seeing radfems reblog opinion pieces about how semen hijacks women's brains as if it's science....bruh, you would see that on redpill reddit forums...
This will sound really harsh, but I have a hard time empathising with people who are mentally ill and are also actively planning to have children. "I can control my mental illness," is simply wild, because if you truly could, you wouldn't be mentally ill. Children are far more observant than parents give credit for. Logging on will give you innumerable examples of teens-to-adults who are talking about how their parents had unresolved traumas and mental illnesses that they unintentionally exposed their children to. "I'm sure they tried their best, but growing up was rough," is the best case scenario I hear from these children when they've grown up.
Virginity is a controversial topic among people especially feminism. I think virginity and the separation from is a female liberated as it can get, let’s be real. When I think of women separating them self form to extreme form is “virginity” and abstaining form men in general both sexually and non-sexually. In many ancient civilizations, virginity signaled a woman's independence and strength, they were literally seen psychically and mentally stronger than most women, Virgins were free women," not subject to the will of a man."
Which reminds me of “Artemis” and other female divine figures who are virgin. Virginity have a tons of ties to women who are connected to archery, wilderness and wildlife in some way or form I learned. These days virgin' became even more embarrassing thing to do be towards sex centered and patriarchal centered people especially with the rise of pornographic, prostitution and patriarchal culture; unfortunately.
lack of accountability is our biggest issue these days. we don't move past the guilt, we don't ground ourselves in our free will, we don't let ourselves be moved. we just feel guilty, suppress it, numb it, talk ourselves out of it. and continue in the same old ways we deep down know are wrong. but you are not a victim of your guilt, your guilt is merely a sign.
Imagine only being able to speak English and nothing else. Sad!
If you are young do not be swayed by the whole "identity" shitck. It is a mumbo jumbo word salad to make people feel special, it is purely egoic, nonsensical, and sometimes fandom induced grown up play pretend. Notice how EVERYTHING has become an identity? Mental illness (sometimes physical), sex, sexuality... It all implies that this thing here, yeah, that thing? It can be identified into, you can "become" it on a knee jerk reaction and NOBODY will (at least in their fantasies) question it. And so far this is how it is! Combine it with internet shushing everyone up for questioning the validity of the said identities with threats of accusing them of being problematic and justifying wrong identification as "soul searching" or "exploration" and here you have it! Perfect business plan!
Not to mention how this whole thing has taken off with mental illness, and it becoming a new identity, a shiny, new, fresh, counter culture and subversive label you can PROUDLY wear for no reason. The only "gross" symptoms people managed to normalise were not being able to get up from bed and wash yourself, two of which are very easy to fake. Some people, and you have to admit it at this point, use the whole mental health awareness thing as new technique to learn new ways of manipulation and faking it. And if you question ANYTHING you are ableist. The whole "Men go to therapy to manipulate better" is true, but it also applies to a bunch of people here.
You wanna talk about women’s space? Men have always been in your space, women. You ALLOW him in. You let him into your bedroom, your home. You bring him along when you’re trying to hang out with your friends. Women bring their male supervisor to monitor the conversations and kill the whole vibe.
She’s bringing him into her space. You let him come into your pussy.
This is true for a lot of feminists. A lot of feminists out there love dick. They grip onto it tightly. You tell them to leave men and they hold on extra tightly to dick. It’s amazing, it really is. I’m not sure what they’re fighting for. I’m confused. I’m totally confused.
So of course they’re going to be entitled to go into the restroom, because you have no fuckin’ boundaries. You fear men being in the restroom, you fear your children going into the restroom in case a man is in there… but a man is in your house right fuckin’ now. He’s in your space, right fuckin’ now.”
Black Obsidian (former youtuber)
I see willingness to engage with conflict as one of the ultimate signs of trustworthiness.
you can’t trust someone who fawns or freezes or falls into hysterics at the slightest hint of a conflict, or who equates conflict with abuse. Their “support” only lasts up until the point where they feel their interests don’t entirely align with yours, which upon reaching they will abandon you like the cowards they are.
do not give me a love confession note man i will straight up roll that shit into a joint. i am not kidding. fuck your feelings for me i am smoking that shit