Flr-philosophy - Quintessence Of FLR

It’s funny what can make boys of a particular nature go very light-headed, isn’t it.

Give & Take & Take & Take

Equal relationships are about give and take. You give a little, you take a little, and you get along. But being with a submissive male is quite different. You see, being submissive means he gets his pleasure from giving only and is quite happy getting very little or nothing in return.

It took me a little while to realize that to give him what he needs and desires, I had to learn to become a taker and to even deny him some things.

To be the woman of his dreams, and fulfill his fantasies, I had to learn to become selfish. I needed to become his superior, make him serve my needs, and to take control of him. He needed and wanted to be pussy whipped by me.

It’s a hard concept to try to understand and for most people it makes no sense. But it is his kink to be used, abused and neglected and I try to do this in a loving and caring way.

That’s why I tend to concentrate on physical control and away from the sadistic abuse you find in most pornography these days. That stuff is brutal and I want no part of it and he doesn’t either.

I think that is why I shied away from dominating him before thinking I would have to do all the beating and torture. All of that stuff is hyped up in the pornography and isn’t necessary at all to be dominant.

Everyday Ways males can serve Women

So let’s say you are a male who is not in a relationship, or you are in relationship but spend some portion of your day away from your Goddess. Remember that all Women are Goddesses and should be treated as such! Here are a few suggestions on how you can serve your Superiors:

If you are on line and there is a Woman behind you, let Her go before you.

If you are going out to pick up something for lunch ask your coworker what She wants don’t accept Her money.

Find out how your Female coworkers like Their morning coffee/tea and bring Them drinks every morning. In fact find out what They like for breakfast and bring Them breakfast.

Leave Waitresses a 30% tip or $10 whichever is greater.

Only go to Female professionals: doctors, dentists, attorneys, ophthalmologists, tax accountants, financial advisors, etc.

Shop at Women owned stores, restaurants and farm stands.

When you are at a gas station and a Woman pulls up behind you, tell Her you just got a promotion at work and you want to treat Her to a full tank of gas. Only buy premium gasoline and pump it for Her so She doesn’t have to get out of the car.

Elderly Women are nothing less than Goddesses with wisdom and They need to be served as well. Help an elderly Goddess cross an intersection, carry Her bags home, if at a supermarket push Her cart to Her car and load Her groceries. It goes without saying if you live near an elderly Goddess check in on Her to see if needs anything daily.

At work many positions of power are still held by males but thankfully that’s changing! If you are one of those males support Women anyway you can. Promote a Female employee, during bonus times reward your Female employees and hire Women only.

You are out to dinner and you see a table of Women. Call Their server over and tell him/Her to bill your credit card. The server can’t tell the Women until They ask for the check and the server can’t tell the Women it was you. Tip the server according to rule 4. This can also be Women with children.

Volunteer at a Women’s shelter. Donate money as well.

Vote for Female candidates, officials and judges. Volunteer for Female candidates and financial support Female campaigns.

If you are stockholder vote against male members of the board and vote Female members of the board. Enter proposals for greater representation of Female employees at all levels and that the company source goods from Female owned small businesses.

Compliment Women daily with meaningful thoughts like: “I love your smile.” “Blue is a terrific color for you.” “I love your hair.” “You have the most beautiful eyes.”

Treat Women with respect. Always say things Yes Ma’am or No Ma’am until She tells you to call her something else. Stand when a Woman arrives or leaves a table, hold doors open, etc. always say Thank You and Please.

Go to a Nail Salon and tell the manager you want to pay for the nail treatments of the next 5 customers. The manager cannot tell the Women until They are finished and the manager cannot give you credit. Tip the nail salon workers very generously. you can also offer to randomly pay for a strangers hairstyle at a beauty salon.

The list is a start. Don’t feel limited to only these ideas. The point is Women are Goddesses and should be treated as such until we all live in a true Gynarchy.

Go on, kiss the hand that whips you.

"(182) While we are Florida, my sub, Butler has only been allowed one release every Saturday after his discipline session. I think that is customary in the S&M world for a slave to release after his whipping should he be allowed to do so................. Last Saturday, just to keep things interesting I made him release BEFORE I whipped him. Later, after his discipline, he begged me not to do it that way again. He said my crop hurt twice as much. I understood. Before an orgasm, a male has so many powerful endorphins surging through his body that the crop doesn't hurt nearly so badly. However, after an orgasm, a male is weak and defenseless..................... The more he begged the more interested I became in using the crop on him after his release. He pleaded with me to pity him. My body responded to his piteous requests in the usual manner- by soaking my panti................... Yeah, I'm like that. Be careful about the kind of woman for whom you dream. She might appear.........Get my movie made!" Ms Lane

Of course they are at all time😂