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10 Clear Signs Your Wife Hates You

It’s a sad reality that love could degenerate into hatred.

When lovers are starting, they never anticipate a day will come when they will start to loathe each other.

That spouse you can’t live without may gradually become your worst nightmare.

Getting to this point is usually gradual.

This is why marriage is hard work.

It’s for two adults, a man and his wife, who would keep choosing each other each new day.

A woman who loved you passionately from the beginning won’t just start hating for no reason.

Something must trigger it.

It starts with anger, and then resentment builds,

Over time, it becomes a full-blown hatred.

Many women have moved the level of deep affection for their husbands to nursing feelings of hatred for them.

As a matter of fact, getting to this point means the marriage is almost over, except steps are taken to address the issues that brought about this.

Have you seen some behaviours in your wife lately that were absent from the beginning?

You can’t stop wondering what happened to your ever-sweet wife.

It has gotten so bad that she doesn’t care if anything happens to you.

And amid arguments, she won’t stop telling you how much she hates you.

I’m afraid to tell you that you don’t need to take that as mere words.

The following are signs your wife hates you.

1. *She stops caring about you.*

When a woman who once cared about every detail about you stops showing she cares, it’s a red signal.

And it would help if you didn’t take it lightly.

Naturally, women are nurturing beings.

When they are in love, everyone knows.

They put in so much effort, and one of the ways they express this love is to show care.

From constant verbal expressions of their love to showering their husband’s gifts,

They want the men in their lives happy.

They are always ready to go the extra mile to make their husband happy.

If your wife has been doing this but suddenly stops, it’s a clear indication that there’s fire on the mountain, and if you still treasure what you both share, you may need to take deliberate steps to salvage your home.

2. *She stops being intimate with you.*

Whenever you try to make sexual advances to her, and she rejects it constantly, it’s a pointer to the fact that she hates you.

No matter how much you try to catch her attention through your gestures, she’d have none of it.

And no, there’s no way you can force her to do what she’s not willing to do.

Women usually attach emotions to sex, making giving themselves to someone they don’t love difficult.

But she will readily give herself to you when she’s happy and in love.

3. *She stops showing interest in your affairs*

One of the ways couples express love to each other is through the interest they show in their spouse’s endeavors.

If she’s ever-present in every aspect of your life,

She’s always available to support and encourage you at all times.

But she stops showing interest, and she sounds so indifferent when you fill her in on some crucial steps you’re taking,

It shows she has lost her love for you.

And at this time, she’s only putting up with you.

4. *She starts criticizing and belittling you*

Sharp criticisms from people we love hit deeper than from people who know little or nothing about us.

When your wife, who used to believe so much in you and gave herself to ensuring that you become the best version of yourself, starts criticizing and belittling your efforts,

It’s a sign that she has developed a hatred for you.

Everything you do nauseates her.

She makes you feel you’re not good enough.

She taunts you with her words.

To her, nothing you do makes sense.

5. *She starts making decisions on her own*

Before now, you both made decisions together as a couple.

You both consider many factors before you pick the most logical one.

Even to the minutest details, she carries you along.

Of course, this is how a healthy marriage should be.

But now, she makes decisions independently without running them by you.

Sometimes, you get to know when she mentions it in passing or don’t even hear of it.

She starts saying, *“I don’t owe you an explanation.”*

And she is unbothered about your feelings.

She deliberately makes these moves to spite you, and she doesn’t give a damn.

*This is a sign that she hates you.*

6. *She stonewalls*

From constantly arguing with you, she could start stonewalling.

She gives a silent treatment.

When she notices your presence, she leaves the room.

She avoids having conversations with you.

Her response to your questions is always a one-word answer or silence.

She treats you as if you don’t exist.

It’s an obvious sign that your presence disgusts her.

7. *She starts doing the exact thing you hate*

Being with you for some time, she knows what you like and hate.

Once she starts doing those things you hate and she refuses to budge no matter how you talk to her about it,

It’s an indication that she has lost her love for you.

When a woman loves her husband, she does everything to please him. One of which is doing what he likes and avoiding what he hates.

8. *She stops confiding in you*

When she stops discussing essential matters about her with you,

She now seems to you like a stranger and not a wife.

And you observe that her friends and family have become her confidant, which means she has lost her love for you.

When love is lost, trust will surely be missing as well.

9. *She tells you, The female gender is an interesting and mostly emotional bunch.*

When in love, they invest their words, time, and resources, including their emotions.

Most women won’t hesitate to express their love verbally.

However, when your once-loving wife looks you in the eye and tells you she hates you.

Please just know that there is fire on the mountain!

Her words are an indication of how she truly feels.

10. *She starts being unfaithful*

This seems to be the height of it all.

A woman who loves you will do everything to see that the marriage works.

She makes every effort to ensure that her love for you is sustained.

However, when you observe that she starts getting emotionally attached to someone else without giving a damn about how you feel,

It’s a clear indication that you’ve lost her.

Some women whose husbands cheated on them sometimes do this to pay back.

*_Conclusion_*

For many reasons, a woman who once loved you starts developing hatred toward you.

When there’s a misunderstanding in the home, it’s essential to resolve it.

If you allow it to linger, you already give room for resentment.

Once hatred sets in, it’s almost impossible to save that marriage, yet, it’s not impossible to resolve it.

Especially if you both still want the marriage.

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Awesome psychological facts

1. Life doesn't change, but people do, learn to accept that not everybody is who you thought you knew.

2. Crying is good for your health, it flushes unhealthy bacteria from your body, strengthening the immune system and relieving stress.

