Bebe Buell

art will save you, being unreasonably passionate about something niche will save you, letting past sources of joy show you the way back to yourself will save you, earnestness over composure will save you, the natural world will save you, caring for something bigger than yourself will save you, daring to be seen will save you, kindness not as a whim but a principle will save you, appreciation as a practice will save you, daring to try something new will save you, grounding will save you, love will save you, one good nights sleep will save you

the money mindset ? no, the spoiled “princess” mindset.

i love the topic of money so much because it’s always been an extremely easy thing for me to manifest and i’m here to remind you of how easy it is. you’ll be drowned in it once you fully tap into the mindset of a “spoiled” person.

now, i’m not talking about being spoiled as in ungrateful, condescending, and unappreciative. i’m talking about having the mindset of someone who is always spoiled by those around them. a spoiled person is always receiving things. they’re always given what they want and money seems to be around them everywhere they go. why is that ? because money isn’t something they get, it’s part of their identity and they don’t care how it comes to them.

this mindset can also be considered as receiving princess treatment. and trust me, having this mindset will make money flow to you in unlimited amount and in different forms, and you don’t even have to lift a finger.

reminders :

1. princesses don’t have to do anything to get spoiled. they just exist.

when you truly believe that money is your birthright and that being spoiled is the norm, that’s exactly what you receive. walk around knowing that everywhere you go, people want to do things for you. they want to give you their money. they want to buy you things. they want to pay for your food. they want to pay for your rent. they want to take you anywhere you want.

2. stop putting money on a pedestal.

it’s literally just paper. diamonds on earth are really expensive yet apparently there are planets where it RAINS diamonds. nothing really is as valuable as you think. we assign meaning to everything. having all the money you want is literally a thought away from receiving it. just take it off the pedestal.

3. money comes in many forms.

one thing that helped me manifest anything money related is that i didn’t limit money to just receiving it in its “paper form.” i see money in everything. i see ABUNDANCE in everything. i don’t just focus on money itself. i focus on the idea of being spoiled, thus leading to money being manifested in different ways. i don’t just limit myself to receiving cash or money randomly showing up on my bank account. be open to receiving money in any way aka being spoiled through different ways. i don’t have money to buy food ? oh, whatever. someone will pay for my food. i don’t have money to pay for rent or the clothes i want ? oh, someone will pay for my rent or it will magically be solved because i am spoiled and don’t have to do anything. also, someone will buy me the clothes i want because i deserve to receive gifts and be spoiled exactly how i want.

4. spoil yourself first.

i know this might raise some questions like how tf am i supposed to do that ? this works for me so it might work for you as well. i always spoil myself in any way possible. through self-care routines, buying myself little things if i can, and overall doing things that make me in the state of being someone who is living a soft life ? i also keep affirming that i’m always spoiled and receive princess treatment from everyone. i don’t necessarily focus on money as something that is separate from me. i make it my identity and like i said, i’m fully open to receiving it in any way possible not just in a particular form. and since then, i’ve been manifesting not only cash, but also everything i could possibly want that requires money without having to pay at all, paying a little amount, etc.

affirmations :

i am drowned in money everywhere i go.

i receive princess treatment from absolutely everyone.

i am always spoiled by everyone around me.

everything comes to me effortlessly.

everything works out in my favor perfectly.

i am a spoiled princess. i receive everything i want.

i get paid to exist because life loves me that much.

i love how everywhere i go, people want to buy me stuff.

i love how everyone wants to make my life easier. i truly don’t have to do anything.

i love how money is always chasing me everywhere i go.

money is my birthright and being spoiled is a norm for me.

i love being spoiled and treated like royalty.

i am living a soft life. i don’t have to work hard for anything.

money comes to me easily. i can just sit and do nothing and it begs me to spend it on everything i want.

i have always been a spoiled person. i love how easy my lifestyle is.

i am abundance personified.

overall, you can manifest money in various ways and any way works. i believe that choosing this mindset just makes it flow to you so easily without even having to do anything and it truly feels so good. ✶ ૮₍৹˘ᵕ˘৹₎ა 𓈒

i need women to understand that attraction does not equal respect, love, or care. men’s attraction = lust, objectification, possessiveness. just because men are attracted to women does not mean that they love women or respect women or care about women past having sex with us or having us as a trophy to show off. attraction is not the same thing as respect. men do not respect you, even if they want to be in a relationship with you.

