+ one extra step that bloggers tend to leave out <3
1. DECIDE
now, this one might seem basic, but the first step is always going to be deciding what you want. Whether it be what you want to look like, what your dream relationship entails, or literally whatever you want! Nothing is impossible.
2. ASSUME
Once you decide what you want, you need to assume that you have it. It's truly simple. A good 'I have x' should suffice before you go onto step three.
3. PERSIST
Now, this isn't the last step, but it's the second most important one. You have to persist in your assumption. Whether this be by affirming, visualizing, or just knowing that it's yours.
Now, can we get a drum roll for my super secret yet necessary last step...
4. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
The belief in yourself needs to come before your belief in the law, in my opinion. It doesn't matter if you do or don't believe in the law if you don't believe that you yourself can do it. Now, some may be like, 'Oh, but I do believe in myself, Effie.' No, you don't, or you wouldn't be wondering what it is that's still holding you back from your desires.
You are your own worst enemy, but that's okay. You can fix it. Believing in yourself might be hard, especially if no one ever taught you how to, but you can learn. Start off with small things if you want.
Love,
Josephine
(Effie)