Logging Out For A Bit To Manifest Something I've Had Resistance On

YOU MAKE THE RULES

Long post ahead

Listen, I probably sound like I have manifested tens of thousands of things, but I haven't. I've manifested my period going away a few times, and a better living situation. That's almost it.

Since actually discovering that that was the law of assumption, I've been chasing the feeling that I had when I manifested those things. Hell, just recently, I logged out to manifest my man, and I couldn't find that feeling, so I came back to figure out why.

Last Monday, I had therapy (#trauma) and talked so much about my childhood best friend and realized that he's the first person that I've truly loved. So, I decided to lock in. I felt good and started affirming.

Guess what?

Not even six hours later, he posted on his Instagram story, turned on his Facebook messages without adding me back, and posted on Instagram. Now, if you have Facebook, you know that you don't just go on there to turn your messages on and then close the app. He definitely creeped on me, which is the only reason I even posted on Facebook in the first place—so he could see a glimpse of who I am twelve years after we last saw each other and spoke.

After that? Absolutely nothing. In fact, I accidentally confirmed him having a gf last night!! But, I was reading a post by @hrrtshape and realized that I never truly believed in myself. When I manifested my period away those few times, I didn't know anything about the law of assumption, and it was the same when manifesting my current living situation. What was different about Monday? I genuinely believed in myself.

Now, as someone who grew up in an abusive household, I never resonated with the 'it's so easy, all you have to do is believe in yourself', because I didn't know how to do that. My parents never did, so how would I know how to do it?

Belief in yourself and your abilities truly is all you need, though. I believed my period wouldn't come a few times in 2023, and it didn't. I believed that my living situation would change, and it did. I believed that I would see movement from my sp, and I accidentally messaged him on Facebook when we weren't friends on there, and his messages were previously off!

I believed that I need to have the same feeling that I did then and that I can't be consistently freaking out about movement from my sp or it wouldn't come. I believed that I couldn't be crying or upset that he has a gf because then it wouldn't change.

You don't need to put those restrictions on yourself, though. You just need to believe that you make the rules. You decide what you need to do to manifest, not anything anyone on YouTube or Tumblr say you need. Tumblr and YouTube are best for the basics—decide, assume, persist—and the success stories and fun manifesting things.

So, when you say 'I have this' and don't see it, that isn't proof that you haven't gotten it unless you say that it is. It truly is as simple as 'persist and believe in yourself'.

Love,

Josephine

(Effie)

the things that get you to lock in are crazy. I just found out that My Man™️ has a girlfriend and immediately went 'uh, no, fucking lock in girl. That's your man."

The post isn’t available anymore so I have a screenshot. I’m not a minor but I’m a broke university student. Please stop sending me donation dms. I’ve gotten 9 in the last couple hours and I can’t help but think that at least some or half of these 39 new dms are bots.

I have no money to give and I have stopped opening them because of this and the pictures sent that I’ve heard can be graphic. Many of the messages are trying to guilt trip me for ignoring them when I’m maybe on the app 3 times a week to look at my fyp and read fanfiction without really checking activity or my messages.

Yes I reblog Palestine posts to boost them but that is all I can do. Please respect my boundaries and leave my dms alone.

Also no, me not donating or saying stop sending these dms doesn’t mean I don’t care about the situations being talked about in my messages. I don’t know why some people come to this conclusion. I’m pretty sure no one wants to be guilt tripped for not having the money to help out a person in need.

Edit: I’ve changed my message settings and I’m deleting every comment that asks for donations on this post. Obviously you don’t care or didn’t read it. I will reblog your gofundme if it is vetted or donation protected and if it’s not I’m blocking you. Stop trying to find a roundabout way to ask me for donations.

MASTERLIST

GET A GRIP

JUST BECAUSE IT'S WHAT YOU SEE, DOESN'T MEAN THAT IT'S WHAT'S REAL

YOU MAKE THE RULES

EFFIE'S FOOL-PROOF GUIDE TO MANIFESTING

OBSESSION DOESN'T MATTER

STOP RELYING ON THE 3D FOR VALIDATION

TIME IS A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT

IT'S FINE TO RECOGNIZE THE 3D

IT'S FINE TO RECOGNIZE THE 3D

I've seen a bunch of people say that you can't look at the 3d and recognize that something hasn't happened or changed yet. You absolutely can, though.

