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Is it wrong to keep trophies? I like to review and revisit pictures of conquests.

Once you start, you can’t stop.  The thrill of the cheat is intoxicating.  Sometimes it is a connection with one specific lover. Sometimes it is the variety of fucking new people that do not care about your marriage.  You just need that you can love your husband while also enjoying the attention and dominance from another man.  You can hide everything except impregnation, so be careful.

Friend’s g/f and more

It’s been a while since my last update.  A lot has happened, but I don’t have time to blog about it all!  Hah.  I’ll show up with some more detail at some point.

First off - my friend’s g/f - the one that I had fucked before they were together and fucked her around St. Patrick’s Day, we have been fucking regularly.  Regularly is vague, since I am not home often, but we get together when we can find overlapping schedules.  She felt guilty at first, but got over it after a few weeks.  They aren’t engaged yet, but they are definitely on the path.  I guess she knows that he bought a ring and they have been talking about a summertime wedding next year.

I also had fun with two women that are friends.  They are younger and it was easy for them to slip and get away!  I fucked both and they played with each other as well.  We took our time and enjoyed the company.  There was a lot of edging and buildup.

I also had fun with a couple and the husband and I took on the wife together.  He watched for a while and fucked her after I started her off.  I watched him kiss her after I came in her mouth, watching my cum flow between their mouths.

I’ll post some more content with details as I have time, either with these friends or others.  Don’t be a stranger!

Crawl to me.  Dress up in ways you may never have before.  Play a role with me and explore your fantasies.  You’re mine and you will demonstrate it.

I’ll take, “Things her cuck has to come to terms with,” Alex.

Where are you from?

The Chicago(land) area.

Mothers need to feel sexy and wanted too.  It takes a certain man for her to open up and experience it before it’s too late.  Life is short.

There are safe words.  She can absolutely say no, but she doesn’t.  It’s an amazing feeling, getting swept away by that passion and letting your ID drive.

I love when a woman dresses up and dances for me.  I’m a dancer too, but I like some private attention.

Fucked a friend’s g/f (again, for the first time)

A while ago I posted on here about a friend who started dating a woman that I knew and that I fucked in the past.  I met her through a woman I was fucking (cheaters flocking together).  She (the subject of the post) was married at the time and was shocked to see me at a gathering with her new boyfriend; one of my friends.

It’s been well over a year and they are still together.  Around the Holidays she reached out to ask me an innocuous question, but it opened the door to some flirting.  Nothing was coming of it, but I still farmed the opportunity.  Over the last month we started sexting.  This weekend, on Saturday, she came over and I fucked her while he went to the city to watch the river get dyed green and stay down there for drunken St. Patrick’s Day merriment.

She knew when she was coming over that it was going down.  It wasn’t a bait-and-switch where I was going to try my luck.  She showed up dressed casually, but very sexy.  I had to peel the jeans off of her and her fake, perky tits had no bra, so her nipples poked against her blouse. Great hair goes a long way, even if I plan on fucking it up, but she put a lot of effort in looking amazing for me.

This was her first cheat on her man, which was hot to learn. She did say that she wanted to get this out of her system before they went down the path of getting married.  They’ve looked at rings and are on that path. She was married before and is feeling her own clock ticking for kids. I know it isn’t a one and done. It would be nice to have another regular to work into the rotation, especially one that has a number of plausible reasons to interact with me.

What's the most humiliating thing that's happened to a guy whose girl you've been messing around with? A few examples would be appreciated.

Are you talking about guys that know and are into that lifestyle or guys that don’t know and are humiliated by their women when they find out?

I want to be clear - I am not turned on by humiliating guys.  I’m sure it is a power trip for some dudes, but that thought is alien to me.  Power over a guy unknowingly, sure.  If guys are into it and they want to be humiliated as a result of having me join in and fuck their wife, ok.  I’m down, but that’s not something I actively pursue.

I’ve gotten caught a few times, but survived.  Most of the guys are too cowardly to do anything.  As for specific examples there, I’m not turned on by it, so I’m not spending time regurgitating the moment.

