Im Just The Lame Ass Daughter Who Doesnt Do Shit And Doesnt Have Friends

Brigitte Bardot And Jane Birkin in, "Don Juan, or If Don Juan Were a Woman", 1973.

Norman Eales - Raincoats by Christian Dior London, The Sunday Times, 12 June 1966, from Photographing Fashion: British Style in the Sixties by Richard Lester (2009)

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'Fairies Looking Through a Gothic Arch' by John Anster Fitzgerald, c. 1864.

I think it should be normalised in the astrology community to question people and ask, 'why do you say this?'.

And don't be afraid call out people who make statements and can't back themselves up with actual sources.

because wdym 'you'll never find love as a 12h venus' or 'sun doesn't represent father'.

xoxo honey-bitch

Shining a light on “unfavorable” placements. pt.1

Within astrology, I notice a lot of people addressing only the dark sides of dark placements. These placements being considered as unfavorable and or “unfortunate”. However, tougher aspects/placements are generally considered to be gifts, though they are challenges, I see them as direct callings on what allows the individual to reach success. I am not a professional but these are patterns/observations I make from personal experience and life all around me. Now buckle up, this’ll be a long post, I’ll be discussing only planetary/object placements, next part will be aspects however, less descriptive.

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12H & 8H Suns and Moons

12H Suns are considered to be unfavorable however, this placement is actually a gift, though the sun is “shadowed” in this area; individuals with 12H are actually here on a mission, though it is bleak to see, individuals with this placement have power and it’s not even locked potential, it’s just power that they cannot see themselves but naturally exude. 12H suns are directly connected to the subconscious, they have this “one foot in one foot out” approach to reality, they are immensely creative and are gifted with compassion at early ages, though they don’t realize it, they tend to be ahead of the game in the early stages of life

12H Moons; these individuals are given heavy emotions, probably even a transformative connection with their mother, their emotions is where their spiritual knowledge lies, they have strong intuition and are the true empaths of astrology. Those with this placement are driven by their feelings, they know the ins and outs and have all the secrets, this is more hidden/internal knowledge, similar to 12H suns, they can gain a lot of knowledge later in life

Now 8H Suns/Moons are similar to one another. Individuals with these placements have true power in them, and they are gifted with depth and intensity that people are actually afraid of. These are the type of people to get told something toxic about themselves and they hit you with a “I know.” or they will outwardly tell you themselves (If other points in the chart agree). They are masters when it comes to shadow work and they are constantly changing–if you don’t see them for at least a month and they come back, their mindset could have taken a complete 180, for better or for worse. The 8H expands everything it touches, it creates an intense amount of depth to the matter. These individuals also tend to have a lot of people that will outwardly try to put them down, whether it is directly or indirectly, they also tend to have karma on their side. Their Image(Sun) and their emotions(moon)are heavily protected and praying on these individuals' downfall is like asking for a spiritual ass whooping.

Mercury in Pisces & Sagittarius:

Having Mercury in Pisces is an unfavorable placement, these individuals could be seen as forgetful, in a constant cycle of daze, and emotionally detached. However, the thoughts that boil within the brain of this placement is insane. I mean, we have a civil rights activist and a famous genius with this placement, if that doesn’t tell you anything idk what to tell you. These individuals are gifted with a lot of creativity, their thoughts actually run a mile a minute, they are typically well versed in various hobbies, these are the type of people if you ask what they do they might not give you one answer and hang around them long enough, you will see them having a new hobby every week. The ADHD masters, they’ll tell you they never played an instrument and hop on and immediately sound like an intermediate musician. These people have seen and heard it all, they are intelligent and their words hold weight. They say one thing and it’ll last you a lifetime, their advice sits in the back of people’s minds, their words are food for the soul, everything they say is more calculated and meaningful than even they think themselves. Truly underrated.

