This Is The DREAM.

The older I get the more I can clearly see that pretty much most of the mothers in the west caused all their own problems themselves. If you weren't trafficked into marriage or sexual slavery as a destitute citizen of some undeveloped or even a developing country, then you have no excuse to be making the choice - and it is a choice, no one forced you do it - to partner with a man and have his children who then ends up treating you and your children like shit. I am not saying that I don't sympathise with these women, but I am saying that they are intellectually inferior and that they should be designated as such as a warning to the rest of us. I will never choose a man even over the biggest handmaiden alive, but that doesn't mean that I will close ranks with that handmaiden. I will simply cut her off and leave her to deal with the oppression of womanhood on her own. The lack of gratitide and accountability from western and westernised women especially cannot continue to be rewarded by feminists. Our foremothers did not sacrifice everything just for their pickme progeny to make the active decision to enable their own oppression at the hands of men and the state. You can complain all you want but that didn't compel the big banks to fix the economy after the Great Recession either. Men will not solve the problems that they contributed to, and I sure as hell am not going to step in on their behalf.

oh my god they’re violating human rights? oh wait that’s part of their religious beliefs <3 wow i love diverse cultures where women are treated worse than cattle!! a beautiful multicultural tapestry of society yaaaas

americans will say shit like "I'm working on affirming myself" and literally be the most self-obsessed person you know

The excuse “they didn’t teach us this at school” tells me the person has been spoon fed information at school their entire life and have become so accustomed to it, they now feel entitled to it. Everything they should know must served to them otherwise how could they know? Which is absurd since they’re the same people who know so many useless information about celebrities and who broke up and who married who. Their main problem is entitlement. Also, education main purpose is to teach people how to reason and obtain and analyze information. If you can’t do that then education was wasted on you.

Becoming a parent is an ego death for the mother. But not for the father. When a couple has a child, the woman becomes a woman and the man stays a man. In the sense that, the role of being a mother is inescapable. A baby is latched to you 24/7 in a way that isn't the case for the father. Even if you were pumping and so that the father could get up and feed the baby instead, you still are going to have to get up to pump to keep your production. There's nothing that a man can do that the woman doesn't already have to do. Most men continue their extracurricular activities as normal, having days out with the boys meanwhile women find that they can't even take a shower anymore without requiring advanced coordination. I mean heck, the fact that men can have multiple families but a woman never can, speak to this fact.

Prior to this, as just a couple without children - you can have gender equality. So if you don't already have it at that stage, you will definitely never have it when you have children.

But the act of having a child is an inescapable gender inequity. Parenthood can never be 50/50 even with a very involved partner. I think this is a very hard pill to swallow.

Concubines will forever be incapable of self-actualisation.

She'll forever live through the achievements of her children while having none of her own.

She will claim the status of her husband and live off his hard earned dollar then claim she's queen of the world and should be respected.

And some people claim only men utilize weaponized incompetence.

Women enjoy the danger of men.

They know that men are always abusive in some way, whether it's weaponized domestic incompetence, financial, or more severe emotional or sexual abuse.

Most continue to date them, because they get a certain sort of sick high on not knowing how abusive and tumultuous the next one will be.

Women are also far more competitive with other women than many people would have you believe. They can be as competitive as men in their own ways, because they compete with other women for men.

They compete to see how much they can take, while maintaining the so-called status symbol of being owned by a man. They become proud of their own degredation.

Men are nothing, really, in the grand scheme of things. Once you realize they're subhumans, they don't have emotional power over you anymore.

Traitor women are the ones who can really hurt us.

The ones who will ignore us for months while in the lovebombing phase of their latest master, as he draws them onto the hook for the new obsession.

The ones who only contact us when the abuse gets to be too much and all they do is vent. Never a, "how are you these days"? Their entire world is their moid.

We will try to help them get out of abusive situations, over and over, and they may sometimes claim to want help, but refuse to take the steps which they could take to leave.

There are situations where women are trying to make escape plans, but due to lack of outside / financial support and the threat of losing her kids, she can't figure out how to.

The above situation is also common.

So it's important to try to educate young women to get educated and have their own careers, but we can't beg them. We can't waste too much time on people who can't hear us.

Women will do what they want at the end of the day and it usually involves letting some man control them.

And ultimately, we have to look out for ourselves so that those women, along with men, don't control us.

some of y'all are strong, brave and invincible feminist women until a woman on tumblr.com implies that separatism is a good idea and that women should try to stop dating men for feminism and safety reasons, then there's no strength or bravery left it's literally too much to handle and you're all crying and shaking in your boots. grow a fucking spine

Nobody on radblr ever goes "hm. female socialization is so prevalent and suffocating that certain women will rebel against it and look down on women perpetuating it. We need to be considerate of them too. #all women are my sisters"

It only gets mentioned in the context of "be considerate and say nothing against str8 momma #16781265829^10 who is doing everything patriarchy wants her to even if it's throwing you under the bus"

hm. so interesting