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Shadows of Saturn
Moon Behind Big Sur, Doorway to the Universe
Tum kuch nakhre hi utha liya karo mera
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Kyu ke aap ”janaza” nhi utha sakti mera
Breathtaking Beauty 🥰😍🤩😘💞🩷🧡💛💕💋💋💋💋
13 BEST WAYS TO DO WHEN YOUR WIFE REFUSES TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU
1. PREPARE HER
Sometimes it is not that she does not want to make love to you but that all you have to do is prepare her with foreplay to get her in the mood
2. DO NOT FORCE HER
Do not force yourself on her in the name of demanding for your conjugal rights. Forcing an adult to have sex is demeaning and disrespectful
3. CHECK IF YOU HAVE BEEN HURTING HER EMOTIONS
If you have been hurting or ignoring her emotions, she will struggle to be sexually attracted to you. Women make love with their heart. If her heart is bruised, she will struggle to give you her body
4. CHECK IF LAST TIME YOU WERE TOO ROUGH ON HER
If last time you were too rough on her leaving her vagina, clitoris or nipples sore; she might be uncomfortable about letting you have her. Learn to be gentle
5. CHECK IF YOU HAVE UNADDRESSED ISSUES
If there are matters in your marriage that are not being concluded, intimacy will suffer. Stop ignoring the issues. The sooner you solve them the better
6. CHECK IF SHE SUSPECTS YOU OF CHEATING
If she knows of or suspects you are cheating, it will be a barrier between you two. If you have been cheating, stop it and win back her trust. If she suspects but it is not true, allay her fears and make her secure
7. CUDDLE HER
Sometimes this means more to her than love making. This goes a long way to show her she is not a sex object. This secures her and in doing so, she will enjoy making love with you
8. GAUGE HER MENSTRUATION CYCLE
Know your wife's monthly period cycle. Not every wife lies they are on their periods
9. FIND OUT IF SOMETHING IS STRESSING HER
Maybe there is something outside of your marriage that is disturbing her, maybe it is work issues, financial issues, her health, the children, her parents, a past trauma. Hear her out and show her that you are on her side
10. DON'T CHEAT ON HER
Just because she is not in the mood today, doesn't mean you cheat. She might come around tomorrow depending on how you two treat each other, but if you cheat on her you might lose her for good
11. BE PATIENT WITH HER
Life is fluid, with ups and downs. Sometimes she may not be in the mood just as you are also sometimes not in the mood. Understand her
12. PUT HER ABOVE YOUR PENIS
Show her that she is more important to you than sexual pleasure. There is more to marriage than an orgasm. Once you make her a priority, intimacy will be richer
13. GENTLY ASK HER WHAT IS WRONG
Don't assume or get furious that she is denying you sex. Simply ask her if she is OK, she will open up and you two will grow closer
Remember: Sex is the gift of marriage from our Creator. So, these are the best tips to all marriages to eliminate misunderstanding on the sex issues for a healthy and happy relationship.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
God bless us all.
What a MOTHER means to me;
Multitask personality who
Overwork to Offer Opportunities to everyone with
Tender heartedness Holy Spirit filled,
Healthy and Holistic teacher and trainer who
Encourages people to take a risk in for them to be
Reliable and Respected by humanity.
Breakfast in bed. I love it It's a habit I can't stop But it's so pleasant
Have a good start to the week.........
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she walks her fingers along my spine
with the almighty power of fire and rain
a noteworthy performance that reduces me to puddles
i bring her with me
soaking in these currents
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Feminism Ends When the First Bomb Drops
Modern feminists love to scream about patriarchy and male privilege while living in a world built, secured, and maintained by the same men they despise. They whine about "oppression" in air-conditioned coffee shops, but when real oppression arrives wearing combat boots and carrying rifles, suddenly, equality doesn’t seem so fun anymore.
They think all men are dangerous—until the truly dangerous ones show up. Not Chad from accounting who called them “sweetheart,” but real wolves—men with no allegiance, no morals, and no concern for your pronouns or your feminism.
