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*"A Woman......."*

A woman becomes so sweet and delicious when she is in bed with a man who she senses loves and enjoys her, that the pleasure she brings excels all delight.

A woman becomes truly radiant when she is with a man who appreciates her for who she is. His genuine admiration and affection bring out the best in her, making her feel confident and cherished.

A woman becomes more open and vulnerable when she feels completely safe and loved by her partner. This vulnerability is not a sign of weakness but a testament to the strength of their bond. It allows her to express her true desires and emotions, knowing she will be met with understanding and compassion.

A woman becomes empowered when she is with a man who respects and values her autonomy. He encourages her to pursue her passions and supports her ambitions, creating a partnership built on mutual respect and admiration.

A woman becomes a source of endless delight when she is with a man who continuously nurtures their relationship. His consistent efforts to show love and appreciation strengthen their bond, making every moment together special.

A woman blossoms into her full potential when she is with a man who believes in her capabilities. His unwavering support and confidence in her abilities inspire her to reach new heights, fostering a sense of self-assurance that permeates every aspect of her life.

A woman becomes more adventurous and willing to explore new experiences when she feels her partner's excitement and enthusiasm. His encouragement to step out of her comfort zone allows her to discover new passions and create lasting memories, enriching their shared journey.

A woman becomes deeply connected to her partner when she senses his emotional availability and vulnerability. His openness to share his feelings and experiences creates a safe space for her to do the same, deepening their emotional intimacy and trust.

A woman becomes a beacon of joy and positivity when she is with a man who consistently brings laughter and light into her life. His sense of humour and playful spirit uplift her, making their time together filled with happiness and delight.

A woman becomes resilient and strong when she is with a man who stands by her during challenging times. His unwavering support and belief in her ability to overcome obstacles empower her to face difficulties with courage and determination.

*Yes, A Woman....*

I died a lot to live a little with you.

Yaghma Golroei

13 BEST WAYS TO DO WHEN YOUR WIFE REFUSES TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU

1. PREPARE HER

Sometimes it is not that she does not want to make love to you but that all you have to do is prepare her with foreplay to get her in the mood

2. DO NOT FORCE HER

Do not force yourself on her in the name of demanding for your conjugal rights. Forcing an adult to have sex is demeaning and disrespectful

3. CHECK IF YOU HAVE BEEN HURTING HER EMOTIONS

If you have been hurting or ignoring her emotions, she will struggle to be sexually attracted to you. Women make love with their heart. If her heart is bruised, she will struggle to give you her body

4. CHECK IF LAST TIME YOU WERE TOO ROUGH ON HER

If last time you were too rough on her leaving her vagina, clitoris or nipples sore; she might be uncomfortable about letting you have her. Learn to be gentle

5. CHECK IF YOU HAVE UNADDRESSED ISSUES

If there are matters in your marriage that are not being concluded, intimacy will suffer. Stop ignoring the issues. The sooner you solve them the better

6. CHECK IF SHE SUSPECTS YOU OF CHEATING

If she knows of or suspects you are cheating, it will be a barrier between you two. If you have been cheating, stop it and win back her trust. If she suspects but it is not true, allay her fears and make her secure

7. CUDDLE HER

Sometimes this means more to her than love making. This goes a long way to show her she is not a sex object. This secures her and in doing so, she will enjoy making love with you

8. GAUGE HER MENSTRUATION CYCLE

Know your wife's monthly period cycle. Not every wife lies they are on their periods

9. FIND OUT IF SOMETHING IS STRESSING HER

Maybe there is something outside of your marriage that is disturbing her, maybe it is work issues, financial issues, her health, the children, her parents, a past trauma. Hear her out and show her that you are on her side

10. DON'T CHEAT ON HER

Just because she is not in the mood today, doesn't mean you cheat. She might come around tomorrow depending on how you two treat each other, but if you cheat on her you might lose her for good

11. BE PATIENT WITH HER

Life is fluid, with ups and downs. Sometimes she may not be in the mood just as you are also sometimes not in the mood. Understand her

12. PUT HER ABOVE YOUR PENIS

Show her that she is more important to you than sexual pleasure. There is more to marriage than an orgasm. Once you make her a priority, intimacy will be richer

13. GENTLY ASK HER WHAT IS WRONG

Don't assume or get furious that she is denying you sex. Simply ask her if she is OK, she will open up and you two will grow closer

Remember: Sex is the gift of marriage from our Creator. So, these are the best tips to all marriages to eliminate misunderstanding on the sex issues for a healthy and happy relationship.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

God bless us all.

I dreamt that we stood outside as it snowed, I felt the chill in my lungs. Then you held me close and kissed me. With your warmth, I never felt the cold again.

Then I woke, alone and freezing, to the clouds weeping outside.

I mean to say, I miss you.