Just Because You Are Having A Discrete Affair With Your Girl (lesbian), It Doesn't Mean That You Use

*What are some of the signs that you are falling in love with someone*

1. If you're falling in love with someone, you might find yourself feeling physically attracted to them and wanting to be close to them.

2. When you're falling in love, you might find that you miss the other person when they're not around. You feel lonely when they're not there.

3. When you're falling in love, you might find that you're constantly thinking about the person and wondering what they're doing, how they're feeling, and when you'll see them again.

4. Falling in love often involves a strong emotional connection to the other person. You may feel a sense of deep caring and compassion for them.

5. When you're falling in love, you probably enjoy spending time with the person and love his/her company.

6. When you're falling in love, you may feel a strong desire to make the other person happy and to do things that will bring a smile to their face.

7. You’re comfortable with making little sacrifices for them.

8. When you're falling in love, you might want to spend as much time with the other person as possible.

9. When you're falling in love, you might find that you want to do things to make the other person happy. You might go out of your way to do things that make them feel loved and appreciated.

10. When they’re sad, you’re genuinely sad too.

*Take Note:*

It's important to note that everyone experiences love differently, and these signs may vary from person to person.

*A prostitute died, and on the same day, the old sanyasi who lived opposite her also died. It is a matter of coincidence.*

The Gods who had come to take her started taking the sanyasi to hell and the prostitute to heaven.

The sanyasi immediately stood up, throwing his stick. What kind of injustice are you doing?

You are taking me to hell and the prostitute to heaven, you must have made some mistake, there must have been some official mistake, investigate… the message of heaven must have come in my name and the message of hell in her name.

Let me face God, let us have a few words, my whole life was spent in reading scriptures – and this is the result.

God unnecessarily deceived me.

She was taken to God, God said there is a deep reason behind this, the prostitute used to drink alcohol, lived in pleasures, but when you used to sit in the temple and sing bhajans, light incense sticks, ring the bells, then she used to think when will I get this good fortune in my life, will I be able to sit in the temple and sing bhajans or not, she She used to cry a lot, and when the fragrance of your incense reached her house, she considered herself fortunate, she used to get ecstatic on hearing the sound of bells.

But even while praying, your mind used to think that the prostitute is beautiful, but how to reach there?

You could not muster courage. Your reputation came in the way - the people of the whole village considered you a sanyasi.

When the prostitute used to dance, liquor used to be distributed, lust used to arise in your mind, you were interested, you kept considering yourself unfortunate.. that is why the prostitute was brought to heaven and you to hell.

The conscience of the prostitute used to call you lust. She used to pray, and you had a desire for lust.

She was in the mud but kept rising like a lotus, and you came as a lotus, remained stuck in the mud.

The real question is not what you are from outside. The real question is, what are you from inside?

The deciding factor is within.

i’ll wait like a dog for you

crawling at your feet

begging for scraps from the dinner table

but i’m happier here

because you told me i should be

looking up at you from my shallow grave

my body grows cold as i wait for the next time you’ll want me

you’re the one who haunts me at night

watching as i call your name when i cum

Dear Santa,

I know that I'm probably on your "naughty" list this year. I'm very sorry and I'll try to do better next year.

I'm not writing to you asking you to bring me toys, although a Lovesense Lush would be wonderful.

But...If it is at all possible, can you please bring me a werewolf/wolf man like the ones in the stories that I read, so that I can live out my filthiest fantasy experience. Even just one time?

Thank you Santa...I'll make sure I leave you cookies and milk by the Christmas tree.

Merry Christmas

MEN ARE LETTING DOWN WOMEN

Men are easily disposable,

Women are indisposable,

During a crisis, a war, or a violent uprisal, the tyrannical opponent targets the man because men are easily disposable.

That is why it is easier for a despot to shoot and kill a man in cold blood and behave ignorant and unremorseful.

But women are indisposable, and for this reason, they easily become the engine of any uprisal.

It is difficult to contain a protest where women are at the forefront providing a buffer for men to escalate the combat.

Women are the most vocal and the most animated.

They stoke the fire, escalate the push , and accelerate the combat.

Why is this so?

Because women want men to step up and fight for them.

Because women want a life where their offspring can easily access food and other essential resources.

Because women have the daunting role of nurturing offspring into the next generation.

Therefore , they are the first to raise the alarm, and thereby, men have to come out of their armoury and attack the villain.

Women feed the warriors. They nurse the injured. They covertly collect intelligence information from the opponent.

They even choose to sleep with the enemy.

This is to ensure their men rise up and advance with the combat.

History has all this written in our Afrikan books of literature.

From The Abushiri revolt to the Chimurenga war to the Maji Maji rebellion to the Mau Mau revolt to the Dahomey revolution.

This is how nature made it.

When thieves raid a village, it is women who have been gifted with the role of alerting the men using their high-pitched screams.

However, in a society where men are effeminate, and women are becoming masculine, such combat will suffer fatigue in the early phase of escalation.

Women will get tired because men will have lost the drive to push forward.

— and effeminate men will betray the combat, they will be traitors and betrayers of the combat, this is why in ancient times, when a warrior was captured by the opponent, he was deported, excommunicated or terminated.

Because once captured, he will throw the combat under the bus, and the entire dream will fizzle. To be rekindled again by another generation of agitated women.

Therefore, men must rise up, and we must continue fixing our frames and mindsets. We must resist any attempts by the enemy to enrol us in the Roman circus to numb the fire in our bellies.

