If You're Dating A Transfem, Especially A Butch One Or A Tall One Or A Big One You Gotta Just... Not

If you're dating a transfem, especially a butch one or a tall one or a big one you gotta just... not treat her like something to be afraid of. Like in a world where we are constantly painted as rapists, aggressors, hysterical bitches, and monsters you gotta fuckin stop and wonder how many times your girl has defanged herself. How many times has she dipped her shoulders and bowed her head because she was scared of being 'the bad one'? How many injustices and slights has she let slide because she wants to be soft and to be loved?

What does it do to her when you're too scared to have the hard conversations with her? How does the person you love feel when you show her even at home she is reduced to a potential for violence? If you avoid her, what thorns and poison does she imagine within and around herself?

If you want to love us, give us the dignity of trust. Talk to us like reasonable adults and let us feel. Don't dodge us while you find the right words to say, don't scatter eggshells on the floor then make us feel guilty you're walking on them, don't use trauma as an excuse to traumatize.

TONE TAG MASTER POST

common

/srs - serious or not joking /nsrs - not serious /j - joking or kidding /hj - half joking /ref - reference /nf - not fake or not forced /gen - genuine /pos - positive /neg - negitive

semi-common

/s or /sarc - sarcastic or sarcasm /lh - light-hearted /genq - genuine question /nm - not mad /p or /plat - platonic /r or /rom - romantic /neu - neutral /lyr - lyrics /nbh - nobody here

uncommon

/vpos - very positive /ij - inside joke /t - teasing or teasingly /q - quote /c - copypasta /f - fake /rh or /rt - rhetorical question /sx or /x - sexual connotation /nsx or /nx - non sexual connotation /th - threat /cb - clickbait /ma - manifesting /lu - a little upset /nay - not at you /ay - at you /hyp - hyperbole /ot - off topic

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kaylaaplaf

3 months ago

[f-horn]: “French horns are like, the spit multiverse. I swear there’s portals.”

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kaylaaplaf

7 months ago

I didn't have to do my least favorite period in school.

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I'll start. I won $5.00 on a scratch ticket ☺️

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