Flr-philosophy - Quintessence Of FLR

"(182) While we are Florida, my sub, Butler has only been allowed one release every Saturday after his discipline session. I think that is customary in the S&M world for a slave to release after his whipping should he be allowed to do so................. Last Saturday, just to keep things interesting I made him release BEFORE I whipped him. Later, after his discipline, he begged me not to do it that way again. He said my crop hurt twice as much. I understood. Before an orgasm, a male has so many powerful endorphins surging through his body that the crop doesn't hurt nearly so badly. However, after an orgasm, a male is weak and defenseless..................... The more he begged the more interested I became in using the crop on him after his release. He pleaded with me to pity him. My body responded to his piteous requests in the usual manner- by soaking my panti................... Yeah, I'm like that. Be careful about the kind of woman for whom you dream. She might appear.........Get my movie made!" Ms Lane

Another man in chastity!

Don't be presumptuous

We're halfway through locktober and if you're anything like me the desperation and distraction is really taking hold. I see a lot of content that fantasises about this being a time of constant teasing. The reality might be coming home from work, cooking dinner, doing the dishes, giving your Goddess a massage, then busying yourself for an hour or two before bed.

This is where it gets difficult. You aren't entitled to any kind of sexual gratification. Yeah, you want to be horny and easily controlled. But it's Her decision whether to reward you or not, and part of your training should be learning not to be more bratty than She desires.

To be the best submissive you can be, you have to get over the urges to chase your own satisfaction. You get plenty of chances to give in to them when She initiates and wants to use your desperation to manipulate you. That's the time to melt into a horny mess.

Femdom - Done Right

I have news for you young ladies visiting this tumblr site… You’ve been lied to… Femdom (Gynarchy and Matriarchy) is not what all the hateful jaded women and self-loathing sissies out there in cyberspace try to make it out to be… I’ve been around awhile…

Female Domination, (FLR / Femdom) is about a culture of Strong and Wise Women taking the lead and asserting their innate power in personal relationships and in society in general.

It is about women taking charge (and control) of their men - in and out of the bedroom - to get what they want - to subliminally train their men (naturally) to submit to their female guidance in all things. It is about teaching, leading and training a man to be a better person, a better devotional venerating lover… It is about focusing his mind and psyche on giving rather than receiving, making his woman happy, contented and fulfilled… Femdom (FLR) is also about transitioning and transforming him into a stronger healthier man… There is absolutely no contradiction in a hyper-masculine Virile Alpha Male – Completely and Willfully Submitting to a DOMINANT SUPERIOR WOMAN…

Femdom (FLR) is NOT about humiliating and/or belittling men, treating them as worthless, humiliating them or acting as if they are inferior creatures made to lick the dirt off of womens’ feet… This is just online idiocy and BS the way I see it… I Love and Adore My Venerating. Doting, Healthy, Virile MAN… And So do all the other astute progressive women I associate with socially…

Femdom and “FLR” is about a Woman asserting her power over a man because it’s totally natural that she wants to be in control… She believes she was born to be in charge, and she believes she has earned the right to be in charge… She believes her guidance (in and out of the bedroom) is superior, because she knows intuitively that her inner strength and her inner wisdom is superior to that of a man’s… Sexually, it is about the natural transfer of intoxicating hypnotic sexual power… from the strong virile male - to the superior female - and the transformation of personal identity… The Lady Fucks... The Man gets fucked!  He’s grateful just to be a part of it… Even if this means the woman wanting him to fuck her rough, hard and deep… The woman ultimately decides how things go… After All, Males are sometimes arrested for sexual misconduct, Ladies Are Not… What does that tell you?

Simply stated, I believe in natural female authority - as the core of my family, and share that belief with every other woman in my personal sphere - not because I want a world of weak pathetic men, but because I want a world of strong studly venerating men, who are ultimately guided by the wisdom and strength of even stronger Wiser Women, day-in-and-day-out, in this generation and in all succeeding generations.

A Femdom ”Controlled“  Relationship Does Not Mean … That You Shouldn’t or Can’t - Be Kind, Loving, Generous & Nurturing !!!

Please, Share this Tumblr site with as many progressive women as possible, Especially the younger Generation, The  NEW  World  Leaders  and  Shapers…

Everyday Ways males can serve Women

So let’s say you are a male who is not in a relationship, or you are in relationship but spend some portion of your day away from your Goddess. Remember that all Women are Goddesses and should be treated as such! Here are a few suggestions on how you can serve your Superiors:

If you are on line and there is a Woman behind you, let Her go before you.

If you are going out to pick up something for lunch ask your coworker what She wants don’t accept Her money.

Find out how your Female coworkers like Their morning coffee/tea and bring Them drinks every morning. In fact find out what They like for breakfast and bring Them breakfast.

Leave Waitresses a 30% tip or $10 whichever is greater.

Only go to Female professionals: doctors, dentists, attorneys, ophthalmologists, tax accountants, financial advisors, etc.

Shop at Women owned stores, restaurants and farm stands.

When you are at a gas station and a Woman pulls up behind you, tell Her you just got a promotion at work and you want to treat Her to a full tank of gas. Only buy premium gasoline and pump it for Her so She doesn’t have to get out of the car.

Elderly Women are nothing less than Goddesses with wisdom and They need to be served as well. Help an elderly Goddess cross an intersection, carry Her bags home, if at a supermarket push Her cart to Her car and load Her groceries. It goes without saying if you live near an elderly Goddess check in on Her to see if needs anything daily.

At work many positions of power are still held by males but thankfully that’s changing! If you are one of those males support Women anyway you can. Promote a Female employee, during bonus times reward your Female employees and hire Women only.

You are out to dinner and you see a table of Women. Call Their server over and tell him/Her to bill your credit card. The server can’t tell the Women until They ask for the check and the server can’t tell the Women it was you. Tip the server according to rule 4. This can also be Women with children.

Volunteer at a Women’s shelter. Donate money as well.

Vote for Female candidates, officials and judges. Volunteer for Female candidates and financial support Female campaigns.

If you are stockholder vote against male members of the board and vote Female members of the board. Enter proposals for greater representation of Female employees at all levels and that the company source goods from Female owned small businesses.

Compliment Women daily with meaningful thoughts like: “I love your smile.” “Blue is a terrific color for you.” “I love your hair.” “You have the most beautiful eyes.”

Treat Women with respect. Always say things Yes Ma’am or No Ma’am until She tells you to call her something else. Stand when a Woman arrives or leaves a table, hold doors open, etc. always say Thank You and Please.

Go to a Nail Salon and tell the manager you want to pay for the nail treatments of the next 5 customers. The manager cannot tell the Women until They are finished and the manager cannot give you credit. Tip the nail salon workers very generously. you can also offer to randomly pay for a strangers hairstyle at a beauty salon.

The list is a start. Don’t feel limited to only these ideas. The point is Women are Goddesses and should be treated as such until we all live in a true Gynarchy.