I'm Sick Of Seeing Nesta Stans Talk About Us Invalidating Her Trauma.

i'm sick of seeing nesta stans talk about us invalidating her trauma.

i can't name one person who refuses to acknowledge that.

yes she was groomed. yes she was SAd.

but here's the thing:

that doesn't permit her to be abusive.

sjm is peddling this dangerous narrative that not only do victims become abusers, but that it's justified.

refusing to have nesta acknowledge her behaviour means saying it's okay. it doesn't matter if it's explicitly excused or not. not having her confront the abuse she dolled out and explaining it with "oh well she was abused." is excusing it.

sjm destroyed so much of her credibility when she published this horribly written fuckfest of a book filled with retcons about the archerons before and after the cabin and essentially hand waved away feyre's trauma at the hands of her sister because she faced abuse.