Talking To Neurotypicals

Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.

Of fucking course

What sick bastard doesn’t

who is horikoshi really trying to kill?

it’s not Best Jeanist...it’s not Bakugou...it’s not Hawks...it’s not Aizawa...it’s not even Endeavor...it’s us

horikoshi is trying to kill us.

there is absolutely nothing funnier than this screenshot to me right now

How to Stop Caring What Other People Think

1. Figure out what/who matters to you in your life

2. Appreciate yourself for who you are 

3. Not everyone is going to like you (sometimes you gotta accept it and move on)

4. Remember that everyone else is probably not paying that much attention to you, as you think they are. Take for example a presentation. You were probably thinking about how others would judge you and how you didn’t want to look stupid. Well, everyone else around you was probably thinking that exact same thing. I know, mind bogGliNg.

5. Accept that you are human, and you make mistakes. It doesn’t mean the end of the world. 

6. Life is short (i know i know it’s cliche, but it’s true goddamit!)

7. Be yourself. People want to be around other people who exude condifence and self love because secretly, inside, we all want to be loved and accepted. 

8. BUT, do not seek other’s approval. Don’t look for validation in other people because you basically hand them the power to control how you feel about yourself. I mean, how rigged is that?!

9. Remember that no one is going to really remember that one time you embarrased yourself because we all have felt that at some point. 

10. Not caring what other people think actually had nothing to do with other people. It has to do with how you view yourself, and how you percieve people in this world. Be welcoming to all kinds of people and it will come back around to you. 

Finally, YOU matter in this world, and never let anyone tell you otherwise :) not even yourself biss i see u! 

Disclaimer that I am not a professional and this is peer to peer information!!!

While RSD is not recognized as a formal diagnosis, it is understood as an extreme sensitivity to what is perceived as criticism or rejection. There are many theories of what causes RSD, such as being tied to C-PTSD or it being an overreaction of one’s nervous system.

It can affect one’s reaction in many situations, such as they may be quick to jump to conclusions that could hurt their feelings, they may lash out in frustration or anger, they may become a people pleaser and be afraid to say “no” to others in fear of rejection, or they could just withdraw all together.

RSD is not exclusively experienced by ADHD folk and it is important to remember it also shares similar symptoms to conditions like PTSD, BPD, Social Anxiety, Depression, Bipolar Disorder and others. What is usually used to define RSD separately is that while the reactions can be intense, they usually do not last long.

So, what can help RSD? Here are some peer to peer tips:

1.) Clear Communication. Do not be afraid of asking direct questions or asking for clarification when you are not sure how the person you’re speaking with feels. Better to know the answer, if possible, than let your mind make up it’s own negative one.

2.) Take a step back and give yourself some space. If you are feeling overwhelmed, try to remove yourself from the situation, if you can.

3.) Talk to someone you trust. Sometimes we just need to talk it out and get another perspective.

4.) Therapy. Hear me out. While therapy CANNOT fix RSD, a therapist can teach you techniques to help you better understand and process your emotions.

5.) Medication. Some ADHDers have found their medication can help alleviate the symptoms they would associate with RSD. Check with a medical professional if this is the right option for you. Do not self prescribe or self medicate with prescription drugs.

6.) Last, but most importantly, find a supportive community! One of the worst feelings is thinking that you are alone in your RSD struggles, but there are plenty of people out there who experience the same thing. Sharing experiences and having a community to lean on when needed can make all the difference in the world. You are not alone!

It seems... I must dispatch the Hashira.

Happy Birthday

Itsuka Kendo (Battle Fist) – September 9th

I can't stop chuckling.

Gentle Cottagecore Emoji Asks

🌿 Herb: What is a scent you find relaxing? 

🌱 Seedling: What is something you want to begin learning? 

🥛 Milk: What is a food you find comforting when you are sad? 

🍯 Honey: What is one thing you like about yourself?

🍄 Mushroom: What is a quote you find comfort in?

☕ Tea: How do you take your tea?

🐄 Cow: What is one other tumblr blog you really appreciate? 

🌳 Tree: What is one thing in your future you are looking foward towards? 

🍑 Peach: What is a color that makes you smile? 

🌻 Sunflower: What is one thing that brightened your day today? 

🐓 Chicken: What is a comfort movie/show for you?

🧵 Thread: What is a recent creative project that you are proud of? 

🐈 Cat: Do you have any pets? Are there some pets you really want? 

🍅 Tomato: Have you ever gardened, and if so, what is your favorite thing to grow? 

🍃 Leaf: What is a plant you find beautiful? 

🐝 Bee: What is a video game that you find comforting? 

🍞 Bread: Do you know how to bake bread? If so, what is something you’ve baked recently?

🐇 Bunny: What’s a song that you really like? 

🌲  Pine: Do you prefer the cold, or the heat?

🧶 Yarn: Knitting or Crocheting?

🐑 Sheep: What is a comfort item you own? 

🍓 Strawberry: Do you own any pink clothing?

🥞 Pancake: What is your favorite breakfast food? 

⛰️ Mountains: Would you rather live in the mountains, city, beach, or the forest? 

🧸 Teddy Bear: Do you ever want to raise kids someday? 

🕯️ Candle: What is something you can’t go to bed without? 

😂😂😂😂😂

Kamui are you nervous around Endeavor because of his fire?

Shinji Nishiya: All the time anon.

Enji Todoroki: That is nonsense. I have perfect control of my flames, they won’t hurt you.

Hizashi Yamada: YO! MY GUY ENDEAVOUR! You are a WALKING FIRE HAZARD!

Enji Todoroki: To you perhaps. But that’s because you wear all that hair spray. So you’re endangering yourself Mic. I’d say you’re more of a threat to Kamui with how much of the atmosphere you pollute.

Shinji Nishiya: He makes a valid point.

Hizashi Yamada: 💀