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Post-Vaccine Updates and Madness

I haven't had a lot of original content recently. It has been a weird year for all of us!

Over the last year, I fucked regulars that were in tight circles or women that needed to scratch their itch while running the calculus to mitigate their exposure re: COVID. The expansion of that circle typically involved women that reached a breaking point, most of them single, and needing to fuck. A few of them were one-offs, but most of them kept in touch to fuck. Weekends are always busy.

During the height of the pandemic, I used Airbnbs in sleepy bed-and-breakfast towns as a way to gather friends who liked to fuck together. In a time where married women have a hard time getting away due to spouses being home so often, it was a way to give married women an excuse to get away with friends who liked to cheat together. These cheating friends carefully expanded their circles to fellow cheating friends they could confide in to party safely and discreetly.

I'm lucky to have cultivated connections with these women, but I realize that I'm often used as the token handsome, big cock and party favor. I never felt used and dehumanized, as thankfully the women have always been cool to hang with or else I would have just left. It is funny, though, that some of the women in the circles were totally OK having their friends watch me fuck them and join in, while some only wanted me to fuck them behind closed doors. I have two circles of married friends and a few smaller groups of single or mixed single/taken friends that I've enjoyed some long weekends with. The single or single/taken mixed friends that I've fucked have been able to crash at one of the single friends' places, but the Airbnb makes it easier to just disappear for a few days.

It occurs to me that I really need to update more often with the details (which I'll go back and do as memory serves me). The high-level updates feel lame.

Since the vaccine rolled out, things have gotten wild. I always had women on hookup or dating apps that reached a limit and needed to get together and fuck, but the vaccine has blown the doors off of that. There have been a lot of divorced and separated women that I've met and fucked through COVID. It started as a trickle, but now as so many women have gotten the vaccine that women are quick to suggest meeting up and fucking on the first date almost always happens (assuming real chemistry). The age ranges for many of the single women vary, but there have been a lot of divorced/separated women in their 30s through 40s that have spread their legs faster than ever.

I assume many of you that read and enjoy my longer updates would enjoy the details of individual women, single or otherwise. If there is something specifically that is enjoyed, always reach out and let me know. I forgot how cathartic it is to chronicle my experiences.

Broken Trophy Wife

I've been fucking a local trophy wife for a little over a year now. I met her online and we had the same chemistry that we had online, but we just had to be discreet, meeting far from where she lived or coming to my place. Things started to progress in a strange way because she started to confide in me in ways that started to get deeper and more personal; things she should be sharing with a therapist. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy deep conversations, but the subject matter made me think she needed some professional help.

She is in her late 20s, no kids, and her husband is in his late 40s and has kids from a previous marriage. By all other accounts, from outsiders, everyone would assume they have the perfect life. He is very successful and she does not work, but she is VERY bored and she feels very useless other than being her husband's arm candy and someone for him to fuck. She has a lot of regrets about never going to college and pursing her own career, to which I strongly urged her to go back since money and time are not an issue for her. When I encouraged her, she was so excited to have someone that was supportive. Her husband has not been supportive and I think that is by design to keep a sense of power, leverage, and reliance on him. She said that when they dated and married, everyone knew the game and she has been accused of being a gold digger, which has made her want to prove herself even more. I've given her a lot of advice on how to approach the subject or how to even just go ahead and pursue what she wants without his permission.

Unfortunately, while she has really connected with me physically and with my support, she was upset that I stopped fucking her. This added to her sense of inadequacy, asking about what she did wrong, but I felt very uncomfortable being a potential lifeboat for her. I do very well for myself and the last thing I need is someone that unilaterally decides that they don't want to be in their situation to be with me. It has happened before and it ended terribly; I hated everything about it. Pushing her physically away has encouraged her to try harder despite me being 100% clear about my expectations and enjoying being a friend more than a lover. I encouraged her to find a professional to speak to, to help her navigate this. Her friends have not been supportive because she feels that they resent her lifestyle as a gold digger and don't think she will ever apply herself. To be honest, I think she would do well in college and with her drive. Sometimes people need that second birth to feel that fire lit under their ass instead of just pursuing higher education because it is expected of them.

Anyway, not the sexiest of updates. It has been hard not fucking her because the sex is great, we click, and she is gorgeous. I just do not need her catching feelings.

Sexy-time update

It’s been awhile since my last update and there have been some wins and losses since!