Your desire manifests when it's your dominate thought. If you're manifesting a call and think for a single second 'omg he/she/they haven't called me yet' DON'T freak out.

It's fine. Take a deep breath and chill out. Recognizing and being upset over something for a small second of your day is fine, so long as you direct your thoughts in favor of having your desire again. Whether that be affirming, visualizing, or rampaging, direct your thoughts back to having your desire.

If having your desire is your dominate thought, then you are going to get it no matter what.

Love,

Effie

EFFIE'S FULL-PROOF GUIDE TO MANIFESTING

+ one extra step that bloggers tend to leave out <3

1. DECIDE

now, this one might seem basic, but the first step is always going to be deciding what you want. Whether it be what you want to look like, what your dream relationship entails, or literally whatever you want! Nothing is impossible.

2. ASSUME

Once you decide what you want, you need to assume that you have it. It's truly simple. A good 'I have x' should suffice before you go onto step three.

3. PERSIST

Now, this isn't the last step, but it's the second most important one. You have to persist in your assumption. Whether this be by affirming, visualizing, or just knowing that it's yours.

Now, can we get a drum roll for my super secret yet necessary last step...

4. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

The belief in yourself needs to come before your belief in the law, in my opinion. It doesn't matter if you do or don't believe in the law if you don't believe that you yourself can do it. Now, some may be like, 'Oh, but I do believe in myself, Effie.' No, you don't, or you wouldn't be wondering what it is that's still holding you back from your desires.

You are your own worst enemy, but that's okay. You can fix it. Believing in yourself might be hard, especially if no one ever taught you how to, but you can learn. Start off with small things if you want.

You can do it. I believe in you.

Love,

Josephine

(Effie)

GET A GRIP!!

you are the creator of your reality!! nobody decides what happens besides YOU!! If you decide that you want something and persist in the belief that you have it, then you have it!!

There is no difference between the 3d and 4d. You can't say that if you have something in the 4d that you have it in the 3d, too, but say that the 3d lags at the same time!! The second that you decide that you have something in the 4d, then you automatically have it in the 3d. The only reason that you don't see it is because you decided that you don't. You decided that the 3d lags, so it does.

Please realize that you are the creator of your reality and that there doesn't have to be a time delay! Manifesting is sooo simple, and people on here really overcomplicate it.

can i help afganistan girls and women with law of assumption?

yes!! you can do literally anything with law of assumption, including 'illogical' things!! I'd personally use something like 'everyone in the world is safe' or 'every woman in Afghanistan is safe' if you want to be specific, in case that's what you were asking!!

JUST BECAUSE IT'S WHAT YOU SEE, DOESN'T MEAN THAT IT'S WHAT IS REAL

Remember in history class, when your teacher taught you about Christopher Columbus and that he's an amazing person? I do. They were lying, though. He was a horrible person. I promise that this leads me into my point lol.

What you see isn't always what is true. You're taught that Christopher Columbus was an amazing person, but he wasn't. Just like how the 3d is telling you that you don't have your desires, but you do.

You look in the mirror and see that you don't have your desired appearance? Yes you fucking do. You see that your sp hasn't called or text you or asked you out yet? Uhm, yes, they have, girl, get with the program.

The 3d is like your school history books, incorrect and misinforming. So, ignore it!

OBSESSION DOESN'T MATTER

Obsessing over the thing you want doesn't matter. It's not going to affect your manifesting unless you let it.

I started seeing movement from my SP when I realized how much I was obsessing and embraced it. The only time that it'll get in the way is if you are constantly looking at the 3d for validation.

So, obsess over your man/woman, obsess over how pretty you are with your desired appearance, obsess about how beautiful your house or apartment is!

If you find yourself looking to the 3d for validation, take a step back and stop affirming or visualizing for a few days. I promise that it'll help.

Love,

Josephine

(Effie)