The Money Mindset ? No, The Spoiled “princess” Mindset.

NASA released the clearest pictures yet of our neighbours in the solar system

Oh and of course us

Honourable mention

the hardest pill to swallow . . if you don’t assume, it won’t work

this isn’t tough love. this isn’t a scolding. this is just the mechanics of reality. this isn’t about blame. it’s not your fault, but it is your responsibility (i saw this quote somewhere and i really liked it, anyway). reality is malleable, but only if you stop acting like you’re at its mercy. stop waiting for permission. stop refreshing the page, stop tapping the glass. it’s done. act accordingly.

consider your brain an old, glitchy computer, whirring in the corner of your psyche, choking on its own outdated code. your subconscious doesn’t know what’s real versus imagined, it only knows the instructions you give it. and if those instructions are “this isn’t happening, i don’t see it, i don’t believe it,” well, congratulations, the system registers that as the blueprint. and it prints that out. over and over. like a bureaucratic nightmare, a kafka novel of your own making.

this is not to say that doubt is failure, doubt is human, doubt is a thrum in the background of any great creation. but if doubt is the occasional rainstorm, belief is the structural integrity of the house. belief holds. belief carries. belief is the scaffolding between you and the impossible, and without it, you are just standing in an empty field, waiting for architecture to spontaneously occur.

there’s a reason schrodinger’s cat remains the most infuriating hypothetical in quantum mechanics, because the cat is both alive and dead until you open the box. the observer collapses the wave function. and in this case, you are the observer. if you don’t believe it, you keep the box shut. if you do believe it, the universe is already rearranging itself around your conviction.

this is not new-age drivel. this is not a vision board with a quote about perseverance peeling off in the humidity. this is physics. have you ever thought about someone, and then they text you five minutes later? that’s the speed at which reality moves when you don’t get in your own way. you didn’t sit there clutching your skull, willing them into existence, you just assumed, with ease, with god-tier nonchalance. and because you weren’t scrutinising the timeline like a detective with a corkboard and red string and bloodied eyes, the message came through. the only thing standing between you and everything you want is the way you react to its absence. the hand-wringing, the despair, the creeping doubt, it’s a full-time job, and it pays in absolutely nothing.

which brings me to my next point: trying. trying is the problem. trying implies effort, and effort implies resistance, and resistance is another way of saying “i don’t actually believe i have this.” and you know what people do when they have things? they stop worrying about whether they have them. a person in possession of an apple does not pace the room, clutching their chest, whimpering, “but do i really have it?” they just eat the apple.

and before you say, “but look at my reality, it’s contradicting me,” i will say this once, and you must etch it into your mind like scripture: reality is old news. what you are seeing is just a delayed projection of past assumptions. do not react to it. do not engage with it. it is a rerun of a show you no longer care about. the moment you stop feeding into the contradictions, they wither. the moment you accept that what you want is already done, reality will course-correct. until then, it is an echo chamber of your previous doubts. ignore it like it’s a tabloid headline about a scandal that never actually happened.

flip the switch. decide, assume, move forward. no more “manifesting,” no more “waiting.” you don’t wait for what’s already yours. you don’t question a chair’s ability to hold you up before sitting down. you don’t send a letter and then agonise over whether the mail system still exists. you assume. you know. and so it is.

and before the panic sets in, no, this does not mean you must be a perfect disciple of unwavering belief. doubt will creep in, as it always does. you will have moments of existential dread, of scrutinising, of muttering “but what if” into your hands at 2 a.m. this is fine. this is human. just don’t let it become the dominant narrative. there will be moments where you feel like you're nowhere, like your manifestations have abandoned you and you're left with nothing but the weight of your own effort. do not, under any circumstances, entertain this lie. i will personally resurrect the fear of god just to drill this into you: do not. what you do instead is cry a little, wipe your face, and then lock the fuck in, because i swear on everything, sometimes, all it takes is a stretch of nothing to summon an abundance of everything. let the doubt pass through like an intrusive thought you refuse to entertain, like a pigeon that landed in your cafe but is not, in fact, your problem.

maybe this reminds you of when the soviets tried to scientifically disprove intuition, only to realise they had unintentionally proved it instead. maybe this reminds you of every ghost story you’ve ever heard, how the only ones who see them are the ones who expect to.

anyways. it’s all already happening. your only job is to get out of the way.