Resist any attempts to corrupt your character for thirty pieces of silver.

This corruption will leave an ugly indelible mark in your soul that will devour you forever.

Therefore, men, before you lose hope, remember why your woman raised the alarm.

Don't bury her voice in your digestive organs.

How does it feel to share your wife?

Open relationships and non-monogamous arrangements involve consensually and ethically engaging in romantic or sexual relationships with multiple partners. Here are some dos and don'ts to consider:

Dos:

Communication: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss your desires, boundaries, and expectations with your partner(s) openly and regularly.

Consent: All parties involved should provide informed and enthusiastic consent to ensure that everyone is comfortable with the arrangement.

Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries and rules that everyone agrees upon. These boundaries may include rules about safe sex, emotional involvement, or time management.

Respect: Treat all partners with respect and kindness. Respect their feelings and emotions, and be considerate of their needs.

Safe Sex: Practicing safe sex is essential to protect everyone's health. Discuss and agree on safe sex practices with all partners.

Regular Check-Ins: Continue to communicate and check in with your partner(s) and yourself to ensure that the arrangement is working for everyone involved.

Seek Support: Consider seeking support or guidance from a therapist or counselor experienced in non-monogamous relationships if you encounter challenges.

Don'ts:

Don't Cheat: Non-monogamy should always be consensual. Cheating or breaking established rules can lead to trust issues and harm in the relationship.

Don't Assume: Never assume that your partner(s) are comfortable with a particular situation or arrangement. Always ask and discuss.

Don't Neglect Existing Relationships: If you're in a primary or existing relationship, make sure to prioritize and nurture it. Non-monogamy should enhance, not replace, your current relationship(s).

Don't Ignore Emotions: Emotions like jealousy, insecurity, and fear can arise in non-monogamous relationships. Don't ignore these feelings; address them with open communication.

Don't Rush: Take your time in exploring non-monogamy. Rushing into it without proper communication and preparation can lead to problems.

Remember that non-monogamy isn't for everyone, and it's essential to find a relationship structure that works best for you and your partner(s). What's most important is that all parties involved feel comfortable, respected, and fulfilled within the agreed-upon arrangement.

*Narcissistic Personality Disorder* (NDP) is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance.

○ They need and seek too much attention and want people to admire them.

○ People with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about the feelings of others.

*How do narcissists act?*

*Narcissistic Personality Disorder* (NDP) involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and ones behaviour, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration

Others often describe people with NPD as *cocky,*

*manipulative,*

*selfish,*

*patronizing,*

and *demanding.*

*How does a narcissist apologize?*

*If* they do apologize, it's often insincere and accompanied by excuses or justifications for their behaviour, says Dr. Michael Kane, chief medical officer at Indiana Centre for Recovery.

*“They often & seldom shift the blame onto someone else or make empty promises to change in order to appease the situation,”* Kane notes

Here are some signs of *Narcissistic Personality Disorder Narcissism* vs. *Narcissistic Personality Disorder*

● Having narcissistic tendencies -- like bragging or making themself the centre of attention -- are normal when they occur occasionally.

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is different.

● Symptoms are more severe, occur across different situations and environments, and make relationships with others challenging, if not impossible.

Here, Zachary Rosenthal PhD, a clinical psychologist at Duke Health, answers questions about NPD and what you can do if you suspect that you or a loved one has the condition.

Dr. Zach Rosenthal discusses the symptoms of NPD, how it is diagnosed, and the individualized approach he takes for treating the disorder.

*What are the symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder?*

Use the acronym *“SPECIAL ME”* to remember the signs of NPD.

1. SPECIAL ME

1. Sense of self-importance

Preoccupation with power, beauty, or success

Entitled

Can only be around people who are important or special

Interpersonally exploitative for their own gain

Arrogant

Lack empathy

Must be admired

Envious of others or believe that others are envious of them

2. How is NPD diagnosed?

○ Trained mental health professionals conduct a structured interview to learn more about an individual’s typical behaviour patterns. If someone consistently displays at least five of the SPECIAL ME traits, they meet the diagnostic criteria for the condition.

*Is NPD genetic?*

*No, there is no gene for NPD, and people are not born with it.* Like other mental health conditions, the environment is a major factor. Children who are encouraged to believe they are extraordinary and always deserve the best - sometimes at the expense of others - could later develop NPD. In these children, traits like confidence are rewarded, while qualities like empathy are not.

○ *Are narcissists bad people?*

Narcissists are not bad people; *it’s their behaviour that’s problematic.* They have been conditioned to believe that they are special and deserve to be treated better than others and approach the world accordingly.

*Can I have a relationship with someone with NPD?*

It depends. If your romantic partner, family member, or boss has NPD, they can make your life challenging. Because they put themselves first, you may feel belittled, and your mental health could suffer. Coping strategies include setting personal boundaries and gently walking away if they are breached. However, this is not always easy to do. Calling your partner a narcissist won't help either. Instead, you should focus on your well-being and decide what you are willing to tolerate.

*Can people recover from NPD?*

Yes, but changing a learned behaviour takes time and effort. People with NPD do not generally seek help on their own, and if they do, it is often because of a co-existing problem, like anxiety. Because there is no proven medication or therapy to treat NPD, providers take an individualized approach. Getting to know the patient and establishing a trusting relationship are key components of treatment. If a person is willing to change and their therapist can help them bridge the gap between their current and desired behaviors, there is hope for recovery.

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