Next my lovely Sagittarian Mercuries. These individuals could be seen as rude, blunt, obnoxious, and or lacking emotional depth but just like their jupiterian sister pisces; they are much wiser than they put on. These individuals are witty, they are intelligent, they are humorous, their words hold power as well, they tell the truth and they build people up, they’re down to earth and self-assured, they have a way of making people listen, they are captivating in their words and can be lyrically gifted, natural poets in their own way.

Cadent Dominant Placements:

Being Cadent Dominant in my learnings is considered to have most of your placements within the 3H, 6H, 9H, and 12H. In addition, in case you don’t know, cadent houses are the houses further away from the angular houses and after the succedent houses, they tend to be where the most work has to happen are seen as challenging placements to have. Now, these individuals are smart as fuck, for lack of a better term. They are gifted with an inner drive, a drive that not many people will see or understand but themselves, these individuals have the power of moving masses. Though their efforts are indirect, they tend to hit people when it’s least expected–driven, misunderstood and powerful. 3H placements are well versed in communication, 6Hers know how to get shit done, 9Hers and 12Hers are mass movers and the backbone influencers. Having these placements indicate someone important, possibly even beyond a metaphysical sense. They don’t stop until they win and their perseverance is remarkable just as their lives are.

Saturn/Uranus/Pluto Ruled or Dominance (etc.)

Talk about “fuck around and find out”, these indivudals are like the older or even the middle children in astrology, many people with significant Pluto/Saturn/Uranus in their chart, this includes being ruled(MC & ASC), having it as a dominant planet, placed within the 1H, or aspecting Sun/Moon/Asc–tend to be protected like crazy. They tend to go through a lot of inner struggle and tend to constantly have something to work on, it’s like once they’re done with one lesson they’re given another. It’s like being stuck with chores all day and you’re finally done with your last one and once you’re about to step outside or go to your room to lay down, their parents call them and ask them to do something else and the cycle goes on lol. These individuals are resilient and are hardworking, they’re unique and nothing generally gets past them, you fuck with them, you’re fucking with their team as well, and best believe the universe is ready to dish back what you sent in tenfold; this even applies to the individual, but they rarely fuck up cause they know how it can get everytime. Gifted with power, control and drive, these individuals are goal-oriented, they don’t let anything get in their way and if there is even a slight indication of a distraction about to occur, they shut it down real quick. I like this.

Saturn in Angular Houses (1H, 4H, 7H, 10H) and HM: 5H.

Saturn in these houses are hard hitting. Cracking my knuckles because I’m about to go IN. I will state the

To start, Saturn in the 1H, these individuals are constantly met with lessons that have to do with their identity, they will be put in situations where they are physically limited and their identity is limited/restricted, these people will obsess over themselves and hold themselves to a high standard. However, even through this, these individuals not only directly have karma on their side, but they are ultimately gifted with a deep knowing of self, they build their identity and it is a literal weapon to anyone who brings murky intentions into their world, simply because of how resilient they are and how much they worked through restriction in the past.

For Saturn in the 4H, they may have had issues that involved restriction with their family, this is heavy because they sat through that for their entire lives, up to 18 and possibly even further than that. These individuals weren’t able to make a house a home or generally find a proper home. In their older years, they work with this energy to make a place for themselves and others, they have the power of compassion and comfort.

For Saturn in the 7H & 5H, these individuals are known to have tough luck in love, relationships are rare and if they have many relationships, they are often restrictive and unsatisfactory. They may struggle additionally with their sense of worth and bear a false outlook on love. However, in some moments in their younger years and in their older years, they possess deep knowledge on love, they seem to take it seriously and their love is rich, they are gifted with deep compassion and the ability to be long term with other people. They have unforgettable love, and they are typically unforgettable people as a whole.

Lastly for Saturn 10H, these people could feel restricted career wise, they may feel that they’re always being attacked in their reputation and are held from their true potential, however, they actually overextend themselves more than what they were meant, they can influence and hold a lot of power.

These can also be applied to Pluto as well, with more of a transformative foundation, however, Saturn and Pluto tend to be both extremely transformative planets.