As for guys that know.  I mean, some guys get caged or like it when their wife talks down to them.  That kind of stuff.  Being “forced” to eat my cum out if their wife.  At that point, the guy is into it, so I don’t know how humiliating it is for them.  If their entire world (friends, family, coworkers) KNEW that they were into that lifestyle, it would very likely be humiliating.  When you provide consent to have someone fuck your wife, it kind of takes the edge off...unless you’re just a weak dude that is terrified that she will leave you and you let her fuck, pretending it isn’t happening.  That’s happened.  I have guys reaching out to me for advice on it and I tell them to just up and leave her.  If you hate that she does it and try to turn a blind eye, leave her.  There’s nothing she can provide that another woman can’t.  Fucking stand up for yourselves.  Men AND women.  Pursue what you want.

have you ever had sex with someone who is happily married? like someone who is married for like 20+ years? If so, how did you get her?

Of course.  In fact women that have been married for that long have either cheated and are looking to again after a while or they are open to experiences after being with their husband for so long.  Usually those relationships don’t have as much passion and a woman enjoys the spark again.  It’s dangerous though, because those passionate moments are intense and addictive.  I’ve seen completely true-blue, married women, moms and all, turn into slutty lunatics that start to have sex consume their thoughts and energies. Those women honestly take more risks. Things from letting their guard down with hints that husbands may pick up on or worse - being neglectful toward their family.  I’m not trying to break anything up; especially if women have kids.  Thankfully my travel is a natural barrier from someone always wanting to meet and multiple times a week.

Don’t get me wrong, not all women that are married 20+ years are like that.  Of course that isn’t the case.  I get a LOT of questions like there is some silver bullet that makes women drop their panties.  That’s simply untrue.  Yeah, there is a method to the madness to not be a fuckboy or douche, but it only works with women that are already open to those thoughts.  You can’t physically make someone do something and overwhelm their rational thoughts with words when, at their core, they don’t want to.  I’ve had a lot of failures here and seen women flirt, but then get awkward and bail when things progress.  That’s cool.  I don’t push it because those women aren’t feeling it or they aren’t the kind of women that want to cheat.

When women put themselves into situations where they let their guard down (alone, drinking, traveling, etc.), they oftentimes are open to the suggestion of cheating.  When they are completely in control of rational thought, they KNOW they are putting themselves in those environments and situations.  Consent is always a priority, so I absolutely do NOT advocate sexual abuse or assault.

That said, I’ve fucked plenty of women in their 40s that have been married for 20+ years.  When I was in my early 20s I had a cougar fetish and I loved pursuing married women between the ages of 35-45.  Now that I’ve entered that age range, it’s pretty easy to find women in that age range.  Not a lot of guys still commit to keeping in shape!  That and I noticed that women are more comfortable with my age because they assume it comes with more maturity than a guy in his early-20s (which the jury is still out for me!  hah!).

Tattoos are optional. I like women with dirty mouths, when appropriate. Those that have exceptionally talented and creative minds are the ones I enjoy most. I can’t stand talking to someone and it feels like awkwardly pulling teeth.

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Have you ever been caught by a husband or boyfriend? Either caught in the act or just found out? If so, what happened? And what was the final outcome? Thanks in advance.

I’ve had guys find out that I’m fucking their women, for sure.  I’ve been physically caught before and lucky to be alive.  One guy saw us, left the room and cried while I finished fucking his wife.  She was obviously worried, but she just encouraged me to finish so she could do damage control.  Hah!  I’ve had women whose friends ratted them out.  Usually a woman only lets fellow cheating women know.  Birds that flock together and all.  It’s fun to fuck the group, but when one’s relationship fails and if jealousy gets into the mix, women do and say weird shit.  Nobody wants to face a woman going nuclear; a huge reason why I am very sensitive to my identity.  I’ve been caught by a roommate of the person I’m fucking.  Usually there’s damage control there to keep the person’s mouth shut.  I remember fucking a woman whose roommate came back for something after she was supposed to be gone for the weekend.  She caught me fucking her cheating roommate in the living room.  She just said that the woman I was fucking was disgusting and eventually told the boyfriend.  The guy forgave her (guys do stupid shit for pretty women) and despite promising to never do it again, I was fucking her a week later.