IT JUST CAME OUT OF NOWHERE!! 😵‍💫🤯⚡️💫👀URANUS THROUGH THE HOUSES (PT 2)

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tw: mentions of death.

- Hey yall!!

- I hope everyone has had a great holiday weekend! I am gonna finish up how the planet Uranus manifests in 7H-12H. Thank you to all with the love on the first part of this series! I am going to link it at the bottom of this post if you are looking for it. Without further ado, let's get into it!!

Uranus in the 7H:

This is a frustrating placement to have if you love being in relationships as Uranus represents splits. 💀😒 And then don't get me started on Uranus' unpredictable energy. 💀🥴

This native also may like to date individuals who may come off as "weird" or "eccentric." ❓They may also like to date individuals that share the same goals as them and that they can achieve these goals with. [Uranus rules Aquarius which rules the 11th house--wishes and goals]. This can be a friends to lovers kind of trope with this placement. 😁➡️💘 This can also apply to the Uranus in the 5th [the house of romance]. 💘

This placement may like alot of freedom and independence in their relationships [whether romantic or platonic].

They may have some unexpected enemies [7H--open enemies]. 😵‍💫🤦🏾‍♀️

This native may rather be detached from some friendships and partnerships because they don't like it when others try to change them. So if you are friends with someone with this placement, you either like them or leave them. 🙅🏾‍♀️ Of course this is modified by other aspects in the chart.

This native may not like the concept of marriage. 💍 This goes back to the 3rd bullet point. It's not the fact that they are incapable of commitment, but they understand [as we all] that marriage is binding and feelings and things in life change, especially Uranus. ⚡️ Sometimes with this placement it may just be the fear of knowing that something out the blue is gonna change the direction of the relationship. 😬

Uranus in the 8H:

This native may be very interested in the occult or any spiritual topics that society may see as taboo. 🧙🏾‍♀️

Very possible that this placement may not care about death. ☠️⚰️ Death is a scary concept due to how permanent it is, but this native may not share that same sentiment. They understand that this is a thing that will happen eventually, so what is the use of being afraid of it? 😴 Just live your life in the fullest way possible.

May get some unexpected money from others or places. 💰 Also may unexpectedly owe money to others or places. Just make sure you have your ducks in a row with this placement. 🦆🦆🦆🦆

Very possible that this placement may go through something unexpected that will cause a massive emotional transformation for them. 🌪

May not care for sex. It's probably just not that serious to them. 🤷🏾‍♀️

This native may like progressive, humanitarian movements that are going to spark a deep change within our society. And sometimes that is in the form of doing things the hard way. Think of the scene from Bird Box in which people were trying to force people's eyes open. It's just that with this placement progression has to come from admitting and confronting all the wrongs and darkness's that goes on behind the scenes so we can start anew on an honest front. This is possibly why Uranus is exalted in the sign of Scorpio. 🦂♏️

Uranus in the 9H:

May like to study independently, therefore they may not enjoy the thought of going to college. 🏫 Also possible that this native may have dropped out due to unexpected circumstances.

^Yet, if they do decide to go to college, this native may like to major in STEM [just an example]. 💻 They may also go into college to major in law or political science. 👩🏾‍⚖️ My personal opinion on this is that this native may go into these majors with a goal of changing the notion of politics or tech, and actually wanting to make change happen instead of doing it for glory. 9H does represent morality and righteousness after all.

This native may have a philosophy or morality that society may question due to the unfamiliarity of it. Yet, again Uranus is the planet of progressivism and advancement, so don't worry if alot of people don't get you and your beliefs, Uranus in the 9th. ☺️

This native may be irreligious. 🛐 🚫

They may also like to rebel against the laws that are crafted in their society.

