Being In A Self Shipping Community Generally Instead Of Like A Selfship Community For A Specific Fandom

Koro-Sensei to help me through the day

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Ways to connect with your f/o (a list for slow living and mindful moments)

♡ Go for a walk and imagine you're holding their hand

♡ Try to make your f/o's favorite foods

♡ If you'd prefer to be pampered, when you make food, put it down with a little love note from your f/o saying how happy they were to make it for you, and that they hope you enjoy it (even if it's just a sandwich or something small!)

♡ Bake bread with your f/o

♡ Go on a picnic with your f/o

♡ Use pictures of them on your phone or computer to body double when you do chores or study

♡ Use pictures of them on your phone or computer to play video games or watch movies and shows with them

♡ Along that same vein, watch something that they expressed interest in—or that you think they'd really like—and imagine the comments they'd make about their favorite media

♡ Print out a picture or use photos on your phone or computer to have a romantic candlelit dinner with them (even if it's just ramen!)

♡ Buy flowers or a plant from or for your f/o and take care of it

♡ Take up a hobby that they enjoy, even if you're not very good at it

♡ Curate a playlist using music they would enjoy

♡ Or you can curate a playlist using music with meaningful lyrics about you and your f/o's relationship

♡ Write loving post-it notes or letters from your f/o and leave them around the house for yourself

♡ If you need reminders, write one for yourself in your f/o's voice (for appointments, medicine, to eat, or any aspect where you need a little help—they're so happy to help you!)

♡ Run yourself a bath with bath bombs or bubbles and imagine your f/o made it for you to relax

♡ If you prefer showers: light some candles, use your favorite music, and imagine your f/o set everything up for you

♡ Spend time in nature with your f/o enjoying the sun or the trees or the beach or whatever little safe spots of nature you can find around you

♡ Imagine their voice guiding you through meditative or mindful deep breathing

♡ If your f/o is from a different culture than you, learn about their culture—make food from their culture, immerse yourself in music or media from their culture, and/or learn their language (even if it's just terms of endearment or phrases of their love for you)

♡ On the flipside, have them learn from your culture, too, and be enthralled and surprised by what they learn

♡ Buy or thrift clothes that look like your f/o's so you can wear them

♡ If you have to purchase clothes for yourself, imagine your f/o hyping up every outfit you try on

♡ Buy or thrift trinkets they would own and decorate your home with them

♡ Buy perfumes or colognes that your f/o wears and spray them on your clothes or bed (or scents that remind you of them)

♡ Use shampoos, conditioners, and/or body washes that they'd use so you can have a shared shower space with them

♡ Paint your nails your f/o's favorite color or colors that remind you of them

♡ Read a book you think they would enjoy, and—if you own the book—annotate the margins with little notes for them

♡ Journal your thoughts about them—gush about them, write about their flaws and merits, outline all of your favorite aspects of their physical features or personality, all of the reasons you're grateful to have them in your life, and include lots of little hearts and declarations of love

♡ Alternatively, get a journal that they would have and do the same thing, but in their voice about you

♡ You can also use journals to vent to your f/o so they can read it and help comfort you

Remember: your f/o wants you to eat, drink water, remember your meds/vitamins, take care of your hygiene, and exercise! Not for them, but because it will make you feel better—they love seeing you happy!

I just need him so much

Genshin Impact Capitano - me ph - Jansen

Capitano when he gets out of that FUCKASS CHAIR

Shoutout to everyone who's f/o is in prison. They WILL be breaking out and their first stop is to give you a kiss for every single day they were gone

Proship dni!!

yes i'm normal about him. i need to gnaw on him like a no. 2 pencil

f/o who loves you even if you don’t present as the gender you identify as. f/o who loves you even if you haven’t transitioned or can’t. f/o who will be accepting of you even if you constantly try out new identities or experiment and don’t find it a burden at all. f/o who loves you for you

Scenario time!: Your F/o is walking somewhere or doing something outside and they find something left on the ground with no owner in sight! It’s such a minuscule trinket and yet it reminds them of you so they decide to gift it to you!

[Proship dni]

Imagine taking your f/o’s cheeks in your hands, gently squishing and stretching them like they’re silly putty. You pinch one side, then the other, giggling to yourself as you shape their face with playful determination. They just sit there, their lips slightly pouty, staring at you with quiet confusion but making no effort to stop you since you seem so delighted.

When you finally let go, their cheeks are warm and a little pink from all your attention. They let out a small sigh but can’t hide the soft smile creeping onto their face. As they glance at you, their eyes shine with a quiet fondness, and it’s clear they loved every second of your affection.