Chiron in Succedent Houses (2H, 5H, 8H, 11H)

These placements tend to fit in a similar category, they are often scarred with themes that are prioritized in life; Money, Fun, Transformation and Community. They tend to see others experience joy and balance within these themes however, they find that this is the source of their trauma and unhealthy codependency that they desire to break away from. Ultimately, these individuals are gifted with strength and influence, they are creative, influential and open-minded when conflicts are properly addressed.

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In this post, I went into depth on placements that have more power than what is spoken about them; however, the dark tends to hold more truth about the light than the light does of itself. The placements listed are powerful and resilient, gifted with all sorts of things, and if you believe that something in your chart is insignificant, understand that astrology is a tool to access potential, it can hint at traits but it is not a concrete definition because there are other calculations that exist and have existed even beyond Traditional Western astrology. Next part will be on aspects, thank you for reading.

- J🧡

👦🏻Sibling Observations 👧🏻

Note: This post fits both the Western and Vedic systems. Take what resonates and leave the rest. One placement or aspect cannot say much and the whole chart has to be analyzed to know further. Lemme know in the comments if any of these hit home!

Note: This post is for people who have sibling(s).

Having Saturn or Jupiter in the 3rd house points to a sibling who earns more than you or marrying a financially sound partner. However, they would experience some form of hospitalization or surgery before they turn 33, excluding childbirth. Example: fertility treatment, abdominal surgery, etc.

Having Saturn or Jupiter in the 11th house points to an elder sibling with a minimum age gap of 4 years. Weight gain can be an issue for your sibling. It also points to your grandparent who left an inheritance or a legacy, such as being in the military, a known family restaurant, or doing something for their community, etc. In some cases, you might even look like your grandparent. As you age, you will be the one earning a lot in your family.

The 11th lord in the 2nd house points to an elder sibling marrying someone wealthier than your family. The elder sibling might be favored by the parents more than you, if the planet is Venus/ Sun/ Mercury. A significant age gap of 7+ years can be seen here if Saturn is the 11th lord. Stepsibling in some cases. If Jupiter is the 11th lord, sibling can become wealthy and might even spoil you a lot. Sibling might share their wealth or leave an inheritance for you.

3rd lord in 4th house indicates a younger sibling who was born within 2 years of your birth, and your family can be supportive in their educational and career.

Mars in the 3rd house can give a younger sibling who got into an accident before the age of 28.

Having 3rd lord in the 11th house indicates a younger sibling with an age gap of 5+ years. They might even be adopted or a stepsibling, in some cases.

Having 11th lord in the 7th house points to an elder sibling who would play a significant role in your life in general and in meeting your spouse as well. If Saturn is the 11th lord, it points to a significant age gap between the siblings. 7 + years. Sibling would be educated and could be living far away from their motherland. This also suggests that your sibling will play a role in your education as well.

Having Pluto in 3rd house points to a younger sibling who is significantly younger than you and, in some cases, indicates a stepsibling(s).

South node in the 3rd house points to a younger sibling with whom you are close. In some cases, these natives would call their sibling as their soulmate or best friend.

In some cases, having Pluto in the 4th indicates divorced parents. A younger stepsibling that you're not aware of or don't talk to, like after divorce, the parent married someone else and had a kid that you don't talk to or are not even aware of. If the other parent is married, the one with whom you lived might give you a stepsibling with whom you remain close. This can apply to having Uranus or Neptune in the 4th.

Having the Sun in the 11th house either makes you the only child or the eldest at home.

Having Mars in the 11th house indicates having an elder sibling of the same gender as you and you being born within 2.5 years after their birth.

Having 1st lord in 1st house conjunct with the Moon/Sun can indicate a twin, in some cases.

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Layne, Debby Alison Brawford, Greg Swarrey, in Bellevue, Seattle, 1993.

The picture shows Greg's drawing (he's the same one in the first photo). And Layne with two friends It is also known that Greg, in addition to this painting, has several similar landscapes taken in the same place in the suburbs of Seattle, which also depict Layne’s image.

i miss the late 2000s and early 2010s sm