🔻 Feminism works great… until you're getting invaded. 🔻 Every woman is "equal" until war reminds her she's prey. 🔻 Your gender studies degree won’t save you when the wolves are at the door.
☠️ Feminist Delusion vs. Wartime Reality ☠️
🟢 Feminist Fantasy: "I’m a strong, independent woman who doesn’t need a man!" 🔴 Reality: When the first shot is fired, you’ll be looking for the nearest “toxic male” to protect you.
🟢 Feminist Fantasy: "Men oppress women every day!" 🔴 Reality: You live in the safest, most comfortable era in human history, secured by the very men you demonize.
🟢 Feminist Fantasy: "Women can fight just as well as men!" 🔴 Reality: There's a reason war zones evacuate women and children first—because they know exactly what happens when the conquerors arrive.
🟢 Feminist Fantasy: "I deserve to be treated equally!" 🔴 Reality: In war, there is no equality—there are conquerors and the conquered.
🔥 History’s Brutal Reality Check 🔥
Ancient Rome? Women were spoils of war.
Vikings? If you weren’t shieldmaiden-tier, you were cattle.
World War II? Rape and slaughter defined the fall of cities.
Modern conflicts? Ask Ukraine, Syria, or Afghanistan what happens when the "bad men" come knocking.
🚨 The REAL Gender Privilege 🚨
The biggest privilege women have isn't their right to vote, work, or wear whatever they want—it’s male restraint.
Because here’s a cold, hard fact:
🚫 The only reason modern women get to play the "strong, independent" game is because civilized men allow it.
🚫 If the wrong men show up—the kind that don't give a fuck about your feminism, your rights, or your opinions—there won’t be Twitter activism, protests, or HR complaints.
🚫 There will just be raw, unchecked, primal male dominance.
And the biggest irony? The same men they demonize will be the ones fighting, killing, and dying to keep them safe.
"But Women Fight Too!"
Yeah, sure. Some do. And God bless them. But let’s not pretend the majority of women could survive five minutes in an actual battlefield. There’s a reason women and children get evacuated first. The world knows what happens when the conquerors arrive, and trust me, they do not care about your gender fluidity.
Final Thought: Reality Doesn’t Care About Your Feelings
You can call men toxic all you want. But if real war breaks out, guess who you’ll be begging to protect you? The same men you spent years demonizing.
💀 REBLOG if reality is undefeated.
💬 COMMENT if you know someone who needs this wake-up call. 🚀 FOLLOW if you’re tired of delusional bullshit.
41 RULES TO STAY AHEAD OF THE GAME
1. **Privacy is your superpower.** What others don’t know, they can’t ruin. Keep your life close to the chest—people thrive on drama.
2. **Loneliness is part of the journey.** Embrace it; it’s an art form all its own.
3. **Remember, everything is temporary.** Life is fleeting, so stay grounded and humble.
4. **Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.** Be kind; it costs nothing.
5. **Your partner mirrors you.** Choose wisely. Seek out her values just as diligently as her looks.
6. **Your mental health trumps everyone’s feelings.** Be a little selfish here; it’s vital.
7. **You don’t need more time; you need fewer distractions.** Focus is your key to success.
8. **Guard your time fiercely.** Not everyone deserves a piece of it.
9. **Surround yourself with those who truly value you.** You shouldn't have to plead for respect and appreciation.
10. **Self-love is not selfish; it’s necessary.**
11. **Treasure those who lighten your load.** They are rare gems in this world.
12. **Choose your circle with care.** The right people uplift you; the wrong ones can drag you down.
13. **Peace of mind is invaluable.** Protect it at all costs.
14. **Stop chasing love; simply live your life.** The right person will come along.
15. **Seek those who embody that “grow together” mindset.** Lift each other higher.
16. **No regrets—just lessons learned.** Dust yourself off and push forward.
17. **Pursue someone proud to have you by their side.**
18. **Never surrender.** Everyone faces tough times; pick yourself up and keep going.
