I Think A Lot About Gaining Weight As A Form Of Healing

i can’t stop thinking about this

my honest, best and most fulfilling advice for young girls and women is to not cater to what other men think, need or desire from you. in fact, if you don’t like a man for any reason, be honest with yourself and don’t spend time around him if he makes you uncomfortable in any way. if possible, set as many boundaries as you desire. block and do what you must. you’re not here to coddle a man’s feelings.

from a very early age i was taught to smile and be polished, make myself small (as small as i could) so a man would enjoy my presence. i didn’t listen to my intuition when a man showed red flags and i wish i did.

listen to you. to your voice and other girls’ voices. the male gaze is not at all important or defining of your worth, talents and accomplishments. if a man bothers you or harms you in any way, do not be silent! you are allowed to take up space. you are your own human being and not an extension of his judgment. 

(terfs/transphobes/creeps: do not interact)

these 2 are ones i can think abt rn while im doing hw like, honestly one of my fav quotes is the “don’t think about what’s easy, think about what’s fun” and that goes hand in hand 🤝 with oikawa’s “i forgot that volleyball was fun”

I can't wait to fall in love with life again

My new hobby: recreating vines in New Horizons

✨Love, Security, and Protection Candle Spell✨

🌹 one rose candle with cinnamon, rock salt, and cloves

🌊 one sage and sea salt candle with rosemary

🍪 one winter spice candle with mint and rock salt

🔮 rose quartz, obsidian, and selenite

💫 star anise

🍃 bay leaf with name and intent/sigil written on it (burned)

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for @noonymoon with the best vibes possible 💖✨

*gives you kisses on the cheeks* skincare