13 BEST WAYS TO DO WHEN YOUR WIFE REFUSES TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU
1. PREPARE HER
Sometimes it is not that she does not want to make love to you but that all you have to do is prepare her with foreplay to get her in the mood
2. DO NOT FORCE HER
Do not force yourself on her in the name of demanding for your conjugal rights. Forcing an adult to have sex is demeaning and disrespectful
3. CHECK IF YOU HAVE BEEN HURTING HER EMOTIONS
If you have been hurting or ignoring her emotions, she will struggle to be sexually attracted to you. Women make love with their heart. If her heart is bruised, she will struggle to give you her body
4. CHECK IF LAST TIME YOU WERE TOO ROUGH ON HER
If last time you were too rough on her leaving her vagina, clitoris or nipples sore; she might be uncomfortable about letting you have her. Learn to be gentle
5. CHECK IF YOU HAVE UNADDRESSED ISSUES
If there are matters in your marriage that are not being concluded, intimacy will suffer. Stop ignoring the issues. The sooner you solve them the better
6. CHECK IF SHE SUSPECTS YOU OF CHEATING
If she knows of or suspects you are cheating, it will be a barrier between you two. If you have been cheating, stop it and win back her trust. If she suspects but it is not true, allay her fears and make her secure
7. CUDDLE HER
Sometimes this means more to her than love making. This goes a long way to show her she is not a sex object. This secures her and in doing so, she will enjoy making love with you
8. GAUGE HER MENSTRUATION CYCLE
Know your wife's monthly period cycle. Not every wife lies they are on their periods
9. FIND OUT IF SOMETHING IS STRESSING HER
Maybe there is something outside of your marriage that is disturbing her, maybe it is work issues, financial issues, her health, the children, her parents, a past trauma. Hear her out and show her that you are on her side
10. DON'T CHEAT ON HER
Just because she is not in the mood today, doesn't mean you cheat. She might come around tomorrow depending on how you two treat each other, but if you cheat on her you might lose her for good
11. BE PATIENT WITH HER
Life is fluid, with ups and downs. Sometimes she may not be in the mood just as you are also sometimes not in the mood. Understand her
12. PUT HER ABOVE YOUR PENIS
Show her that she is more important to you than sexual pleasure. There is more to marriage than an orgasm. Once you make her a priority, intimacy will be richer
13. GENTLY ASK HER WHAT IS WRONG
Don't assume or get furious that she is denying you sex. Simply ask her if she is OK, she will open up and you two will grow closer
Remember: Sex is the gift of marriage from our Creator. So, these are the best tips to all marriages to eliminate misunderstanding on the sex issues for a healthy and happy relationship.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
God bless us all.
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I miss the girl who used to laugh,
Who carried sunlight in her path.
Her smile would brighten every room,
But now she’s lost within the gloom.
Since he arrived, she’s not the same,
Her warmth replaced with hurt and shame.
He twists her thoughts, he warps her mind,
And leaves the love we knew behind.
She vents her pain, she shares her fears,
Her voice is heavy, lined with tears.
We hold her close, we beg her, “Stay,”
But always, always, she drifts away.
I see her trapped, a fragile thread,
Bound by the words he’s deftly said.
He needs her now to pave his way,
But steals her soul with each new day.
She dreams of leaving, breaking free,
But chains of guilt won’t let her be.
I miss the sister that I knew,
Her joy, her light, her spirit true.
How do I help? What can I do,
When every bridge leads back to you?
I hope one day she’ll find her voice,
And finally make the braver choice.
Until that day, I’ll stand nearby,
To catch her tears and hear her cry.
I’ll wait for her, my sister dear,
And hope one day she’ll reappear.
- DK
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by Les Murray
Everything except language knows the meaning of existence. Trees, planets, rivers, time know nothing else. They express it moment by moment as the universe.
Even this fool of a body lives it in part, and would have full dignity within it but for the ignorant freedom of my talking mind.