19. **If you feel drained, take a step back to recharge—don’t quit.**
20. **Sometimes, you need to disappear to return stronger.**
21. **Learn from the successes of others, but let their mistakes teach you wisdom.**
22. **Want to be happy?** Stop expecting anything from anyone; nobody owes you a thing.
23. **Everything will fall into place eventually.** Keep that optimistic mindset alive.
24. **Keep grinding—your breakthrough is on the horizon.**
25. **There’s nothing more attractive than mutual effort.**
26. **Stop overthinking it in places where you’re not valued.**
27. **If no one lends a hand, take the initiative yourself. Complaining won't help.**
28. **Obsess over your growth.** It’s the best investment you can make.
29. **A heart-to-heart should never end in conflict.** Open dialogue is sacred.
30. **“I’ll do it tomorrow” is just procrastination in disguise.**
31. **Aim not to stay the same—strive to be better.**
32. **Sometimes, waiting is more powerful than forcing things to happen.**
33. **Not everyone will understand your journey, and that’s perfectly fine.**
34. **Heal so you don’t become a reflection of your past trauma.**
35. **Keep your circle small and your friends insightful.**
36. **If they’re only around temporarily, feel free to let them go permanently.**
37. **People come and go; learn how to stand strong alone.**
38. **If needed, take time to disappear and focus on yourself.**
39. **Some will resent you for refusing to be controlled.** That’s their problem.
40. **Concentrate on your improvement, not on proving yourself to others.**
41. **Never, ever return to what once broke you.**
**Keep pushing forward!**
The Ten Commandments Of Sucking Cock
There are a variety of opinions on this subject, but I wanted a definitive list of must-haves after years of personal experience and discussions with Men about what they like and want.
1. Lose your ego. In this moment, you are a cocksucker; embrace it. You will choke, spit up, and be covered in throat slime. The Man you’re servicing may treat you roughly, even rudely. Accept it. You’re a cocksucker with only one function: pleasing him. Do it without pride.
2. Tease him. Men love teasing and edging at the start of a blowjob. Their balls tighten and the juice within begins to churn in the anticipation of what is to come. Lick the head, especially the underside. Flick it with your tongue. Gently stroke the shaft with your hand every so often. Smile.
3. Eye contact. As you take his cock into your mouth, look up at him. A guy loves fucking holes, but eye contact makes you more submissive TO HIM and tells him that he is your Master.
4. No teeth. Obviously there will be some Men who like teeth running along the shaft of the cock, but that’s rare. Avoid it as much as possible. One trick is to extend your tongue out of your mouth slightly, providing protection from the lower teeth (and also opening the throat) as the cock slides in and out of your mouth.
5. Deepthroat. Not everyone manages to master deepthroating, but this is a skill that can be learned through training. Get a dildo and train your gag reflex. Push yourself. You can improve. Men want deepthroat, and you’re their cocksucker of the moment. Learn it.
6. Don’t forget the balls. A Man’s balls are the most sensitive part of his body. Why would a cocksucker neglect such an opportunity to please a Man or heighten his pleasure? Cradle them in your hand while sucking. Roll them around gently. Occasionally take your mouth off his cock and swirl your tongue over them. One added advantage of this is the more direct exposure to his testosterone-laced musk that concentrates around his balls, which will send you deeper into subspace.
7. No blueballing. Once you start to suck his cock, you’re in it until he squirts his last drop of cum. No complaining about aching jaws or a lack of interest. You’re a cocksucker (remember the first commandment) and you’re expected to do your job TO COMPLETION.
8. Moan and dirty talk. Moaning while sucking cock serves two functions: (a) it tells the Man how much you love the size and taste of it, and (b) the vibrations of your moans rising up from your throat stimulate his cock. You can occasionally tell him how much you love sucking his cock, but don’t overdo it! SHOW HIM you love it with your smiles and enthusiasm!
9. The Man does what he wants. It doesn’t matter what he wants to do, roll with it. He’s the Man and you’re his cocksucker. If he wants to throat-fuck you, fine. If he wants to slap his cock on your face or tongue, don’t object. This especially goes for his cumshot. If he wants to cum on your face, let him. If he wants to cum in your mouth ...
