting.  I feel it when she feels my hard body against hers and she appreciates how I look and feel.  I feel it when she sees the size of my cock.

That winning feeling of beating her husband because he isn’t giving her what she needs and (in the majority of situations) he simply cannot give her with an inferior cock.

I work out because I love it.  The endorphins I get and the high of working out is an addiction as well.  It’s the thrill and the feeling that just pumps through your veins.  It makes it easy when one addiction helps the success of another.  Thankfully I don’t have an addiction to any hard core drugs, although I’ve met a fair number of women who love to couple drugs, like cocaine, with their cheating habits.

There have been times that I tried to pull away from this lifestyle, but the addiction is too strong.  I have no anchor, as only a few close friends know about my vice and those that do are fucking me.  This isn’t something that I can easily and readily share with close friends, due to the immense level of social judgment that comes with the territory.  I travel often for work, so I’m oftentimes in random cities by myself and unless I lock myself in my hotel room, I am like a kid in a candy store, hopping from location to location, looking for interesting women to meet.

I’m not looking for sympathy, I just have this blog to vent my stories and experiences.  It’s good for me to tell my stories and be able to have a level of anonymity that comes with it.  I plan on sticking with this lifestyle for as long as I can.  I have zero desire to get married and make enough money to be that old rich guy on a boat, inviting women to come travel with me.

Thoughtful day.  Don’t try to stop me.  Come play with me!

Great blog. How do you typically gage if a wife is open? Thanks

It depends.  Honestly, I go into it with the mindset of just meeting people, joking around, and pressing some flirty buttons to see how they reciprocate.  It’s all about a social dance to see how people respond and changing my approach to adapt.  The thing is, I talk to everyone; men and women.  Women I’m not even attracted to.  It’s disarming for women that think I am just focusing on them, plus, it takes any edge off any moment where I am only talking to a woman I am interested in.  If you’re talking to everyone and joking with everyone, then you’re the center of attention and pointed flirty comments don’t feel so aggressive to a woman and she likely feels more comfortable reciprocating.

Fail and learn

Everyone seems to believe that I don’t have my share of failures out there with women.  I do.  People only really want to hear the sexy and exciting part of life.  The sizzle, if you will.  However, last night was a great example of meeting a woman in a bar, in Columbus, OH, hitting it off, and then a rejection.  It wasn’t bad, it was mostly her freaking out and realizing that if she went up to my room that she was going to be pressured to cheat.  She was all “maybe”, so I tried another angle.  I got a “I don’t think so” and then after another angle a flat-out “no”.  Rejection happens and it’s all good.  I still had fun with the experience and learned a bit from it.

In Chicago; Will travel

I have a lot of people reaching out to me about where I’m local to and if I travel.  I’m in the Chicagoland area and I travel all the time for work.  My travel includes mostly the domestic US and sometimes Canada (mostly Toronto or Montreal).  

-Yes, I’ve fucked married/taken women while traveling.  Often, to be honest.   -Yes, I’ve met couples and married women online to fuck.   -Yes, I’ve met women/couples online and during business trips in their area, fucked them (the women).   -Yes, I’ve fucked women/couples from Tumblr.

Guys

If you are reaching out and want me to fuck your wife - yes, I’ve done this before.  The vast majority of the time the setup includes her knowledge.  If you are expecting me to travel somewhere (or even as part of my own business trip) to just try to seduce her without her knowledge of the experience, then just know that those setups are hit or miss.  If she doesn’t know you are setting it up and has no idea that you are interested in it, she will very likely *not* engage with me if you are around.  Sometimes these situations require some cultivation over time, which can be difficult remotely.  Have I done it before?  Yes.  Many times; but mostly with couples/women local to me where I have the ability to be local and cultivate that connection for seduction.

If your wife knows that you want to set this up then its important to know if I would be a first for her.  Basically it depends how experienced the couple is in cuckolding, sharing (vixen/stag), etc.  I will *NOT* meet any couple quickly and without getting to know them.  I’ve had a lot of my time wasted in the past or strange situations where the guy is a lying about the situation, the woman isn’t really into it or she doesn’t know what is going on.  I will *NOT* meet any couple where I’m not very physically attracted to the wife. I know, I’m an asshole, but I own it.  I enjoy fucking married women, but I don’t just fuck anyone.  I need to be very attracted to them.  They wouldn’t waste their time with me if they weren’t very attracted to me, right?  HOWEVER, regardless of attraction, I’m happy to talk with couples about the situation and provide recommendations on how to go about things.  Everyone can use more friends; right?

I am not into anything sexual with men.  You can watch, you can clean up after me, your wife and I can talk dirty to you; whatever.  I’ve had men try to ask me in the heat of the moment to do something with them and the answer will always be, respectfully, no.

Ladies

Thanks for reaching out and continue to do so.  I love hearing your stories and the different walks of life or situations that you are in.  Like men/couples above, I will not meet you quickly.  I need to get to know someone before I meet, single, taken, married or whatever.  I’m happy with one night stands when traveling, but when I meet someone off the internet, there needs to be more there because there is so much that can be hidden as we connect only online.  I am 100% discreet and am not looking for any connection other than friendship and sex.

That’s really it.  I love talking to and meeting new people, so continue to reach out.

Such bullshit.  They almost always come back.  It makes me even harder next time.  Yeah, you were done cheating?  Then why am I fucking you again?  Oh yeah, because you’re my slut.

Look, just put the guilt aside and spread your legs like a good girl.

Quick Update

I’ve been super busy with travel.  I think the last update I had was during back to school season with some moms that I was fucking as their kids went back to school.  The long and short of that is that there are still a few of them that I fuck while I’m not traveling (which is a bit rare).  It makes it more exciting when I can connect.

Football season has been amazing this year.  I haven’t really caught games in person or on TV much, but it usually has given me an opportunity to have wives come over that have husbands that get away to games or hang out with their friends.  There are about three women that I’ve regularly fucked during this time.  They don’t know each other, but they know about each other.  Honesty is the best policy!  

As for travel, I’ve had a few one night stands.  There is a coworker that I work with on the road and we fuck when we run the same deals.  If I’m not fucking her, I’m looking for women on the road, which I’ve found.  I’m actually going back to Boston soon and plan on hooking up with my New Hampshire, married friend if she can come in town with me.

I played with a couple and fucked a new woman from Tumblr.  I’ve been busy.  I’ll try to get more updates as I can.