Whats your D9 Ascendant nakshatra? 🔮

Ive been researching Navamsa a lot lately.. it’s so enlightening 👁️ my D9 Asc is Ashwini 🐎♈️

why do men want to be gynecologists? why? why. gynecology is for females and should be practiced solely by women imo 

The Saturn Nakshatra stage is about reevaluating the quality and durability of the given house area in your chart.

That will wildly vary between charts as to how it manifests, but generally Saturn cleans up the mess that the Jupiterian expansion left behind and tests the fortitude of the house Saturn occupies in your chart. You will notice such effects in your life, even if you don’t get a Saturn Mahadasha in this incarnation, simply through the Antardasha of another Mahadasha period.

To give you an example, I have Saturn in the 4th house and I was born in the Saturn Mahadasha, which lasted until I was 11. Even though I was just a child, I had a lot of changes around me during that time (probably because my Saturn is in a Mars Nakshatra), and every housing/family situation I’ve been in during that time has been tested and ultimately what didn’t hold fell apart, until only what was really stable remained when my Dasha changed into Mercury. First, my parents split up and my mom moved out of my fathers apartment. Then, I lived with my grandparents at their house, but it was very small, so there was no long term room for me, I slept in the living room, and my grandparents were getting increasingly tired at raising a child at their age. After I moved into our new apartment with my mom, I still visited every weekend and every major holiday, until by the end of the Dasha my grandmother refused any more sleepovers, saying she was too old and tired for the work it took and family visiting was reduced to Sunday lunch.

Then there was the matter of family community (since my Saturn is in Aquarius). We used to have a very big community between all my aunts and uncles and cousins and their extended family, which resulted in Christmases of around 12 people. By the time my Saturn Dasha ended, my uncle got a divorce and moved abroad to work to be able to afford paying child support. As a result, the family gatherings we got through his marriage were cut, and our holiday celebrations were cut from 12 to 4 maximum 5 people. That change was permanent, and when the Saturn Dasha ended, the family stayed in that shape for a very long time, and only eroded slowly with deaths of family members over time.

I gave you this description so that you can check the Saturn Mahadasha or Antardasha periods in your own chart relative to its house position and observe the changes that took place in your life, and what remained after Saturn’s cleanup.

Magha represents leaving the Mother / home in order to grow into an individual adult and establish one’s own life & legacy.

Dhanishta is dancing to the victory & wisdom gained through defeating the illusions of the material world; the same illusions which our Mother tried to keep us “safe” from to the point of restricting us from the outside world.

No wonder Magha & Dhanishta is such a powerful combo. The beginning of Leo & end of Aquarius.

At it’s most primal level, Uttara Phalguni is the food chain/circle of life. In its civilized state, it is the process of social climbing and obtaining material success and prosperity (basically, rising to the top of the food chain. A common expression said amongst sun nakshatra natives in general is having a lot of “food on [their] plate,” meaning they have risen beyond the lower classes. Uttara Phalguni specifically deals with manners and nobility because it has the desire to be Lord of Animals, which means it desires to rise beyond animalistic tendencies such as poor behavior, poor etiquette and ignorance. They strive to prosper upwards in every sense. Its color is bright blue, like the midday sky. Its sight is facing upward. It is associated with Kundalini awakenings or spiritual awakenings as well. We wake up in our beds when the sun illuminates our consciousness and brings us back to this life. For this reason this nakshatra is loosely connected to astral experiences and dreams, as well).

They use everything they have learned from their ancestor’s mistakes in order to rise and prosper. This is part of why they are generational curse breakers. These people have a natural affinity for history and searching for the ultimate truth in all of creation, especially through the past or their ancestry, all in order to experience spiritual liberation. They are truly the wish-fulfillers of their ancestor’s dreams. They are accustomed to the primal behaviors of people and how we have evolved as creatures. They use this to their advantage to gain material abundance (like how UPH women use their seductive power to tempt men through p-rnography) which closely connects to their power to gain wealth through marriage or unions.