Men have found out mostly from women not being able to take the sneaking around anymore and needing to be honest with their men.  These women usually cut me off completely, but a surprising amount of them come back to fuck when they realize that it’s just a part of who they are.  Depending on what it does to the relationship they have, they either own it and he deals with it or they go their separate ways or she sneaks around and fucks me behind his back and keeps her mouth shut.

One woman got caught when the husband found a receipt for a pregnancy test.

I’ve had women tell me that their men started to get suspicious and that’s why I encourage ALL cheaters that I fuck to NOT take really stupid risks.  If they come over, they HAVE to turn location services off on their phones before coming over.  I learned the hard way from that.  Thankfully it wasn’t at my house so some guy could come find me, but at a hotel and the husband wanted to know why she was at a hotel when she was supposed to be shopping.  She weaseled her way out of that one.  Also, if I fuck someone bareback and cum in them, the woman clearly is taking a risk of the man finding out.  Overly soiled panties or tell-tale visible cum is a risk.  Messy clothes, makeup, and hair.  If she needs to take a shower at my place, she needs to be able to fix her makeup and hair before going home (if he would notice).  Take the necessary precautions.

I’m sure you get this question a lot but how did you first start hooking up with and aiming for married or taken women?

I was in college and met a married woman in a bar.  She had a kid that was enrolled at the same school and she stopped in for a drink.  She wasn’t an alcoholic, but she was kind of bummed that her husband didn’t make the trip out there to drop their kid off as well.  He was traveling and didn’t change his plans for a milestone visit.  We flirted and hit it off.  I fucked her that night and since she wasn’t very far away, she made extra efforts to come visit her kid by herself and then come visit me to fuck.  She was in her 40s and it went on for some time.

After that, I actually went out of my way to meet older women, who happened to be married.  I always had some flirting with me, but I was too young and stupid to realize it.  So it became a goal.  I wanted to fuck as many married women as I could, which was kind of a stupid goal, but one appropriate for a young college kid.  It was actually easier than I expected and I’m a fun person by nature (not a disrespectful or abusive piece of shit, so most women kept me in their back pocket to fuck again if they needed. 

After college I got into my field, which required a lot of travel.  Naturally, as a horny 20-something I just made it another goal to find and fuck women on the road, which I realized that married women were easier than single women.

It became a vice.  Now I’m in my mid-30s and I’ve fucked and cum in a lot of married/taken women, which has become my fetish of sorts.  I’ve had some open relationships, but that’s the extent of it.  I’m pretty damaged when it comes to relationships.

Another girls’ night out

This weekend, I had a married friend come over after going out for a girls’ night out with her friends.  We’ve fucked before, but not frequently. It’s always tough to find time for some women to sneak around.  She left her friends early after sexting with me back and forth.  We were all over each other the second she walked into my place.  I spent time slowly eating her drenched pussy and enjoying it.  She came on my mouth before I even got to fuck her.  Thankfully she isn’t the one-and-done kind of woman. She recovered, we kissed and rubbed our partially-clothed bodies against one another. Her pussy was so inviting when the tip of my cock felt it that she just slowly sat down on it. No condom. I didn’t stop to put one on, even though we used them in the past. I was her first bare cock in over a decade and she begged me to cum in her. She’s on the pill, but on the fly she role played that she wasn’t. She told me that she wanted the risk and to feel another man’s cum inside her. She said she was ovulating and that she didn’t know what she would tell her husband if I impregnated her. The verbal cue was so hot. I edged a number of times before I eventually came in her.

It is hot as fuck to have a single FWB that ends up finding a guy and even though she SAYS she wants to stop fucking, she still responds to booty calls.

Keeping Busy

I’ve been keeping busy.  My neighbor has been fun and regularly available during the week when I’m working from home.  I also have a few single friends who fill in weekend time.  I think since Tumblr locked down on content I haven’t been as encouraged to post more.  I know I should.

Recently I had a friend who I hadn’t fucked in a few months reach out. Her husband was going to be in Vegas for the weekend and she wanted to get together.  I had her dress up with some role play.  She is the type that likes it gentle at first, but progressing into rougher play.  We had a long weekend together, so we were able to take our time and enjoy it together.  She said she felt guilty for about a month and a half after we last fucked and that’s why she hadn’t reached out.  She came to terms with it and it took being home alone without prying eyes for her to take advantage of the opportunity.