10. You must swallow. Nothing upsets a Man more than seeing a cocksucker spit out his cum. It is an ugly and disrespectful rejection of his virility and Manhood. If you don’t like the taste, swallow it anyway. You will survive. Remember, you’re sucking this Man’s cock in order to please him, and his cumshot is your reward for a job well done. Swallow it with pride!
The Ten Commandments Of Sucking Cock
There are a variety of opinions on this subject, but I wanted a definitive list of must-haves after years of personal experience and discussions with Men about what they like and want.
1. Lose your ego. In this moment, you are a cocksucker; embrace it. You will choke, spit up, and be covered in throat slime. The Man you’re servicing may treat you roughly, even rudely. Accept it. You’re a cocksucker with only one function: pleasing him. Do it without pride.
2. Tease him. Men love teasing and edging at the start of a blowjob. Their balls tighten and the juice within begins to churn in the anticipation of what is to come. Lick the head, especially the underside. Flick it with your tongue. Gently stroke the shaft with your hand every so often. Smile.
3. Eye contact. As you take his cock into your mouth, look up at him. A guy loves fucking holes, but eye contact makes you more submissive TO HIM and tells him that he is your Master.
4. No teeth. Obviously there will be some Men who like teeth running along the shaft of the cock, but that’s rare. Avoid it as much as possible. One trick is to extend your tongue out of your mouth slightly, providing protection from the lower teeth (and also opening the throat) as the cock slides in and out of your mouth.
5. Deepthroat. Not everyone manages to master deepthroating, but this is a skill that can be learned through training. Get a dildo and train your gag reflex. Push yourself. You can improve. Men want deepthroat, and you’re their cocksucker of the moment. Learn it.
6. Don’t forget the balls. A Man’s balls are the most sensitive part of his body. Why would a cocksucker neglect such an opportunity to please a Man or heighten his pleasure? Cradle them in your hand while sucking. Roll them around gently. Occasionally take your mouth off his cock and swirl your tongue over them. One added advantage of this is the more direct exposure to his testosterone-laced musk that concentrates around his balls, which will send you deeper into subspace.
7. No blueballing. Once you start to suck his cock, you’re in it until he squirts his last drop of cum. No complaining about aching jaws or a lack of interest. You’re a cocksucker (remember the first commandment) and you’re expected to do your job TO COMPLETION.
8. Moan and dirty talk. Moaning while sucking cock serves two functions: (a) it tells the Man how much you love the size and taste of it, and (b) the vibrations of your moans rising up from your throat stimulate his cock. You can occasionally tell him how much you love sucking his cock, but don’t overdo it! SHOW HIM you love it with your smiles and enthusiasm!
9. The Man does what he wants. It doesn’t matter what he wants to do, roll with it. He’s the Man and you’re his cocksucker. If he wants to throat-fuck you, fine. If he wants to slap his cock on your face or tongue, don’t object. This especially goes for his cumshot. If he wants to cum on your face, let him. If he wants to cum in your mouth ...
10. You must swallow. Nothing upsets a Man more than seeing a cocksucker spit out his cum. It is an ugly and disrespectful rejection of his virility and Manhood. If you don’t like the taste, swallow it anyway. You will survive. Remember, you’re sucking this Man’s cock in order to please him, and his cumshot is your reward for a job well done. Swallow it with pride!
Burden Carried by Female Athletes in the Spotlight after Kenyan Runner's death
Burden Carried by Female Athletes in the Spotlight after Kenyan Runner's death 🏃🏿♀️
The passing of Kenyan star runner Agnes Tirop has brought to the surface issues revolving around the pressure that female athletes, especially those from Kenya, are constantly under. It is a sad reality that this is what it takes to enjoy success in a patriarchal society. Agnes Tirop, a two-time world championship bronze medalist, was found dead at her home in Iten, western Kenya at a tragically…
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Madeleine Hinch is Britain's first female Olympic field hockey title
Madeleine Hinch was born in 1988. Her journey into field field hockey began unexpectedly. It was a schoolteacher who pointed out her exceptional catching and diving skills during a rounders match, a perfect combo for becoming a goalkeeper. Initially reluctant to play in goal, she grew accustomed to the role with each passing season. This perseverance led to a promising medal at the Youth Olympic Games. In 2008, Madeleine won her first international cap. Unfortunately, she narrowly missed out on a place on the British team for the London Games. Nevertheless, the athlete quickly established herself as a pillar of the squad. In 2014, she won her first international medal with England, silver at the Commonwealth Games.