If your Uranus in the 9th is harshly aspected [squares, oppositions, even conjunctions] please take more diligence when you travel aboard. ✈️ Also be mindful of what you are doing while aboard. It is also possible that this native may have to unexpectedly take flights aboard for whatever reason. Also may abruptly move overseas as well. 🌊

Uranus in the 10H:

This native may have a "peculiar" reputation. Very Aquarian in nature. May have a reputation of always wanting to help the people, yet a very detached individual themselves. They can have this "lone wolf" aura about their reputation. 🐺

This native may have a career in tech, astrology, or any career that will give them great independence and freedom. 👩🏾‍💻♒️

This native may see alot of unexpected changes with their career path. This native may also have either an unpredictable or detached relationships with their elders or bosses. Or may rebel heavily against bosses, which is probably why 9-5s may not work well for them LMAO! 🤣🤣🤣

May achieve fame [remember that Uranus is ruled by Aqua. The Leo-Aquarius axis involves fame], unexpectedly. 🤩🥳

^May also be famous for the people that they associate with.

Uranus in the 11H:

Uranus is comfortable in this house. The native may enjoy being a social individual, yet may also face some unexpected changes in their friend group.

Could have a friend group of like-minded individuals. These friends are also willing to give this native the space and freedom they need. 👯‍♀️👯👯‍♂️

This native may have goals and wishes that will benefit the greater good rather than themselves. They may feel like it's no point in always trying to achieve something for their own sake when they can do it for society's sake.

^To add onto this point, they may even want to achieve these goals with others and it may be best if they do this. The 11H represents gains & groups. Since Uranus is the planet of progression, if this native ever wants to spark a social movement, it is highly possible [depending on the aspects] for them to do so & gain alot of support with it. May even get sponsored or endorsed alot while doing so. Getting paid to make a change? Sounds about right. Or if they don't want to make this happen with others, definitely can make this change online too. This is a social media influencer kind of placement. 🤳

This native doesn't mind stepping on the toes of traditional values and ideas held in society. This placement understands that society changes, so why can't ideas? Uranus is a quick planet so yall need to be quicker. 🤣🧐🤨

Uranus in the 12H:

Ah yes, this native will possibly face some unexpected, hidden enemies. As if the 12H isn't already enough to deal with. 🙄🤣

This is definitely a psychic placement. 👁 The 12H rules the subconscious, and Uranus is about being futuristic. So, if you have this placement you definitely may have a strong intuition/psychic abilities.

^ Yall may also be more prone to having premonitions. For anyone who doesn't know, premonitions are dreams but dreams that predict future events. Think of That's So Raven, but while sleeping. 💤🛌💭

This native may like to devote their ideas to their spirituality or serving the collective in very altruistic ways. They may want to make change in how people see the "fringes" of society. For example, a native with this placement may want to spark change in how we deal with prisoners [12th house] or advocate for prison reform. It also possible that they may want to make this change privately before being public about it.

^The native may even use spiritual ideas to push for some progression and change in society.

May like to be alone based on the ostracization they may have felt. 😔🥲

With this placement the native may want to join spiritual groups, but just be weary of the spiritual groups as the 12H is a hidden house [12th house--ruled by Neptune--illusions]. Don't want to mess around and join a cult. Also goes for the Uranus in the 8th house as well.

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How to Strengthen Your Subconscious Belief

Forget force. Forget effort. Forget the clenched fists, the whispered affirmations, the desperate grasping for something that already belongs to you. The subconscious does not respond to struggle—it responds to certainty, to familiarity, to the things you take for granted as truth.

And here’s what you need to understand: your subconscious is not judging. It is not skeptical. It is not sitting there, arms crossed, waiting for a PowerPoint presentation on why shifting is real. It is a mirror. It does not care what you tell it—it only reflects what you assume. It takes your passing thoughts, your fleeting assumptions, and treats them as reality because, to your subconscious, there is no such thing as “pretend.” There is only what is repeated, what is expected, what is known.

So the question is not how do I make my subconscious believe in shifting? The question is how do I make shifting something my subconscious assumes to be normal?