I also recently fucked a mid-20s waitress when I was traveling.  It was dead where she was working and we spent a lot of time talking and flirting.  She got off of her shift early and I invited her over to my hotel room, but she said she would feel more comfortable at her place, so we went there.  I saw pictures around of her and a guy, which she said was her boyfriend after she got a bit awkwardly uncomfortable.  I asked her if he knew that she invited strange men over to her place.  She said , “No.”  That he trusted her.  I asked her if this was just one big misunderstanding and she just said, “No.”  I grabbed her hair from behind, kissed her and told her that I understood her well then.  She just said, “Yes.” in a deep voice as she gave in.  She had on extremely tight jeans with a big ass and a tight black shirt with smaller tits.  We kissed and throughout the foreplay, I pulled her pants down and ripped the crotch out off of her panties.  She had an amazing bubble butt and I wanted it from behind.  I pressed her down and worked my way into her tight pussy.  I wore a condom, as I considered her “single” in my book.  As I started to fuck her, she said I was the third guy in six months, when she first started cheating.  She came from me eating her pussy as I intermittently gave her a break from fucking to lick her.  After she came, she pulled my condom off and sucked my cock until I came in her mouth.

I also got permission from a local guy on here who reached out and wanted to set me up with his wife.  It originally was moving too fast for me and it set off some red flags, but he put me in touch with his wife and we hit it off.  I met them for lunch one day and the chemistry was the same.  Sometimes when you meet someone, it gets weird if they are different in person.  We went back to their place and he watched me fuck her.  He’s a cuck and took verbal abuse from her as I fucked her.  A lot of talk about the smaller size of his cock and him not fucking like a real man.  When she rode me, he licked her asshole.  When I pulled out to have her suck my cock, he licked her gaping pussy I left behind.  She wanted me to cum on her face and I did, and then watched him kiss her lips with my cum on them.  As he kissed her, I put my still-hard cock back into her pussy.  She came on my cock and she started slapping him in the face as she was losing it.

I’ve had some other adventures and I need to be be better about sharing them online.

Addiction feels like a curse sometimes.  On one hand, I absolutely love the taste and touch of a new woman.  Feeling her excitement pour into me and just drink that raw energy.  On the other hand, the desire for it consumes so much of my thoughts and time as I pursue it!

Still here

I’m still on Tumblr.  I plan to continue to blog my experiences here.  I don’t share personal pictures directly on my blog, so it really hasn’t had that much of an impact to me.  I’m disappointed that it has disrupted the rest of the social ecosystem as much.

If you’re still here too, I’m glad you’re still following.  Don’t be a stranger and reach out to talk.

The Holiday season has been super busy, but I’ll find time to blog.  Don’t worry!

Tumblr Policies

It appears that most of my content will disappear or be flagged in some way with Tumblr’s new, no adult content, policies. DM me for my email and we can keep in touch. 

Quick Update

I’ve been super busy with travel.  I think the last update I had was during back to school season with some moms that I was fucking as their kids went back to school.  The long and short of that is that there are still a few of them that I fuck while I’m not traveling (which is a bit rare).  It makes it more exciting when I can connect.

Football season has been amazing this year.  I haven’t really caught games in person or on TV much, but it usually has given me an opportunity to have wives come over that have husbands that get away to games or hang out with their friends.  There are about three women that I’ve regularly fucked during this time.  They don’t know each other, but they know about each other.  Honesty is the best policy!  

As for travel, I’ve had a few one night stands.  There is a coworker that I work with on the road and we fuck when we run the same deals.  If I’m not fucking her, I’m looking for women on the road, which I’ve found.  I’m actually going back to Boston soon and plan on hooking up with my New Hampshire, married friend if she can come in town with me.

I played with a couple and fucked a new woman from Tumblr.  I’ve been busy.  I’ll try to get more updates as I can.

Sir, I really enjoy your blog and anything you do here. I have a question about size. Did any cheating wife have a husband with a huge cock? Or do they crave you after they tasted that bigger real one? I know it’s more than just size but I wonder if it is not an important reason at the end.