All 3 sun nakshatras deal with evolution (with venus nakshatras as well)

Krittika is the birth of mankind; the first fire discovered by cavemen. The birth of the first man himself.

Uttara Phalguni is the civilized man in a newly found society. This is mankind when it begins to spiritually evolve beyond its own primal instincts in order to create civilizations. This is also the AWAKENING of the first woman, as she must awaken to the civilization being created around her so she does not become oppressed (and also so she can take her rightful position as the one who churns all of creation at her hips and rise to the top of all hierarchies through this truth).

Uttara Ashadha is the idea of survival of the fittest and getting rid of any weaker species for the benefit of a stronger society (these ideas get even trickier to explain for a lot of reasons, but mostly because it’s just way too much detail. Just consider the fact that Charles Darwin had Uttara Ashadha moon)

"I assumed and nothing happened"..

⊹ ࣪ ˖ baby...sit, let me try to help.

WHAT THIS POST COVERS:

why you "assumed" and it "didn't work"

how you actually assume

what if your brain is overactive and "forcing you to check the 3d"? how to "fix" it

1. The Frustration of “I Assumed, But It’s Still Not Happening”

There it is. The frustration. The doubt creeping in, the whispered thought: But I did everything right. I assumed. I believed. And yet… nothing has changed.

You check the mirror—same face. You check your messages—no new texts from them. You check your reality—still the same, still ordinary, still not what you asked for.

And now, you’re wondering: Did I do something wrong? Did I mess it up? Is this all just fake, some elaborate trick I convinced myself of?

No, darling. You didn’t mess it up. But you are making one critical mistake:

You Never Actually Assumed. You Just Wished.

Let’s be honest with ourselves for a second. Did you assume… or did you hope? Did you decide it was yours… or did you wait to see proof before believing? Did you step into the mindset of someone who already has it… or did you just try to convince yourself for a few days and then panic when nothing changed?

Because here’s the thing—real assumption doesn’t waver.

It doesn’t wake up every morning checking for evidence like a nervous stock investor. It doesn’t crumble the second the 3D doesn’t instantly reflect back its desires. It doesn’t treat the unseen like it isn’t real.

If you planted a seed today, would you dig it up tomorrow to check if it’s growing? No. If you booked a flight for next week, would you panic every day, thinking, "What if the plane doesn’t exist?" No.

So why, when it comes to manifesting, do you refuse to trust?

2. What Real Assumption Actually Is

You don’t assume to “make” something happen. You assume because it’s already a fact.

Assumption is not:

A technique.

A method.

A way to “convince” reality to change.

Assumption is reality.

You aren’t trying to “believe” in something far away. You are stepping into what is already yours.

3. Step-by-Step Breakdown of How to Assume Properly

Step 1: Stop Trying to Control the 3D. The biggest mistake? You are still a slave to your senses.

You look for movement. You check your phone. You stare at your bank account. You analyze every little thing for signs that your manifestation is “working.”

And the second you don’t see proof? Doubt. Panic. Desperation.

Let me tell you something: The 3D is old news. What you see right now? It’s a reflection of your old thoughts, not your current assumptions.

Think of it like this: When you order something online, do you sit there anxiously refreshing the tracking page every five seconds? Do you assume it got lost in the mail just because it hasn’t arrived in an hour? No. You trust it’s coming.

Your manifestation works the same way.

You assume, and then you let go of the need to check.

Step 2: Become the Version of You That Already Has It. This is where most people mess up.

They say “I am rich,” but still panic when they check their bank balance. They say “I have shifted,” but still search for reality checks to confirm it. They say “I am loved,” but still stalk their SP’s social media, waiting for a sign.

So let me ask you: If you really had your desire right now, how would you act?

Would you be stressed about shifting if you had already shifted 100 times? Would you doubt your SP’s love if you were already together? Would you panic over money if you were already wealthy?

No. You would be calm. Certain. Done.

So do that now. Be that person now.

Stop acting like the version of you that doesn’t have it. Stop reacting to the 3D as if it holds any power over you. Stop feeding the version of you that still doubts.