And the answer? You make it part of your world. You carve it into the walls of your reality until it is so ingrained, so natural, so utterly unremarkable that your subconscious stops questioning it.

i , Stop Making It Special

Belief does not bloom under pressure. If you treat shifting like some grand, unattainable miracle, your subconscious will follow suit. If you treat it like a rare event, something that only happens after you “earn it,” it will remain out of reach.

You don’t doubt that the sun will rise tomorrow. You don’t doubt that gravity will keep your feet on the ground. You don’t need to “convince” yourself of these things because they are part of your world. That is the level of belief you need to cultivate.

So stop making shifting the peak of the mountain. Stop treating it like something you have to fight for. Make it as mundane as brushing your teeth, as ordinary as blinking. Assume it. Expect it. Shrug at it. "Of course, I can shift. Why wouldn’t I?"

Because when something is ordinary, your subconscious does not resist it.

ii , Blur the Lines Between Here and There

Your subconscious cannot tell the difference between real and imagined. If you feed it an idea often enough, in enough detail, with enough certainty, it stops being an idea and starts being a truth.

So immerse yourself. Live as if shifting is already a regular part of your existence.

Talk about shifting like it’s past tense. Not "I hope I can shift," but "I remember shifting last time, it was so easy."

Write journal entries from your DR self. Not "I want to be there," but "Today, I woke up in my DR and had breakfast with [character]."

Use sensory details. Smell the air in your DR. Feel the texture of your sheets. Hear the distant hum of life around you. Make it vivid. Make it real.

Catch yourself when you doubt. Every time you think "I don’t know if I can shift," immediately replace it with "That’s ridiculous, of course, I can shift."

Play pretend like a method actor. Slip into the mindset of someone who has already shifted a hundred times. What do they think? How do they act? Become that person.

Because the more real you make shifting in your waking life, the more your subconscious will accept it as just another part of your world.

iii , Abandon Proof, Trust the Feeling

Your subconscious does not work in logic. It works in feelings, in impressions, in what is known rather than what is proven.

You do not wake up every morning and check to see if gravity is still working. You do not demand scientific proof that your reflection will appear in the mirror. You simply know.

That is how you must approach shifting. Not as something to be questioned, not as something to be proven, but as something that simply is.

Stop waiting for evidence. If you keep looking for proof, you are telling your subconscious that there is something to prove. You are telling it that shifting is uncertain. Instead, treat it as inevitable.

Lean into knowing. Certainty is a feeling, not a thought. It is the quiet, unshakable confidence of someone who no longer needs to ask. Step into that mindset.

iv , Cut the Ties to the Old You

The person who doubts shifting? The person who hesitates, who second-guesses, who overanalyzes? That is an old version of you. That is a version of you who still saw the door as locked.

You are not that person anymore.

You are the version of you that knows shifting is real. That has already shifted. That does not need to force belief because belief is woven into their bones.

And when doubt creeps in—do not fight it. Do not push against it. Simply step aside and say, That’s not me anymore.

Because in the end, strengthening your subconscious belief is not about convincing yourself. It is about stepping into the version of you who never needed convincing in the first place.

And when you do that?

Shifting is no longer something you are trying to achieve.

It is simply something you do.

Whats your D9 Ascendant nakshatra? 🔮

Ive been researching Navamsa a lot lately.. it’s so enlightening 👁️ my D9 Asc is Ashwini 🐎♈️

"I feel like a clown while persisting"

You ever be affirming like "I'm so loved. I’m chosen. I’m rich. I have it all." but deep down you’re like…lol ok clown.

Same. been there but guess what? that clown feeling? that’s literally part of the process, your brain’s just confused, babe. like utterly glitching.

It’s used to the old version of you, the one who didn’t have the money. Didn’t have the SP. Didn’t feel enough. So when you suddenly start walking around like you’re That Girl your brain’s like uhh babe be fr rn.

and that right there? That’s where 99% of people give up.

Because it feels fake, it feels like lying. And we hate feeling fake, don’t we? but listen that’s literally the magic.

manifesting is choosing to live in the "lie" (what your brain calls it not me) long enough for it to become your truth.

Like yeah maybe i don’t have it YET. but i’m still walking like i do, i’m still talking like i do i’m still expecting it because what’s the alternative? crying over the 3D? feeding the version of me that’s already suffering? Nah, been there, done that. I chose the version of me who always wins even if I felt stupid sometimes.