Honestly, a lot of the women that have cheated with me enjoy the passionate outlet.  Size is a factor for those that care about it.  If it gives them additional pleasure because I’m bigger, then sure.  Sometimes it may just be the idea that they are fucking a bigger cock and it being hot in the mind more than the body.  I can’t answer for them all.  To directly answer your question, I have fucked women that have husbands with big cocks as well.  I think there is a level of excitement about a bigger cock and it certainly helps, but the sexy, passionate fire goes a long way.

I’m sure that “big cock addition” is part of it, but that oftentimes is a compliment to the bigger erotic stimuli being the taboo (cheating, only fucking people of a certain/different race, etc.). To some it may mean more than others.

I know it is kind of a non-answer for you, but I want to be as honest as possible.  We can’t put everyone in buckets and assume that we know what makes each person tick.

Back to school moms

Back to school season was and still is kind to me.  I’ve had some moms proactively reach out and plan some day-dates since they have an empty house to deal with.  It’s hard to find time to get together with some stay-at-home moms during the summer with small kids running around.  After a summer of lacking time to sneak away, it builds up to the weeks when kids go back.

The short of it is that I had some sexy time with some local moms.  One mom had a traveling husband, so I went to her place without fear of having him walk in on us while we were fucking.  I have some day-dates set up for this week as well, as I fit it in with travel. I’m sure I will elaborate more on the subject as I have some time.

I wish there was something more crazy or wild to report with each of the encounters, but there wasn’t.  The ladies said they enjoyed getting more dolled up in a sexy way than they had in months.

Thanks for turning your asks on, now I don’t have to bother chat messages. Haha. I do think seducing married women is hot and I see alot of attractive, young Asian women where I live and I wonder sometimes if anyone’s been successful in seducing young married Asian women. I feel that it would be harder to do than someone who’s been married a while.

I’m not sure I understand where you are going with this.  Is the subject of seduction and question around viability of seduction focused on someone that is Asian or young?

You need to tackle these things separately, before you combine and confused them.

Asian women - Yes, Asian women are susceptible to seduction and capable of cheating.

Young women - Yes, young women are susceptible to seduction and capable of cheating.

When you combine these segments of women, why would the answer change?  If you are getting into the “more likely to” neighborhood of statistics, go do some field research.  I never really cared to keep track of wins or losses.

Thank you for the great answer. Do you also have a bit of a bad boy image? Like long hair or tatoos or anything? Any particular clothing style? Maybe accentuate your bulge? Thanks

No.  I travel often and work in sales, so that style doesn’t fit what I’m usually in.  Properly groomed hair, facial or not, and suits are typically what I wear.  Don’t worry about trying to accentuate a bulge.  Work on an image and don’t half ass it.

Great blog. How do you typically gage if a wife is open? Thanks

It depends.  Honestly, I go into it with the mindset of just meeting people, joking around, and pressing some flirty buttons to see how they reciprocate.  It’s all about a social dance to see how people respond and changing my approach to adapt.  The thing is, I talk to everyone; men and women.  Women I’m not even attracted to.  It’s disarming for women that think I am just focusing on them, plus, it takes any edge off any moment where I am only talking to a woman I am interested in.  If you’re talking to everyone and joking with everyone, then you’re the center of attention and pointed flirty comments don’t feel so aggressive to a woman and she likely feels more comfortable reciprocating.

Sex addiction

Someone I’ve been fucking lately started probing and asking me questions about myself.  Things like, why I do what I do.  The topic of sex addiction and maybe understanding where my promiscuous and taboo-seeking nature comes from.

I haven’t seen anyone professionally about this, but I will say (and many of you can deduce) that I’m addicted to sex.  I always seek it.  There is a form of validation that I receive when I fuck new women, sure.  It comes in the form of a thrill that I’ve attracted someone to the point that they will fuck.  The taboo is interlaced with it in that I validate my own sexuality when someone will cheat on their husband with me.  I see attractive women with wedding rings and I get hard.  I feel compelled to talk to and flirt with them.  I’m an attractive male with a big cock that makes a lot of money in my sales job.  It makes it relatively easy when you couple that with my confidence.  I feel that validation when I see a woman’s eyes and absorb her responses to flirting.  I feel it when she feels my hard body against hers and she appreciates how I look and feel.  I feel it when she sees the size of my cock.

