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WHAT'S YOUR SIGN?

PISCES - THE SEX ADDICT(2/19-3/20) EXTREMELY adorable. Intelligent. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humor Energetic. Predict future. BEST kisser. Always get what they want. Very Attractive Easy going. RARE Find. GOOD when found. Loves being in long relationship Talkative. Romantic. Caring. NOT one to give up. 16 years of luck if you repost.

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CANCER - HARD LOVER (6/22-7/22) Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind. Loves being In long-term relationships. Extremely energetic. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Normally not a Fighter, but will if neccessary. Someone loves them right now. 2 years of luck if you repost.

LEO - THE SEX MANIAC (7/23-8/22) Very talkative, outgoing and popular. Nice to everyone they meet. Wild and ravenous in the bed and everywhere else. Beautiful smile and personality. Strong intuition. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, Fun and SEXY. Have own unique appeal. Irresistible lover. Most caring person you’ll ever meet! However not the kind of person you wanna mess with...they will kick your ass... u might end up crying... 10 years of luck if you repost.

VIRGO - THE BEST SEXUAL PARTNER (8/23-9/22) Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. EXTREMELY SEXY. Predict future. Loves being in long relationships. Has lots of friends. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. Also not a fighter, but if they have to, they will also knock the lights out of you if it comes down to it.Cool. Loves to own Geminis’ in sports. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart. 24 years of luck if you repost.

LIBRA - THE PIMP (9/23-10/22) Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor. Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. 5 years of luck if you repost.

SCORPIO - THE VIRGIN (10/23-11/21) Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight for what they want. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Best kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person. ONE OF A KIND.Gorgeous Smile.Not one to mess with. The best sexual partners in the zodiac. Are the most attractive people on earth! 15 years of luck if you repost.

SAGITTARIUS - THE ONE (11/22-12/21) Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in the you know where..!!! Not the kind of person you wanna mess with- you might end up crying! Caring and kind. Smart. Loyal. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor. Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. 5 years of luck if you repost.

CAPRICORN - THE SEXY ONE (12/22-1/19) Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always Wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Sweet. Loud. Loyal. Beautiful. Goofy. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. Loves to smile. Beautiful laugh. Patient. Cautious. Bit of naughty.The one and only. 7 Years of luck if you repost

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10 Clear Signs Your Wife Hates You

It’s a sad reality that love could degenerate into hatred.

When lovers are starting, they never anticipate a day will come when they will start to loathe each other.

That spouse you can’t live without may gradually become your worst nightmare.

Getting to this point is usually gradual.

This is why marriage is hard work.

It’s for two adults, a man and his wife, who would keep choosing each other each new day.

A woman who loved you passionately from the beginning won’t just start hating for no reason.

Something must trigger it.

It starts with anger, and then resentment builds,

Over time, it becomes a full-blown hatred.

Many women have moved the level of deep affection for their husbands to nursing feelings of hatred for them.

As a matter of fact, getting to this point means the marriage is almost over, except steps are taken to address the issues that brought about this.

Have you seen some behaviours in your wife lately that were absent from the beginning?

You can’t stop wondering what happened to your ever-sweet wife.

It has gotten so bad that she doesn’t care if anything happens to you.

And amid arguments, she won’t stop telling you how much she hates you.

I’m afraid to tell you that you don’t need to take that as mere words.

The following are signs your wife hates you.

1. *She stops caring about you.*

When a woman who once cared about every detail about you stops showing she cares, it’s a red signal.

And it would help if you didn’t take it lightly.

Naturally, women are nurturing beings.

When they are in love, everyone knows.

They put in so much effort, and one of the ways they express this love is to show care.

From constant verbal expressions of their love to showering their husband’s gifts,

They want the men in their lives happy.

They are always ready to go the extra mile to make their husband happy.

If your wife has been doing this but suddenly stops, it’s a clear indication that there’s fire on the mountain, and if you still treasure what you both share, you may need to take deliberate steps to salvage your home.

2. *She stops being intimate with you.*

Whenever you try to make sexual advances to her, and she rejects it constantly, it’s a pointer to the fact that she hates you.

No matter how much you try to catch her attention through your gestures, she’d have none of it.

