Day 71 of characters I headcanon as a lesbian: Maleficent
happy disability pride month to people who experience psychosis!
people with schizophrenia
schizoaffective disorder
cluster A personality disorders
bipolar type one
depression with psychotic features
PTSD with psychotic features
postpartum psychosis
delusional disorder
unlabeled experiences with psychosis
people who choose not to consider their experiences of unreality disordered
all of us!
Being on this website is fun because you can absolutely tell when a blorbo clicks in someone's brain. You're scrolling, and suddenly out of nowhere there's like 12 posts about the same character back to back reposted by the same person, and you just know "oh. They're a permanent part of their psyche now." and honestly it's a vibe go off king
me, having deeply fallen out of the practice of writing poetry: I can’t write any more, I am now a Talentless Hack
the voice of my 11th grade journalism/12th grade creative writing teacher who rly did know everything: if you stop writing for a while the words will build up and stagnate. to clear the water, you will have to open the dam completely, and accept the fact that what initially comes out will not be palatable
MON CHOU!!!! MY POOKIEBEAR!!! MI VIDA !!!! IS BACK !!!!!
IM NOT LIVE LAUGH LOVING IN THESE CONDITIONS YALL IM LOSING IT
When will my husband (Ao3) return from war (is up again)
this whole ao3 being down thing is actually driving me insane i think i’ve read every fic of my faves on here, tried to replay fics i’ve already read before in my head, went back on fanfiction.net and i’m tempted to go as far as looking through wattpad— i’m not okay yall idk what to do w myself it’s been 15 hours since ao3 has worked for me i will keep y’all posted on how long until i lose what remains of my sanity
Happy Pride Month ! ♡
Raiden Mei x Kiana Kaslana lesbian/wlw icons! Happy pride month ilysm and you are valid <3. ♡ or ↻ if use/save !
Summer Morning
based on this tweet:
⸻ 6/? of mel mondays
It's no secret that consent online is just as important as consent irl. However, navigating consent on Tumblr can look a little bit different than in person. Here are some reminders on how to do so:
ASK before sending sexually forward messages or photos. Unless someone has it very clearly stated on their blog that they willingly accept sexual messages and photos, ask before you do so. Additionally, posting NSFW content ≠ consent. Remember that just because someone is not in a monogamous relationship does not necessarily mean they're seeking a partner or willing to flirt. If you're not sure, ASK!
RESPECT DNIs. Those are in place for a reason. People clearly state those who they are not comfortable interacting with. Do not cross that boundary. Especially respect age DNIs. No one under 18 should be engaging with NSFW content, but some blog set strict 21+ or 25+ rules.
BE CLEAR with your intentions. Tell that person exactly what you're looking for. Do not use the guise of friendship to seek out sexual attention. Do you want to just exchange messages or photos as well? Do you want something for just this once, or do you hope to maintain an ongoing relationship with this person?
"Yes" to exchanging sexual messages or sending photos is not a blanket statement. Be sure to establish boundaries/limits. This can include sexual acts that should not be discussed or whether or not you'll show your face in photos.
Understand that people's boundaries can change. Just because someone was once willing to exchange photos or sexual messages doesn't mean that they always will be. If they tell you "not right now" or "maybe later," that does not mean press them until they say yes. Respect the boundary and move on.
Not everyone wants to engage with NSFW content. Refrain from adding sexual tags/comments on SFW posts. Make your own post!
Respect "No" and "I'm not interested." Do not press someone or think you can change their mind. If someone blocks you, they want you to leave them alone. Do not make new blogs or message sideblog to try to talk to them. If you saved photos they sent you, delete them.
Do not feel guilty about enforcing your own boundaries. If someone crosses a line, you have every right to tell them they made you uncomfortable or block them. You don't need to sacrifice your comfort level to appease others.
Be safe, remember consent, and have fun!!
I’m rly trying to give Gwen grace but I’m rly not understanding how Miles didn’t get the ick after she called his parents by they first names, had her shoes on his bed, and started fucking up his collectibles oh bitch I would have been heated😭😭
happy disability pride month from your local chronically ill lesbian!! i wish all disabled and chronically ill folks an awesome month
since temu has been gaining immense popularity and i’ve seen a bunch of people post temu tarot deck hauls on tiktok, this is your reminder to not purchase any tarot or oracle decks off of that site. they are 100% counterfeit decks. meaning the original creators are getting no money from that sale. these decks also most likely do not come with a physical guidebook and the card quality is trash! if you want a tarot or oracle deck that’s legit, buy from publishers! or directly from the artist if possible!
even amazon sells counterfeit decks so it’s best to be aware of the signs so you know what to look for! any deck that is listed as “mini deck” with a qr code to scan to get to the guidebook is 9 times out of 10, a scam. don’t be tricked by cheap prices. it sucks but sometimes you have to spend that $20 to get an official deck!
if you want cheap decks, search on mercari/depop/ebay for used decks! or even thrift stores! people tend to sell their gently used decks for cheaper than the original price!
Colouring/brush experimenting and practice
when night comes…
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I think if you're still supporting Harry Potter at this point (and to be clear, this post is not about if you should or shouldn't), then you need to understand that trans people will not trust you. And you have to be okay with that. You can't get upset about it.
Titan girls!
Instagram ll Twitter
Shoutout to everyone with ADHD who’s going through social or emotional burnout! It’s okay if you were a social butterfly yesterday but now want to not talk to anyone at all. It’s okay if you need a break, if the only thing you can do is text without verbal conversations; it’s okay if you can do very little or can’t do anything at all regarding socialization. It’s okay if any sort of communication is overwhelming to you, take a damn break! You’ll be okay.
another life
I kind of wished Dawn had scenes in random items that Buffy wore in s1-4. I think it could’ve been a nice callback for the viewer, but also the idea of them not addressing whether Dawn has the item for hand-me-down reasons or stealing-from-Buffy’s-closet reasons is kind of funny to me
After an inadvisable trip down the r/buffy rabbit hole, I am entirely convinced that everyone who has ever said anything in the neighborhood of "Spike/Spuffy fans forget that Spike is a murderer/abusive boyfriend/other dead dove stuff" has never actually interacted with a Spuffy fan.
Spike fans talk about Spike's flaws more than anyone else in fandom. Understanding how evil he was is an integral part of celebrating his growth.
Spot!
Featuring Meows Morales!
lemme try smth bc all the btvs related accs are j posting gifs (which is great i love those accs!) but i don’t really see anyone who’s actually *talking* about buffy so i kinda want to see if i can find anyone here (18+!) who’s interested in buffy and actively talks abt the show on their accs! if you do, pls interact in some wh bc i’d love to know more ppl who love the show too!