We are suffering from a male whininess epidemic
The whole "if we don't fuck males they're gonna Handmaid's Tale us" argument directly contradicts "men didn't give us our rights, we fought for them". You either have the power and strength to resist males and fight for your liberation or you don't. Stop depending on the government or the arbitrary mercy of males to give you the kiddie rails you apparently need to be a free woman in society.
Women are just as responsible for their roles in upholding the patriarchy as men are. They should not be given a pass by talking about how they were just "brainwashed" or conditioned into their beliefs.
Men and women have both been handed a belief system about EVERYTHING, including our roles in society and the ways we ought to treat each other, and once you're an adult you're 100% responsible for unpacking and unlearning all harmful programming and making good decisions. If you're not responsible, you're not a grown-up. To hold men accountable for this and to give women a pass is to say that men are sovereign, intelligent beings with free will, capable of reason and making a choice between good and evil, and women are not. It reduces women to status of robots with no free will, who are slaves to their programming, or to the status of mental children. It puts women on a level BENEATH men. We hold adults responsible for their actions. It's children who we point to and say, "They don't know any better, they're just doing what they've been told. Give them a break."
You know all these harmful patriarchal attitudes we waffle on about all day, like the idea that women should wear makeup and shave or that females are inferior to males? When you see a post with a thousand comments by women telling a girl she's ugly and needs to begin "looksmaxxing," you're seeing that self-hatred abusively being instilled into another young woman in real time...by women. It's happening right in front of you. It OFTEN comes from other women; THIS is how it's perpetuated!
Or when you hear about boy moms who abuse their daughters while favoring their sons, setting that girl up with a sense of low-self worth that she'll be looking to balance her whole life (probably with manipulative men or self-harming behaviors), you're seeing the message that "๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ต๐ฉ ๐ข๐ฏ๐บ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ค๐ข๐ถ๐ด๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ'๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ง๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ข๐ญ๐ฆ" inflicted on one of your sisters - BY A WOMAN! Quite aggressively too, I might add!
If you saw a person abusing a child or beating a dog with a stick, you wouldn't tell yourself, "Well, they've probably just been taught to do that" or "Well, this OTHER group hurts kids and beats dogs far more often so, I guess I'll let this one slide," would you?
Hold abusers and agents of the patriarchy accountable wherever and whenever you see them. Shut it down. If you're against all this shit, act on it when you see it. No matter what individual you're standing against in any given moment, when you push back against these messages you're standing FOR women and against the patriarchy.
female liberation will go nowhere because many of you are lazy. you don't do anything to help yourselves or other women and think complaining on the internet is real activism. you'll say you love mean women and that women should be gross and loud but get upset at girls who do act like that. you hate women who treat men the way men treat women. you think misandry and the female gaze are actually real. you think being rude and perverted towards men is wrong. you think males can be victims. you still date men. you defend boymoms. you probably are a boymom. you only call out misogynists if they're ugly. you can't leave your house without wearing makeup and uncomfortable clothing, shaving, and inspecting all of your flaws. you put no effort into changing yourself. you can change if you wanted to. you can stop caring about males. you can stay single and stop engaging in hookup culture. you can leave men behind but you choose not to. you don't want to admit it but you'd rather stay oppressed than put any work into getting yourself out of this shithole because it's easy. you're stupid if you complain while doing nothing about your situation. you're stupid if you complain about males while still choosing to keep them in your life, including your male relatives. men are the people oppressing you so stop thinking that they're going to save you. you can only help yourself
When I write about how much I love asexuality and celibacy, I always feel like I need to add a qualifier of "and there's nothing wrong with healthy sexual relations," etc. I'm not doing that anymore.
The entire world is obsessed with the carnal and cheers you on to objectify yourself and others in every way imaginable, 24/7, 365. If you want validation to do that, look in almost any direction at any time, because you'll most certainly find it from our very sick society. But you're not going to find it here.
Procreation is not a neutral act, it feeds both patriarchy and capitalism, strengthening the very systems that oppress and exploit us. In this world filled of inequality, environmental collapse and systemic violence, choosing not to reproduce becomes an act of resistance. Refusing to bring new life into this broken society is not only a rejection of oppressive institutions, but also a deeply moral stance. Fight back. Choose non reproduction.
Women on radblr will always play the "that's misogynistic" card when they have got nothing to say.
Only a dictatorship will stop women from reproducing or else they'll keep breeding like rabbits..
A dictatorship wouldnโt stop them lol. They have to fuck moids because itโs in their biology to do it. They canโt help it. They are natural slaves.