Hewwo! I am aroace and trans and neurodivergent i'm also a minor
226 posts
If you're dating a transfem, especially a butch one or a tall one or a big one you gotta just... not treat her like something to be afraid of. Like in a world where we are constantly painted as rapists, aggressors, hysterical bitches, and monsters you gotta fuckin stop and wonder how many times your girl has defanged herself. How many times has she dipped her shoulders and bowed her head because she was scared of being 'the bad one'? How many injustices and slights has she let slide because she wants to be soft and to be loved?
What does it do to her when you're too scared to have the hard conversations with her? How does the person you love feel when you show her even at home she is reduced to a potential for violence? If you avoid her, what thorns and poison does she imagine within and around herself?
If you want to love us, give us the dignity of trust. Talk to us like reasonable adults and let us feel. Don't dodge us while you find the right words to say, don't scatter eggshells on the floor then make us feel guilty you're walking on them, don't use trauma as an excuse to traumatize.
Thank god for Russian dash cams to bring us wonders like this
Ain't we pretty?
Transgender Women…
Off The Leash 🐱🐶🎤
I am allergic to milk
FUCK. honestly just FUCK. We missed a very important day yesterday.
I saw an opportunity and I took it
Reblog to hug prev poster (they need a hug)
Adults: Following rules is good, not following rules is bad
Little me: Okay :] *follows a rule*
Adults: Oh my god look at this loser. He doesn't know that this rule is Secretly Okay To Not Follow. Dumbass. Let's all laugh at him
Ewww sparkling water
somehow I got 95/20 on an assignment
I hope they never fix it and leave it this way forever
oh shit, it's 3/21/23, 32123, palindrome day
conspiracy theories ab giants are really funny because like . they would be big . we would see them
Yes
Would anyone like to know some of my vocal stims?
reblog if people r allowed to send u asks as if theyre ur friend. wanna tell me how ur day went? do it!!! ask me for advice? sure! ask a personal question? go right on ahead!
Sups
I want to play a game with you all.
You have to make a new word by changing only one letter of the last word.
Dirt
Black and red
Oh boy lookie what I found here
AHHHHH thank you
spectacular spider man on the internet archive you're welcome
today's warm up: a well meaning ephemera vs a man regretting his husband's gift of flying lessons
do you guys know about the internet roadtrip? right now somewhere between 500 and 900 people are collectively 'driving' a car on google street view trying to make it to canada. it's fun i recommend it
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