And no, there’s no way you can force her to do what she’s not willing to do.

Women usually attach emotions to sex, making giving themselves to someone they don’t love difficult.

But she will readily give herself to you when she’s happy and in love.

3. *She stops showing interest in your affairs*

One of the ways couples express love to each other is through the interest they show in their spouse’s endeavors.

If she’s ever-present in every aspect of your life,

She’s always available to support and encourage you at all times.

But she stops showing interest, and she sounds so indifferent when you fill her in on some crucial steps you’re taking,

It shows she has lost her love for you.

And at this time, she’s only putting up with you.

4. *She starts criticizing and belittling you*

Sharp criticisms from people we love hit deeper than from people who know little or nothing about us.

When your wife, who used to believe so much in you and gave herself to ensuring that you become the best version of yourself, starts criticizing and belittling your efforts,

It’s a sign that she has developed a hatred for you.

Everything you do nauseates her.

She makes you feel you’re not good enough.

She taunts you with her words.

To her, nothing you do makes sense.

5. *She starts making decisions on her own*

Before now, you both made decisions together as a couple.

You both consider many factors before you pick the most logical one.

Even to the minutest details, she carries you along.

Of course, this is how a healthy marriage should be.

But now, she makes decisions independently without running them by you.

Sometimes, you get to know when she mentions it in passing or don’t even hear of it.

She starts saying, *“I don’t owe you an explanation.”*

And she is unbothered about your feelings.

She deliberately makes these moves to spite you, and she doesn’t give a damn.

*This is a sign that she hates you.*

6. *She stonewalls*

From constantly arguing with you, she could start stonewalling.

She gives a silent treatment.

When she notices your presence, she leaves the room.

She avoids having conversations with you.

Her response to your questions is always a one-word answer or silence.

She treats you as if you don’t exist.

It’s an obvious sign that your presence disgusts her.

7. *She starts doing the exact thing you hate*

Being with you for some time, she knows what you like and hate.

Once she starts doing those things you hate and she refuses to budge no matter how you talk to her about it,

It’s an indication that she has lost her love for you.

When a woman loves her husband, she does everything to please him. One of which is doing what he likes and avoiding what he hates.

8. *She stops confiding in you*

When she stops discussing essential matters about her with you,

She now seems to you like a stranger and not a wife.

And you observe that her friends and family have become her confidant, which means she has lost her love for you.

When love is lost, trust will surely be missing as well.

9. *She tells you, The female gender is an interesting and mostly emotional bunch.*

When in love, they invest their words, time, and resources, including their emotions.

Most women won’t hesitate to express their love verbally.

However, when your once-loving wife looks you in the eye and tells you she hates you.

Please just know that there is fire on the mountain!

Her words are an indication of how she truly feels.

10. *She starts being unfaithful*

This seems to be the height of it all.

A woman who loves you will do everything to see that the marriage works.

She makes every effort to ensure that her love for you is sustained.

However, when you observe that she starts getting emotionally attached to someone else without giving a damn about how you feel,

It’s a clear indication that you’ve lost her.

Some women whose husbands cheated on them sometimes do this to pay back.

*_Conclusion_*

For many reasons, a woman who once loved you starts developing hatred toward you.

When there’s a misunderstanding in the home, it’s essential to resolve it.

If you allow it to linger, you already give room for resentment.

Once hatred sets in, it’s almost impossible to save that marriage, yet, it’s not impossible to resolve it.

Especially if you both still want the marriage.

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Hotwife Lifestyle - Understanding Our Man’s Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage

The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”.  Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?  

Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures.  They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom.  Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”.  With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner.  Is this really true, though?  Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”?  Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?  

Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night.  While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.  

As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually.  This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive.  So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?

He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It

As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”.  We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why?  Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there.  So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”.  Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women.  Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?

For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered.  Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy.  It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy.  It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again.  Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.

The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it

You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”.  I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t.  That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.

Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us.  These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”.  It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.  

So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways.  Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”.  Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge.  This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation.  Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc.  These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.  

The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You

Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here…  The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you.  His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed.  I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were.  I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.  

We’re women.  We are strong and capable and we are smart.  And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be.  Where do we want to be?  We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.  

Happy Hotwifing!

-S