Two years later, Madeleine was at her very best at the Rio Olympics. With composure and precision, the goalkeeper pulled off a remarkable feat, saving all four penalties in the final against the Netherlands. This performance in clutch time earned her the first British title in the history of field field hockey. She continued her rise by winning bronze at the 2018 Commonwealth Games before announcing a temporary retirement from the international scene.
In May 2019, Madeleine made her return to the national team, and in 2022 she won her only gold medal at the Commonwealth Games. In March 2023, she officially announced her retirement from the sport.
Tips for writing plot twists
1. Start with a false sense of security
• The best plot twists work because the audience feels confident they know what’s coming.
• How? Lay down a trail of clues that mislead without outright lying. Create a sense of inevitability.
• Example: A detective follows all the evidence to one suspect, only for the real criminal to be someone they completely overlooked.
2. Plant the seeds early
• A plot twist is most satisfying when it feels inevitable in hindsight. Subtly sprinkle clues throughout the narrative.
• How? Use small, seemingly insignificant details that take on new meaning after the reveal.
• Example: A side character is always conveniently absent during key events—later revealed to be orchestrating everything.
3. Subvert expectations without betraying logic
• A twist should surprise readers, but it must feel plausible within the story’s framework.
• How? Flip assumptions in a way that feels earned. Avoid twists that rely on coincidences or break the rules of your world.
• Example: A character who appears harmless and incompetent is revealed as the mastermind, with subtle foreshadowing tying everything together.
4. Exploit emotional investment
• Twists land harder when they involve characters the audience deeply cares about. Use relationships and personal stakes to heighten the impact.
• How? Create twists that change how readers perceive the characters they thought they knew.
• Example: The protagonist’s mentor is revealed to be the antagonist, making the betrayal personal and devastating.
5. Use red herrings strategically
• Mislead readers by planting false clues that draw attention away from the real twist.
• How? Make the red herrings believable but not overly obvious. They should enhance, not distract from, the story.
• Example: A mysterious object everyone believes is cursed turns out to be completely irrelevant, shifting focus from the true danger.
6. Timing is everything
• Reveal the twist at the moment it has the most dramatic or emotional weight. Too early, and it loses impact. Too late, and it feels rushed.
• How? Build tension to a breaking point before the twist shatters expectations.
• Example: A twist that flips the climax—when the hero thinks they’ve won, they realize they’ve fallen into the villain’s trap.
7. Allow for multiple interpretations
• A great twist makes readers rethink the entire story, encouraging them to revisit earlier scenes with new understanding.
• How? Design the twist so that the story works both before and after the reveal.
• Example: A character’s cryptic dialogue is recontextualized after the twist, revealing their hidden motives.
8. Pair the twist with consequences
• A twist shouldn’t just shock—it should change the trajectory of the story. Make it matter.
• How? Show how the twist raises the stakes or deepens the conflict, forcing the characters to adapt.
• Example: After discovering the villain is their ally, the protagonist must choose between loyalty and justice.
9. Keep the reader guessing
• A single twist is good, but layered twists create an unforgettable story. Just don’t overdo it.
• How? Build twists that complement each other rather than competing for attention.
• Example: A twist reveals the villain’s plan, followed by a second twist that the hero anticipated it and set a counter-trap.
10. Test the twist
• Before finalizing your twist, ensure it holds up under scrutiny. Does it fit the story’s logic? Does it enhance the narrative?
• How? Ask yourself if the twist creates a moment of genuine surprise while respecting your audience’s intelligence.
• Example: A shocking but clever reveal that leaves readers satisfied rather than feeling tricked.