Flr-philosophy - Quintessence Of FLR

It's great to be the Queen!

10 daily rituals to drive submission in a FLR

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Gynarchy is coming.

Shock Collar (Bracelet) for his Balls. 😈

I instructed My slave/husband to buy one of these Remote Shock Puppy for Me several months ago. Once this shock trainer arrived, I looked it over and ordered him to attach it to a locking bondage belt that I secured around his waist. I immediately started experimenting with the shock settings on this wicked little device. My slave’s waist is that it is easily concealable under his clothes and he can wear it anywhere we go (except if we’re flying somewhere of course). 

I really enjoy that I am able to discipline (shock) him when we are out in public like at a restaurant, shopping mall, and so forth. I usually shock him whenever I see is his attention wander from me, or he dares to glace a little too long at another woman.  Sometimes I just give him a shock when we are out and about for My own amusement because I like to see him squirm! Of course this shock trainer is absolutely great to use on My slave around the house. This shock trainer has a fairly good range and I love the fact that I can use it to summon him or administer punishment to him remotely and at various level of intensity wherever My slave is around the house, or in the yard, with just a simple touch of a button! (Isn’t technology wonderful?) 

Since I have been using this shock trainer on him for several months now, I have seen a huge improvement in his obedience, politeness and attentiveness towards me. Some of my girlfriends have noticed all the positive improvements in My husband’s behavior. I few weeks ago decided to let two of my girlfriends in on My little “secret” and told them about the shock trainer. I gave them the remote control so they could try using the shock trainer on My husband and see for themselves how much fun it is (for the one in charge). They loved it! 

One of My favorite uses for this shock trainer is when I allow My slave the privilege of licking My sweet pussy or having sex with Me. I like to give him a shock combined with a command like “faster”, “slower”, “deeper”, “harder”, etc. He responds incredibly well to this sort of training and this way I can control his actions so he provides Me with the exact sexual simulation and experience that I want when I want it. Using this approach with the shock trainer, I have also been able train my slave not to cum inside me until I (sometimes but not always) give him permission to do so. He would rather hold back his cum with all his will rather than risk receiving a merciless torture session including high intensity shocks for squirting his cum without My permission. 

As an enlightened male agree with all of the above. Our status will be that of "her chattle"

Privilege

I think a lot of submissives forget just what a privilege it is to be able to serve her, and how special it is.

First of all, submissives must let go of their own fantasies to truly enjoy the benefits of what submission really is. It must become about serving her, her pleasure, her needs, her desires, her fantasies, and her way of doing things. It's all about becoming hers.

The fact that she chooses you, keeps you in a chastity cage, and allows you to serve her, is a huge privilege that very few others ever get the opportunity of doing so. Once you have Mistress, she is to be cherished! You are being granted access to her, not just her body, but on an emotional level as well.

The D/s dynamic isn't just about sex. It's about the entire lifestyle, and connection you create with each other. That's something special. The fact that she likes you enough to want to dominant you, and make you hers, is a huge privilege.

She doesn't have to grant you access to her body, whether that be, with your mouth, or your penis. Any access to her is a privilege. She doesn't share herself with anyone else that way. You're her rock, she comes home to you, and you pleasure all of her sexual needs. She holds you responsible for all that, what a privilege!

When she gives you this privilege, she is no longer afraid to hold back. She can be upfront about all of her desires, and she will tell you exactly what she expects of you. She gets to use you as her personal sex slave, and you get to be there for all of it. You get to be there to help her learn and grow, and this helps you grow deeper into submission to her.

Allowing you to taste all parts of her body, to worship her, her scent alone is a privilege. To see her completely relaxed while giving a massage, and falls asleep because you did such a good job, this is a privilege. She expects you to be there to serve because of this privilege. You are hers.

Belonging to her is the biggest privilege you can have. It was never about getting off, or making her do things to cater to your fantasies, or topping from the bottom. Don't undermine her, don't insult the privilege she's giving you by allowing you to serve her.

Understand the privilege she is giving you. Understand your place at her feet. Even her feet are a privilege. You see? Access to her body is a privilege, not a right. So honor that privilege by serving her the way she wants to be served, and becoming the obedient boy she deserves. She chose you!

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Go on, kiss the hand that whips you.