The Tumblr couple that I met and shared my encounter with his vixen was received well.  I’ve enjoyed meeting up with her when I’m back in town, between sales trips and he has received more jerk-off material as I sent pictures and some videos of his wife and I fucking.  He bought lingerie for her to wear for me and he enjoys seeing it go to good use.  I definitely appreciate it.  He admitted that he feels a bit humiliated by it all, especially how much bigger my cock is and how much his vixen looks forward to fucking me, but glad that he can enjoy that aspect of their relationship without the rest of the world knowing.  Oddly enough, since she’s enjoyed being a hotwife, their sex life hasn’t been better and he likes knowing that he’s fucking her with my cum still inside her.

Thank you for being comfortable with me anonymously sharing your story.

Valentine’s Day friend - We’ve been fucking on and off, as we have had time, but she is in a relationship now.  We fucked while she was just dating around with some guys, but she’s exclusive now.  It took a whole of two weeks of being exclusive before she cheated on him with me for the first time.  She said she felt bad, but she did it again.  Typical.  We actually all got together at an event that she was hosting and I met the guy.  She introduced me to him as “a friend”, but all her friends know that she was fucking me.

Don’t trust a woman if she introduces you to a guy that doesn’t really know anyone else in the group and says he is just a friend.

The latest update is meeting up with a married Tumblr superfan woman while on the road and she too is ok with me sharing her story anonymously.  Anyway, I had a reason to visit with work clients, but I really went to meet her, which I did, and we fucked in my hotel room.  Her tight cunt never cheated, but when she did her pussy squeezed me with her lips pulling outward each time I pulled outwards.  No condom, no cumming in her pussy, but she was my pornstar when she took my cum on her face.  Something her husband never did.  Thank you, superfan!  I’m honored to be your first cheat and I’ll definitely be back.

Is it wrong to keep trophies? I like to review and revisit pictures of conquests.

What's the most humiliating thing that's happened to a guy whose girl you've been messing around with? A few examples would be appreciated.

Are you talking about guys that know and are into that lifestyle or guys that don’t know and are humiliated by their women when they find out?

I want to be clear - I am not turned on by humiliating guys.  I’m sure it is a power trip for some dudes, but that thought is alien to me.  Power over a guy unknowingly, sure.  If guys are into it and they want to be humiliated as a result of having me join in and fuck their wife, ok.  I’m down, but that’s not something I actively pursue.

I’ve gotten caught a few times, but survived.  Most of the guys are too cowardly to do anything.  As for specific examples there, I’m not turned on by it, so I’m not spending time regurgitating the moment.

As for guys that know.  I mean, some guys get caged or like it when their wife talks down to them.  That kind of stuff.  Being “forced” to eat my cum out if their wife.  At that point, the guy is into it, so I don’t know how humiliating it is for them.  If their entire world (friends, family, coworkers) KNEW that they were into that lifestyle, it would very likely be humiliating.  When you provide consent to have someone fuck your wife, it kind of takes the edge off...unless you’re just a weak dude that is terrified that she will leave you and you let her fuck, pretending it isn’t happening.  That’s happened.  I have guys reaching out to me for advice on it and I tell them to just up and leave her.  If you hate that she does it and try to turn a blind eye, leave her.  There’s nothing she can provide that another woman can’t.  Fucking stand up for yourselves.  Men AND women.  Pursue what you want.

Brevity and small talk

It has it's place, but when people can't move beyond it, it is the worst.

It does not matter how hot a woman is if she can't hold a conversation. If there are huge awkward silences or if conversations feel like pulling teeth. Nobody wants to experience that.

I totally understand that many people are shy. That's fair. The best shy people out there are the ones that straight-up admit it and it makes it so much easier to navigate.

Deactivated Cheater

Recently I met-and-fucked a new cheating wife off Tumblr.  She initially reached out to me and we’ve been flirting since before Thanksgiving.  She never cheated before and was local to my area (the Chicago metro area/Chicagoland).  She was so shy and nervous when we first met.  She came out my way, after ditching work, so she wouldn’t likely be recognized during lunch.  Late 20s, pretty face, and no kids.  She first thought of cheating after going to a party with her friends and watching a friend cheat with one of the guys they met.  My friend couldn’t bring herself to do it, but she admitted that she couldn’t get the exciting idea out of her head.  She found a cheating niche on Tumblr and started to reblog content.  She found me, reached out, and ended up on her back at my place, with me spreading her legs, helping her feel the first cock other than her husband’s.