3. You can't see your reflection in boiling water, similarly, you can't see the truth in your life in a state of anger.

4. Some people are genetically more susceptible to perceiving negative events with more intensity and severity than others.

5. People who hide their feelings usually care the most.

6. Never give up on something you really want, it's difficult to wait but worse to regret.

7. The happier you are, the less sleep you require to function every day life. Sadness increases the urge to sleep more.

8. Your brain treats rejection like physical pain.

9. If you don't dream you most likely have some sort of personality disorder.

10. The people who give the best advice are usually the ones with the most problems.

11. Being alone for a long time is as bad for your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

12. If saliva can't dissolve something, you can't taste it.

13. People who blush easily, are more generous and trustworthy than those who don't.

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14. People blink faster when they are lying or are under stress.

15. When you hold the hand of the one you love, it reduces both mental and physical pain.

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Another letter you'll never get

I'm still here wondering if you think about me. Perhaps when you see a quote or listen to a song that I showed you. Or maybe you see something and think, "I'd love to tell her about this". I don't know if I'll ever be able to stop wondering about you. You are so deep in my thoughts, in my heart I think it's impossible to remove you from these places.

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Tips for writing plot twists

1. Start with a false sense of security

• The best plot twists work because the audience feels confident they know what’s coming.

• How? Lay down a trail of clues that mislead without outright lying. Create a sense of inevitability.

• Example: A detective follows all the evidence to one suspect, only for the real criminal to be someone they completely overlooked.

2. Plant the seeds early

• A plot twist is most satisfying when it feels inevitable in hindsight. Subtly sprinkle clues throughout the narrative.

• How? Use small, seemingly insignificant details that take on new meaning after the reveal.

• Example: A side character is always conveniently absent during key events—later revealed to be orchestrating everything.

3. Subvert expectations without betraying logic

• A twist should surprise readers, but it must feel plausible within the story’s framework.

• How? Flip assumptions in a way that feels earned. Avoid twists that rely on coincidences or break the rules of your world.

• Example: A character who appears harmless and incompetent is revealed as the mastermind, with subtle foreshadowing tying everything together.

4. Exploit emotional investment

• Twists land harder when they involve characters the audience deeply cares about. Use relationships and personal stakes to heighten the impact.

• How? Create twists that change how readers perceive the characters they thought they knew.

• Example: The protagonist’s mentor is revealed to be the antagonist, making the betrayal personal and devastating.

5. Use red herrings strategically

• Mislead readers by planting false clues that draw attention away from the real twist.

• How? Make the red herrings believable but not overly obvious. They should enhance, not distract from, the story.

• Example: A mysterious object everyone believes is cursed turns out to be completely irrelevant, shifting focus from the true danger.

6. Timing is everything

• Reveal the twist at the moment it has the most dramatic or emotional weight. Too early, and it loses impact. Too late, and it feels rushed.

• How? Build tension to a breaking point before the twist shatters expectations.

• Example: A twist that flips the climax—when the hero thinks they’ve won, they realize they’ve fallen into the villain’s trap.

7. Allow for multiple interpretations

• A great twist makes readers rethink the entire story, encouraging them to revisit earlier scenes with new understanding.

• How? Design the twist so that the story works both before and after the reveal.

• Example: A character’s cryptic dialogue is recontextualized after the twist, revealing their hidden motives.

8. Pair the twist with consequences

• A twist shouldn’t just shock—it should change the trajectory of the story. Make it matter.

• How? Show how the twist raises the stakes or deepens the conflict, forcing the characters to adapt.

• Example: After discovering the villain is their ally, the protagonist must choose between loyalty and justice.

9. Keep the reader guessing

• A single twist is good, but layered twists create an unforgettable story. Just don’t overdo it.

• How? Build twists that complement each other rather than competing for attention.

• Example: A twist reveals the villain’s plan, followed by a second twist that the hero anticipated it and set a counter-trap.

10. Test the twist

• Before finalizing your twist, ensure it holds up under scrutiny. Does it fit the story’s logic? Does it enhance the narrative?

• How? Ask yourself if the twist creates a moment of genuine surprise while respecting your audience’s intelligence.

• Example: A shocking but clever reveal that leaves readers satisfied rather than feeling tricked.

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15 Habits of Couples that last

1. They show affection both inside and outside the bedroom, nurturing their bond throughout the day.

2. They maintain trust and respect by refraining from gossiping about each other.

3. Starting and ending each day with hugs and kisses creates a strong foundation of love and connection.

4. Heading to bed together signifies unity and ensures quality time together.

5. Small gestures of kindness and thoughtfulness demonstrate their ongoing commitment to each other.

6. They cheer for each other's successes and share in the joy of accomplishments.

7. Together, they face challenges and stand united against outside influences.

8. Regular check-ins allow them to stay attuned to each other's needs and emotions.

9. Date nights are prioritized and cherished as sacred moments to nurture their relationship.

10. During disagreements, their focus is on finding common ground rather than winning arguments.

11. They share all aspects of their lives, fostering intimacy and deep connection.

12. Open and honest communication is valued, ensuring clarity and understanding in their relationship.

13. Active listening precedes thoughtful responses, fostering empathy and mutual understanding.

14. Rather than assigning blame, they focus on finding solutions and moving forward together.

15. Daily acts of sacrifice demonstrate their commitment to each other's happiness and well-being

Intimacy is not just about sex. It's having heart-to-hearts, staying up all night talking, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams & hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching - it's exchanging energy

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