My mom questioned my aroace flag and while explaining what it meant to be aroace, her reaction was… a little disheartening. She doesn’t really understand and I don’t think she really will but it kind of made me question myself for a bit. So I had to make me something as a pick-me-up and have Ford come in and make me feel valid for being aroace
rare vent art from a few months ago
"I can't lose you again!"
WHAT IF I KILLED MYSELF
good morning
”he would not fucking do that” but its about how people blatantly ignore a character being aro and/or ace
As an apothisexual (sex-repulsed asexual) I'm happy that you made this post. I truly love being in the asexual spectrum and any other ace existing 🩷
Reblog this if you support sex-averse and sex-repulsed aces, including:
Aces who never want to have sex
Aces who had sex in the past but don't desire it anymore
Aces with sexual trauma who feel like their trauma ties into their asexuality
Aces with sexual trauma who don't feel like their trauma caused their asexuality
Aces who don't want to talk to you about sex
Aces who don't want to hear about sex
Yes even aces who do not want to engage with any sexual content and don't want it in their own personal spaces
Yes even aces who express the desire to have more spaces for queer adults where their boundaries are met (on top of the queer spaces that exist, we do not want to sanitize your existing spaces ffs)
If you cannot be normal about these people existing, if you believe they're a threat to our community and to how we're viewed by people who aren't aspec and the rest of the LGBTQ+ community, you are not an asexual ally. Yes, even if you're aspec yourself. Especially if you're aspec yourself.
Because it's been pride month for 4 days and I'm already seeing people trying to throw us under the bus or pretend we don't exist because that makes the ace community more palatable to exclusionists and people who swallowed too much "aces are puritans" propaganda.
Like to charge, reblog to cast
i must not kill myself . killing myself is the myself killer
people are literally so boring a male character will kill 10000 people and steal candy from babies and theyll be like omg thats my king! but a female character is rude once and theyre like i hope she dies violently