Step 3: Make Your Assumption So Normal That You Forget You Even Wanted It. This is the part nobody talks about: Detachment is not forcing yourself to “let go.” Detachment is when you assume so deeply that you forget it was even something you desired in the first place.

Think about it:

Do you wake up every morning manifesting air to breathe? No, because you assume it’s always there. Do you worry about whether the sun will rise? No, because it’s just a fact of reality.

When you truly assume something, it becomes boring. You stop thinking about it constantly. You stop obsessing over when it will happen. You stop treating it like some miraculous event.

It just is. And when you reach that point? It manifests instantly.

4. Addressing the Persistent Doubters

Now, let’s talk about the people who are still unsure. Who feel stuck, who are thinking: "But what if it’s not working?"

Here’s the truth: If you’re still checking the 3D, you’re not fully assuming.

But Leonora I’m anxious! I can’t stop checking, it’s driving me mad! You’re not alone, and it’s okay. Let’s break it down, because we’re going to handle that right now.

Redirect Your Anxious Thoughts

Some of you can’t just stop overthinking. You try to suppress the thoughts, and they come back louder. So what do you do? You redirect them. Accept that anxiety is just an old habit.

Your brain has spent years, maybe even your whole life, doubting things. Expecting disappointment. Looking for evidence that things won’t work. Of course, it’s going to feel unnatural to just “assume.” You are rewiring years of conditioning. Your mind isn’t trying to sabotage you—it’s just clinging to what it knows. So when the thoughts come? Don’t panic. Don’t fight them. Just recognize them for what they are: old programming.

Say to yourself: “Ha, there it is. My brain trying to protect me with doubt again. That’s cute. But we’re doing things differently now.” Then move on. Don’t engage. Don’t spiral.

Use the “Lullaby” Technique

A super powerful trick for anxious minds:

Right before you fall asleep, affirm gently in your mind, like a lullaby. No intensity. No desperation. Just soft, sleepy, matter-of-fact affirmations. Example: “I already have it. It’s already mine. It’s happening so easily.”

Why does this work? Because your brain is most suggestible in that drowsy state. It absorbs things without resistance. If you do this consistently? Your subconscious will start to believe it on autopilot.

Give Your Mind a “Toy” to Play With

Your anxious brain is like a restless toddler. If you don’t give it something productive to focus on, it will cause chaos. So distract it. Give it a job. Instead of letting it spiral into doubt, tell it to focus on something that supports your assumption.

Daydream in extreme detail about having your desire. Write down your perfect reality like it’s already happened. Imagine a scene over and over until it feels realer than reality.

Your brain wants something to chew on. Feed it the right things.

Yes, your mind is loud. Yes, your doubts feel overwhelming. Yes, it’s hard to stop checking the 3D.

Change the Meaning of Checking the 3D

Some of you will check anyway. And that’s fine. But make it work for you.

If you look in the mirror and don’t see a change, say: “Well, that’s nice. That means the shift is happening behind the scenes.”

If you check your phone and don’t see a text, say: “Perfect. That means the next message will be exactly what I want.”

If you check your bank account and it’s not at 7 figures yet, say: “Obviously. The money is still finding its way to me in the best possible way.”

You get to assign meaning. So make it work in your favor.

Flood Your Brain with Certainty

Every time doubt comes up, respond with: “Oh, that’s funny. I literally already have it, though.” Say it with amusement. Laugh at how ridiculous the doubt is. Make assuming feel more normal than doubting.

5. The Final Truth: You Already Have It. Now Act Like It.

You’re still waiting for proof. That’s the problem. You wake up each morning and search for signs, watching the world like a detective looking for clues. You second-guess. You overthink. You try to “catch” reality shifting in your favor like it’s some slippery thing that might escape you.

But what if I told you that you already have it? No, not “on its way.” Not “manifesting in divine timing.” Now. Already. Yours.

Because the second you assume something is yours, it is. Your reality is shaped by your assumptions. You’re already living the life you assumed. The second you realize that, it will click.

And Here’s Your Final Reminder:

Stop waiting for proof. Stop doubting. Stop acting like your desires are fragile or out of reach.

You already have it. Now act like it.

Your mind, your doubts, your anxiety—none of it can stop you unless you let it. The second you stop chasing? That’s when everything shifts.