You just need to keep choosing it, keep showing up like her, keep moving like her, keep speaking like her, even if your brain’s laughing in the background.

Because every time you affirm, every time you ignore the doubt, every time you say "i got it' when the 3D says you don’t you’re rewiring your whole damn reality.

keep going no matter what cause....

THE CLOWN ALWAYS WINS IF SHE DOESN'T QUIT IT.

punarvasu । पुनर्वासु

𑁍 meaning — “return to the light”

𑁍 shakti [divine power] — "vasutva prapana shakti" the ability to gain wealth or substance

𑁍 presiding deity — ADITI

the sanskrit word aditi (अदिति) means "boundless," "limitless," "freedom," or "innocence"

𑁍 punarvasu is of the deva (godly) clan and belongs to the the merchant caste; its primary motivation is artha — the pursuit of wealth, material well-being and prosperity; artha (अर्थ) in sanskrit means meaning or purpose

𑁍 the vimshottari lord is jupiter, brihaspati - guru of the gods; the realm of ether - beyond space

Jacob's Dream, William Blake, Punarvasu moon

For further insights into the cosmic function of punarvasu and Aditi

I will be quoting an excerpt from 'DIVINE HORSEMEN: THE LIVING GODS OF HAITI' — MAYA DEREN

Here, I liken the haitian goddess Erzulie to the vedic Aditi as they represent the same archetype and symbolism

"Myth is the facts of the mind made manifest in a fiction of matter." — maya deren, punarvasu ketu (below)

Erzulie: Goddess — The Tragic Mistress

Voudoun has given woman, in the figure of Erzulie, exclusive title to that which distinguishes humans from all other forms: their capacity to conceive beyond reality, to desire beyond adequacy, to create beyond need. In Erzulie, Voudoun salutes woman as Divinity of the dream, the Goddess of Love, the muse of beauty.

It has denied her emphasis as mother of life and of men in order to regard her (like Mary, with whom Erzulie is identified) as mother of man's myth of life — its meaning. In a sense, she is that very principle by which man conceives and creates divinity.

Thus, to man himself, she is as mistress.

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Erzulie moves in an atmosphere of infinite luxury, a perfume of refinement, which, from the first moment of her arrival, pervades the very air of the peristyle, and becomes a general expansiveness in which all anxieties, all urgencies vanish.

The tempo of movements becomes more leisurely, tensions dissolve and the voices soften, losing whatever aggressive or strident tones they may have had. One has the impression that a fresh, cooling breeze has sprung up somewhere and that the heat has become less intense, less oppressive.

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She is provided with a fresh white or rose silk handkerchief which she arranges carefully around her hair.

Perfume is imperative, and there may be powder as well. A white or rose dress of delicate cloth, with lace or embroidery, has been keps in readiness for her. And, finally, she is brought not one necklace, but several, of gold and pearls, along with earrings and bracelets and her three wedding bands.

The careful, unhurried accumulation of costume is an act which, step by step, rejects the primitive, the "natural condition", and, step by careful step, instructs the fortunate attendants in the idea of beauty, the sense of form, and, above all, the cumulative painstaking process by which a work of man — be it art or myth — is created.

The Goddess examines each article minutely; where alternative choice exists, her considered selection, her indecision are very pointed; each effect is critically scrutinized, often rejected and rearranged. The very process of this creative transformation becomes so significant that whether it is a large audience or a small family who await her, or how long they may have to wait, ceases to be of any consequence.

What is of consequence is the act itself, and the demonstration of the fact that such an act can transfigure the female into the feminine.

Her voice is a delicate soprano; her every gesture, movement of eyes, and smile, is a masterpiece of beguiling coquetry; with her, human relationship becomes itself significant rather than merely a means to an end.

She may visit her altar chamber and be pleased that the flowers are fresh, for flowers are her passion.

kalu uchis, punarvasu ☉

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She may ask for a favorite song, for she loves to dance and is the most graceful of all loa; or she may simply give audience to her admirers, and by her postures and attitudes transform the crude chair in which she sits into a throne.

