"(182) While We Are Florida, My Sub, Butler Has Only Been Allowed One Release Every Saturday After His

Just wish to see how much of a support this statement can get.

The male need to please a queen can be exploited, but instead of "exploited" maybe "given an opportunity" or "encouraged" to be made manifest.

Be Strict!

Dominance works best when she is strict about it. Being strict gives her a commanding presence. He can feel her attitude just by looking at her. When she is strict, everything she does is noticed by him, because everything she does matters. Her body language matters, her words matter, her attitude matters. Because he knows that she will enforce her rules if he doesn't pay attention.

Being strict does not necessarily mean, being mean. She can be lovingly strict, and still have no mercy. The most wonderful thing in a FLR is that she never has to settle for less than she wants from him. this doesn't just apply to being sexual. It applies to domestic chores, errands, and the way he worships her. She gets to direct him on every level, and be strict about it.

Body worship for example, can be done with her rules in place. He can only worship certain areas at a time. Perhaps she says feet only for a bit, then maybe it's massage only, hands only, tongue only.... She decides every aspect of the worship that takes place, and for how long.

Domestic chores, are to be done to her standards. He must meet her expectations. The house should be as clean as she expects it to be. No half assing it, no sweeping things under the rug. She will check. As long as she is strict, he will strive to meet her expectations, or face the consequences.

The consequences can take many shapes and forms. They can be having to re-do chores, or being assigned more chores. It doesn't have to be painful involving a pain or a whip, but that is also an option she can opt for, if she feels the need, and wants that type of training in her FLR. She can also be strict about his pleasure. She can take it away as she sees fit. Not allow him access to her pussy.

One of the worst punishments for a submissive, is being denied access to her body. Not even allowed to see her naked. A couple of days of that, and he will be very sorry. He craves her, and being allowed access to her is something he will always strive for. So when she is strict, he knows the stakes, he knows what she may do, and it's just not worth it.

Her attitude really sets the tone here. A no non-sense approach that says, you will submit to me, the way I want you to submit to me, or you will face severe consquences until you do. He will quickly start conforming to her rules and obeying her without any more hesitations. Her attitude, and strictness in this manner will arouse him, but also bring him deeper into obedience.

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Guys think with their cocks. So controlling a cock is mind control. Chastity IS brain washing.

Of course Orwell was warning us about a dystopia, whereas I am celebrating an (attainable) utopia.

Why Would a Submissive Want to Become a Service Sub?

For some submissives, pleasure isn’t all about whips, chains, and dungeons. Instead, it’s found in more subtle acts of service, like preparing a delicious meal, folding laundry just right, or fetching the perfect cup of coffee for their dominant. A service submissive gets off on making their dominant’s life easier, knowing that they are appreciated for their hard work, dedication, and attention to detail.

Imagine the sense of fulfillment when you know that your dominant relies on you to keep their day-to-day life running smoothly. For a working sub, this is where the real satisfaction lies. And let’s be real—who wouldn’t want to feel useful, needed, and oh-so-rewarded by their dominant’s gratitude (and maybe a little extra “reward” at the end of the day)?

How is Pleasure Derived from These Actions?

In a BDSM dynamic, pleasure doesn’t always come from direct physical acts. For a working sub, pleasure is more mental and emotional—it’s about being useful, serving, and anticipating the dominant’s needs. The satisfaction of completing tasks and knowing that you’ve improved your dominant’s day gives a rush that can be just as intense as any scene in the dungeon.

When the dominant appreciates their service, even with something as simple as a “Good job” or “You’ve pleased me,” the working sub feels fulfilled. It’s like a gold star on a homework assignment, but with much sexier undertones.

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