That winning feeling of beating her husband because he isn’t giving her what she needs and (in the majority of situations) he simply cannot give her with an inferior cock.

I work out because I love it.  The endorphins I get and the high of working out is an addiction as well.  It’s the thrill and the feeling that just pumps through your veins.  It makes it easy when one addiction helps the success of another.  Thankfully I don’t have an addiction to any hard core drugs, although I’ve met a fair number of women who love to couple drugs, like cocaine, with their cheating habits.

There have been times that I tried to pull away from this lifestyle, but the addiction is too strong.  I have no anchor, as only a few close friends know about my vice and those that do are fucking me.  This isn’t something that I can easily and readily share with close friends, due to the immense level of social judgment that comes with the territory.  I travel often for work, so I’m oftentimes in random cities by myself and unless I lock myself in my hotel room, I am like a kid in a candy store, hopping from location to location, looking for interesting women to meet.

I’m not looking for sympathy, I just have this blog to vent my stories and experiences.  It’s good for me to tell my stories and be able to have a level of anonymity that comes with it.  I plan on sticking with this lifestyle for as long as I can.  I have zero desire to get married and make enough money to be that old rich guy on a boat, inviting women to come travel with me.

Thoughtful day.  Don’t try to stop me.  Come play with me!

I can tell, you’re not doing that on purpose at all.  Your slow clicks; pretending to peruse some content.  You intentionally burn seconds and play with your hair, pretending to sound miffed, like you are having trouble with something.  The look you give me over your shoulder as I catch your eyes says that you know you’ve been caught.  I say something innocuous that couldn’t be misconstrued as harassment, like, “we should get a drink.”  It lets you know that I am on to your game.  I don’t ask; I say.  Asking gives you an out.  Saying and stating lets you know that I know you’re a coward if you end your flirting right there.  Make an excuse to your boss why we need to step away.  Tell your husband that you’re working late.  I don’t give a shit.  Figure it out and feel your heart pound as you meet me for that drink.

Vegas and stuff

Last week I went on a Vegas trip with some friends.  I was the only single guy in the group of guys and I made sure that I had my own room for privacy, should I meet lady friends.  

The fun news was that my friend’s wife, who I fuck and had a baby earlier this year, came with and it was their first trip away from the baby.  We found time for her to disappear into my room to fuck.  It was our first time fucking since she had the baby and she looked and felt amazing.  She was so incredibly into it and it was a shame that we just didn’t have more time.  I did fuck her bareback and while she doesn’t have any protection, she is still breastfeeding and I guess she hasn’t gotten her period back yet.  It was hot watching her back at the pool, kissing her husband with a pussy full of my cum.  Later she told me that they fucked before getting ready for dinner and he had my sloppy seconds.

I actually stayed two extra nights (which is stupid/insane in Vegas) so I could have some time alone to find friends.  I found three women that were at the pool and the “shy, but want to party” type.  All three were married, early 30s; only one had kids.  They were just hanging out and sort of quiet, but they got chatty once I started talking to them.  We had a great time at the pool and I got one of their numbers as I wanted to try to get them to hang out again.  They were busy that night (and so was I with my friends), but the one I got the number from texted me in a progressively flirty and sexy way that night.  I got her to agree to come to my room under the guise of going to the pool early in the morning.  She showed up in a bikini and we immediately started kissing.  The foreplay went on for the better part of an hour and I fucked her for the same.  We cleaned up and I told her I would meet her at the pool with her friends later.  I tried to work an angle with her friends, but it wasn’t so.  The second day I met up with the new friend and fucked her, and I think the other women got a little suspicious.  I tried to keep it casual and interact with them intermittently during the day so it would not make things weird or awkward.  They did all invite me out to hang during each of my remaining nights.  I just couldn’t find a way to break through to the other two other than just being friendly.  I think it set off enough red flags for the friends that I was in Vegas by myself at that point. They seemed to understand that my friends left, that I was the only single one, and welcomed the company.  The one I fucked didn’t ask questions, since she knew what I was looking for.  When we were out, she took every opportunity to get handsy with me when her friends weren’t looking or weren’t around.