Above all, she favors desserts, decorated cakes and confections of all kinds. Or, if she has arrived on an impromptu visit, she may be content with a sip of the crême de menthe or the champagne which, theoretically, should always be ready for her appearance.

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As Lady of Luxury, she gives gifts constantly;

her own perfume, the handkerchief she wears, the food and money which she distributes generously.

She particularly rewards those who are handsome, or who dance well, or whose personality pleases her. She never neglects one who is devoted to her.

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an altar to maîtresse erzulie, mistress erzulie, metres elizi freda

As Lady of Luxury she is, above all, Goddess of Love, that human luxury of the heart which is not essential to the purely physical generation of the body. She is as lavish with that love as she is generous with her gifts. She treats men with such demonstrative affection that it might seem, at times, embarrassing. She will embrace them, and kiss them, caress them, sit with an arm around those to both sides of her.

Nothing is meted out or budgeted, there is more than enough; this is her way of loving, this is the divine fecundity of the heart. A heart is, indeed, her symbol, most often the pierced heart identified with Mary.

She, who is the wealthiest of the loa, the most frequently gifted with luxurious accoutrement, suffers for not being "served" enough.

She, who is the most complimented, most beloved, most often wedded in the sacred marriage of devotee and divinity — she who is Goddess of Love — protests that she is not loved enough."

Inevitably then – she begins to weep. Tenderly they would comfort her, bringing forward still another cake, another jewel, pledging still another promise. But it would seem that nothing in this world would ever, could ever, answer those tears. It is because of these tears that the women, who might otherwise resent her, are so gentle. In their real, reasonable world there is no grief like this.

this weeping is so inaccessible to reason that one thinks, inevitably, of a child's innocence of reason. It is this sense of innocence which emanates from her that makes her identification with the Virgin Mary somehow seem truer than her promiscuity, than even the fact that the devotion of prostitutes makes of her almost their patron saint.

lana del rey, punarvasu mercury

She is the divinity of the dream, and it is in the very nature of dream to begin where reality ends and to spin it and to send it forward in space, as the spider spins and sends forward its own thread.

The labor of Erzulie is as endless as the capacity of man to dream and, in the very act of accomplishing that dream, to have already dreamed again. It is upon this diminutive feminine figure that man has placed the burden of the most divine paradox — He has conceived her without satisfactions, without balance, to insure an overwhelming balance against his own satisfactions. This is the meaning of the merciless muse, the most unhappy Medusa.

Erzulie is the loa of the impossible perfection which must remain unattainable. Man demands that she demand of him beyond his capacity. The condition of her divinity is his failure; he crowns her with his own betrayals. Hence she must weep; it could not be otherwise.

The wound of Erzulie is perpetual: she is the dream impaled eternally upon the cosmic cross/roads where the world of men and the world of divinity meet, and it is through her pierced heart that "man ascends and the gods descend".

Rose & dahlia by Salvador Daví, Punarvasu Rising

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Joy and woe are woven fine,

A clothing for the soul divine;

Under every grief and pine

Runs a joy with silken twine.

It is right it should be so;

Man was made for joy and woe;

And when this we rightly know,

Safely through the world we go.

— William Blake, punarvasu moon, "Auguries of Innocence" (1863)

"If the doors of perception were cleansed every thing would appear to man as it is, infinite."

— William Blake, "The Marriage of Heaven and Hell" (1790)

Lana del rey has mercury in punarvasu, and her music had a very fantastic, ethereal feel that almost lulls you into a dream-like state.