She married her high school sweetheart and grew up in a conservative house that never talked about sex.  She said she felt a lot of guilt fucking her husband before they got married, but he was the only one she was ever with, despite her friends constantly urging her to fuck around and/or not settle for her husband.  She’s 5′2″ and petite.  I disarmed her nerves with significant kissing and foreplay.  She was the one that actually initiated more and surprised me by taking me into her mouth.  Her mouth stretched around my girth and tried to take as much as she could.  She hasn’t sucked her husband cock in over three years.  He’s smaller than me, but average in size and girth.

I tasted her pussy and took my time with it.  I wanted her warmed up and wet, which she already was, but I really wanted to relax her and calm her nerves.  When I could tell that she was close to cumming in my mouth, I backed off and helped her edge away.  Up to this point, there wasn’t much dirty talk, but that triggered it.  I kissed her pussy and slowly marched kisses up from between her legs up to her collarbone and neck, ultimately her lips and holding her hands above her head.  I ran the tip of my cock between her pussy lips, rubbing my pre-cum on her clit.  I slowly slid the tip inside her and took my time, with each thrust, pushing my cock deeper into her.  I bottomed out and I kissed her, taking my time as she stretched on my girth.  I started picking up the pace while fucking her and we enjoyed the next hour or so of edging her as she would get close to cumming.  I didn’t stop when I got close and I just slowed as I came twice inside her.  I stayed hard and recovered.  Eventually she came and exploded with vulgarity as she did.  When she was done, a switch flipped.  I pulled out and our conversation got a little awkward afterwards.  She went to the bathroom for a bit and came out fully dressed.  She wanted to quickly leave and even the kiss goodbye got a little awkward.

The next day, I logged into Tumblr and went to check her blog to find it deactivated.  We messaged on Tumblr because she wasn’t comfortable with me having her number, so we have to way to contact one another.  I’m guessing she got nervous and felt guilty, so she removed her blog.

It’s funny, oftentimes women act like that, they ghost me, but come back for more when they reconcile what they’ve done and realize they want more.  She wanted to be my slut and the subject of a post, so now she is.

and shocking how many marriages have been strained and stressed by COVID and how willing so many wives are to sneak away and spread their legs.

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Dating and open

I've been fucking/dating this divorced friend for some time and we have started referring to each other as the girlfriend/boyfriend. We still know it is not exclusive and she has really enjoyed time with me because of my open-mind when it comes to sexuality and her wanting to explore it for herself. She has gotten more dick since her divorce than before. I've helped her meet other guys and encouraged her to do so. I rubbed off on her with my vice for married women and she has gotten off by finding and fucking married men. We have played with some of her female friends and there is an understanding that I fuck them on the side if I want.

She joined me with some single women, but it wasn't until recently that a few married women I've been fucking have felt comfortable joining us. Typically they just want discretion and limiting who know they cheat in whatever circle. The hottest was fucking my friend's wife, who hit it off with her. I didn't blow my friend's wife's cover. She actually brought up sexual topics with my g/f and after my g/f confided in her about some sexual exploring, she picked up on how my friend's wife and I don't always get along in social settings (most people think we dislike each other), but she seemed interested in her. She put two and two together and asked her. I guess my friend's wife was stunned and her lack of answering was all the answer my g/f needed. Since then, we've found three times to get my friend's wife to get away from the fam, meet at my g/f's place and fuck.

I also fucked her with my neighbor, who was super interested in my g/f. The neighbor kept asking about her and when we admitted to a deeper level of dating, she insisted on meeting her. It's been a great adventure so far.

Great blog. How do you typically gage if a wife is open? Thanks

It depends.  Honestly, I go into it with the mindset of just meeting people, joking around, and pressing some flirty buttons to see how they reciprocate.  It’s all about a social dance to see how people respond and changing my approach to adapt.  The thing is, I talk to everyone; men and women.  Women I’m not even attracted to.  It’s disarming for women that think I am just focusing on them, plus, it takes any edge off any moment where I am only talking to a woman I am interested in.  If you’re talking to everyone and joking with everyone, then you’re the center of attention and pointed flirty comments don’t feel so aggressive to a woman and she likely feels more comfortable reciprocating.