idk what traumatized or mentally ill person needs to hear this but dreams (especially the really disturbing ones you dont want to talk about to anybody) arent some deep peek into your psyche or a sign of your True Desires or whatever theyre quite literally your brain making fruit salad with whatever it can find on the shelf. just putting all that shit in a blender and hitting obliterate. its fine, youre fine, youre not a weirdo for it
"theres roman soldiers in the post apocalypse" theres also usamerican soldiers in the post apocalypse and i dont think we realize how ridiculous that is
me when i wanna talk about my special interests but i got the vampire autism where you gotta invite me to talk about smth first, otherwise i wont say shit or dont know what to say because i feel like im annoying
things that are not selfish:
prioritizing your mental health
saying no
calling in sick to work or school (even if you’re not physically sick)
limiting contact with someone when their issues are affecting your happiness negatively
cutting off toxic people
declining help
setting boundaries for yourself
not immediately responding to texts/calls/emails
ending a friendship or relationship even though the other person “hasn’t done anything wrong”
not donating any money
complimenting and being proud of yourself
treating yourself
i think i am done wallowing in my sadness and letting it ruin my life. among other things
it's the thought that cunts
🤍blessings are on the way🤍