Her lyrics often reflect punarvasu themes of dreams, fantasy, sorrow, heart-ache, luxury, excess, affection

lyrics to lana's 'video games'

I say, "You the bestest" / Lean in for a big kiss / Put his favourite perfume on

It's you, it's you, it's all for you / Everything I do / I tell you all the time / Heaven is a place on earth with you

They say that the world was built for two / Only worth living if somebody is loving you

lyrics to 'honeymoon'

There are violets in your eyes / There are guns that blaze around you / There are roses in between my thighs / And fire that surrounds you

It's no wonder every man in town / Had neither fought nor found you / Everything you do is elusive / To even your honey dew

our honeymoon / Dreaming away your life

Men often try to claim that pedophiles just become pedos because they were sexually abused as children, but if that were true most pedos would be women not men because most child sexual abuse victims are girls. Anyone who has a brain and a willingness to confront reality will realize that pedophilia is just a barely more extreme version of the average man's sexual preferences. Ask men what specific physical characteristics they find most attractive and 9/10 will say things like "I really like girls with cute high pitched voices, I really like girls who are a lot shorter than me, who have cute small button noses, who have big round eyes." The average man's ideal is basically just a child with boobs, and a lot of men are willing to forego the boobs if all the other characteristics he likes are present and really pronounced. That is why 99% of pedos are men.

i love when feminist takes get popular on tiktok. like the whole “men invented god because he couldn’t handle that women create life” thing gained so much attention and i was like yesss girl i love to see it 😸😸

a few weeks ago i saw a tiktok of a woman explaining how patriarchy is basically womb envy and she was so excited to share her thoughts and i was so happy to hear her speak. that is such a known fact in feminism, i know she probably read it somewhere and it struck her and she decided to look more into it and think about it with her own experience too and then was like “you know what i really wanna share this with other women because they deserve to know and i deserve to speak and maybe they got something to add too” and so she made that tiktok.

sometimes i wonder, this must be one of the ways feminism was born. i love us i love women

self concept 101

okay students, class is in session and the assignment we’re focusing on is worth 100% of your grade in the assignment of your life. no pressure, right? except… it kinda is. because everything you experience, your relationships, your money, your looks, your success, it’s all filtered through the lens of your self-concept.

self-concept is the story you tell about yourself when no one’s listening. it’s the identity you live in, consciously or unconsciously. it’s the silent assumptions that run on autopilot like, “i’m never chosen,” “nothing ever works out for me,” “i’m not enough,” “people always leave,” or even “i’m that girl,” “i’m magnetic,” “everything works in my favour.”

those aren’t just thoughts. they’re blueprints. they create the framework your reality has to follow. because your outer world is just your inner world, externalised.

so if you walk through life with the self-concept of someone who always gets second best, your reality will match that. not because you deserve it, but because you believe it. and if you shift to a self-concept of someone who is deeply loved, always thriving, lucky, powerful, guess what? your world has no choice but to realign.

got it omg, here’s the cleaned-up version just how you like it:

here’s your homework, due immediately, with no extensions, sorry babes, life waits for no one…it’s all just now.

1. observe your internal dialogue

spend one whole day listening to your thoughts like they’re playing on a speaker, what do you actually think about yourself, not what you want to believe, but what you’ve been unconsciously affirming, catch the sneaky ones too, “i’m always so awkward,” “i’ll never look like that,” “ugh, of course this would happen to me,” these aren’t harmless little quips, these are energetic declarations

write them down, seriously, make a list of the self-concept you’ve been unknowingly living by

2. rewrite your identity

now take that list and write the exact opposite, this is your new self-concept, “i’m always chosen,” “i’m magnetic and people adore me,” “i’m a master at my craft,” “my beauty is undeniable”

this isn’t toxic positivity, it’s identity design, choose the story you want to live by and start being the main character who lives by that script, you don’t wait for proof to act like her, you assume the role and reality fills in the blanks

3. persist in your new self

this is the part most people flake on, but not you, because real change comes from repetition, from living the new story until it hardwires into your nervous system, so no, you don’t just write your affirmations once and call it a day, you say them out loud, in the mirror, in the shower, under your breath

you imagine yourself as her when you’re walking down the street, you refuse to entertain old stories that try to creep in, this is devotion, this is embodiment

and lastly, you don’t need validation, this homework is not about impressing others, it’s not about being seen, it’s about seeing yourself clearly, fully, and powerfully, once that clicks, your entire world will mirror it back

hand in your new self daily, you’re the teacher and the student here, and you’re getting an A+ obviously

class dismissed…but, the assignment is ongoing so you better get to working! 👩‍🏫