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She was just a baby and she lost so much

Living his best life

Why is no one talking about how having diagnosed ASPD or psychopathy (also a ‘lack of remorse’ also is a frequent determining factor on parole or sentencing, as if that’s fucking controllable) gets you worse sentencing, like longer prison time or lose parole or even death penalty over life according to some. Literally the most blatant ableism nobody talks about. All considered normal and valid and talked about casually. Occasionally, ive heard of non ableist psychiatrists refuse to diagnose people with aspd when they might get in trouble with the law in future because of a fear theyd get worse sentences or death because of this. Having a disorder about a lack of empathy and impulse control is somehow considered voluntary and making you more “evil” and deserving of suffering. Prison system is shit in general but this is a great example.

HANG IN THERE BABY!! instagram | bluesky | patreon

‼️prints here

soundscape of young green martian playing with pvc pipes

bangladeshi hatsune miku 🇧🇩

have u ever drawn arcane???? :o

YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!! here's all of it

my tumblr app keep crashing

TREX!!!! (Truck sex)

not my oc i drew this for my sweet friend lu!!!!! pls look at their art here !!

The worst thing is that there is so much potential for exploring the horror of psych wards from the angle of medical abuse, ableism, forced treatment/drugging, loss of autonomy, power imbalance, demonization, dehumanization, etc, and YET the horror genre keeps defaulting to "insane asylums and psych wards are scary because there are mentally ill people in there"

People who self harm only for attention are just as valid as people who self harm for any other reason.

Seriously.

Parents often make the mistake of dismissing their child’s self harm as “attention seeking” when it’s otherwise.

But what always gets me is that, even if a child is harming themselves solely to get attention, that is a huge problem they need help for!

If a person has to go as far as to cause physical harm to themselves in order to gain what they feel as the proper amount of attention, that is someone who needs help ASAP.

No matter the form, no matter the severity, no matter the reason, self harm is a sign of severe distress that deserves immediate, intense attention.

And no one will ever convince me otherwise.

just because i post openly about having DID does not mean that i am suddenly consenting to your personal research projects where you can ask me anything and everything about my disorder and i have to answer you in full detail. i don't have to answer you at all. this is a personal blog, not an educational blog. try reading a book or something

Unfortunately I do get the urge to control and manipulate others because it's a literal symptom of my disorder. Having such urges does not make me or anyone a bad person. What would make me a bad person is following these urge and hurting others. But I can't control what urges I have. I can control my reaction to these urges.

Also I've seen people say stuff like "This is not normal, hope this helps" or "You need help" (in a insulting way) when pwNPD talk about their experiences. A majority of us are completely aware. It's not normal and we do need help because it's part of a mental disorder. People who say stuff like that make it difficult for us narcissists to get help. We are constantly demonized, even by professionals, the people who are supposed to help us.

idk i saw this on pinterest and couldn't resist the urge lmao

Going Mad at Sea: A Packing List.

Are you planning on a nautical severance from your sanity? Here are some things to consider packing along!

I keep seeing people responding to the executive order Trump signed defining biological sex as being fixed at conception, and everyone's making the same joke that it means all Americans are women now because all embryos develop as female at first (hence male nipples).

However, since the order declared biological sex to be based on what gametes (sex cells i.e. sperm or egg) one produces, then that obviously means that no one has a biological sex since no one produces gametes at conception. Congrats Trump! Everyone's non-binary now.

I didn't know that I didn't know.

working on a tshirt/ print design

NPD Resources Masterlist

[BPD]

The official resources masterlist for NPD. Includes all the links I've shared in the past and stuff I haven't.

Any posts I've linked about supporting those with NPD have been put in the misc section because I do not want to take away from what this post is really about, which is helping people with NPD, not the people around them.

Diagnostic criteria

NPD diagnostic criteria, rewritten by someone who has it

Official diagnostic criteria

An explanation of the diagnostic criteria

Recovery resources FOR the narcissist

NPD recovery resources

How to find therapy for NPD, common types of therapy and signs of an abusive/toxic therapist

Narcissist supply

What is narc supply?

Things that can give a narcissist supply

NPD stigma

The perception of NPD symptoms vs. how a narcissist might actually experience them

Why those with NPD have a hard time seeking help (spoiler alert: it's not because they're unaware)

A plea from someone with NPD (and some resources debunking common misconceptions)

Narcissism is not abusive / abuse is abusive

Debunking common myths on NPD

Common disproven myths about NPD

Miscellaneous

How to support someone with NPD

NPD Carrd (What is NPD, dpt skills and self-help)

Unravelling the connection: npd as a trauma response

NPD terminology (do's and dont's)

NPD safe blogs

@empath-abuse-awareness

@enigma-in-reality

@loverofmirage

@the-npd-culture-is

@nicepersondisorder

@theegosystem

@mischiefmanifold

NPD positivity so you don't have to go looking

Reblog to kiss a narcissist on the forehead

Reblog to tell your local narcissist that they're the best ever

Happy NPD appreciation day

Positivity for systems with NPD

Be normal about narcissists unless it's to give them love

NPD should be EPD (Epic Personality Disorder)

Of course I have a praise kink, I have NPD

Narcissists are so beautiful and handsome and wonderful

Positivity for narcissists who like sex

I love my narcissists

Aromantic narcissists are amazing

Narcissists I love you

Easy ways to spot a narcissist (it's not what you think <;3)

Narcissists deserve to be loved

As usual, if something needs to be deleted because it's wrong/comes from a toxic author/etc. please let me know. I tried to look on Google but all I found was ableist shit, so these are all found by your fellow narcissists on tumblr :)

Edit: If you have any resources, please send them to me through an ask or DM and i'll check it out/add it!

They are feeling more empowered so keep a watchful eye on who is around you.

I cannot for the life of me find the OG post, if anyone knows what these accounts are called now I will cry (positive)

ラッコ、入場

Sea otter entered

うわ〜かうぃい

Oh no cute

無理

No

ちょっとかわいすぎる

Toooo cute

手に負えません

It's out of my control

泣きたいよ

it's too cute i want to cry

なんなの？

What?

地球の宝すぎるから

You are treasures of the earth

動画も絶対に見て！

@鳥羽水族館

Be sure to watch the video too!

@Toba Aquarium