lauren ridloff
I had a strange feeling of deja vu during the whole freakin' game! It's literally a genderbender version of reylo Jesus fuckin' Christ!!!
Btw, am I the only one who believes Trilla is still alive just wounded?
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đ„: Letâs get it!
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Elsa honey.... that's gay
gotham really kept me fed me with that enemies to lovers trope
The amount of hate geared toward the character of Kylo Ren has always seemed odd to me, especially considering how the same people have no problem with redemption arcs for characters like Snape, Loki, Magneto, Darth Vader (who is even in the same franchise, so the excuse canât be that a redemption arc is somehow uncharacteristic to the SW universe) or less obviously evil/villainous characters like William Darcy, Heathcliff and countless others.
But what is different about the character? (And donât even start with âmurderer/fascistâ, it is not about that and you know it. Fictional deaths can not be translated literally and if they could - why are they forgivable for the characters I mentioned above but not Kylo Ren?)
Kyloâs outer appearance may play a role: while I personally consider him to be waaayyy more attractive than any copy/paste Ken Hollywood actor (hello Chris Pine, Chris Hemsworth, Chris Pratt, Chris Evans - WTH are they all named Chris?! They even copy/pasted their names :D), Adam Driver is not traditionally good looking. We as a society do treat prettier people way more lenient than someone âuglyâ or normal looking, because we subconsciously attribute features like intelligence, health, kindness or generally overall goodness to them. So maybe we just think âugly face = no way he could be a good guyâ.
But I think the main factor is something different:Â
It is Kylo Renâs vulnerability and his non conformity to traditional portrayals of masculinity. He is very much NOT the typical stoic tormented hero we are used to be seeing. Instead, he is a sensible almost whiny teenage boy (Adam Driver explicitly states he plays him âyounger than his own ageâ)Â who never properly learnt to control his emotions and lashes out whenever he feels wronged or overwhelmed.Â
That is not typical male behaviour, especially in a movie. We are conditioned to think of it as something ridiculous. Real men donât cry. Real men bottle up their feelings, even if it breaks them. Grim self destruction like drowning the pain in alcohol or getting beat up / beat up other people are far more accepted coping mechanisms in a man than complaining or saying things like âI am being torn apartâ with trembling lips while tearing up.
That is not a stoic male:Â
I claim that a lot of people (male AND female) are triggered by a male who dares to be emotional AND demands empathy. We are conditioned to feel that a man should only receive that sort of treatment when he denies his feelings, when he is âstrongâ and âhardâ and closed off. We admire that, even in a villain. Darth Vader / Anakin gets a free pass because while he is conflicted and shows emotions they are âmasculineâ emotions like anger, rage and hate. He does tear up but they are angry tears. Someone like Kylo Ren, who is open and vulnerable, more so than they can handle, we perceive as pathetic and weak.Â
This is why so many people not only hate the thought of Kylo Ren redeemed, but think he isnât worthy of redemption.Â
Look at his Sad Puppy Eyesâą: Even when heâs violently smashing his mask he seems on the verge of tears.Â
Compare this to angry Anakin:Â
(The same sexism in reverse is the reason why so many label Rey a Mary Sue, even though her abilities are very much in character and explained / established well in the movies. Women are supposed to be weak and emotional and men are supposed to be strong and rational. Play with these norms and people are going to freak)
Ben: Okay one iced mocha for Finn, Dragon Fruit tea for Rose, Spice-hot coco EXTRA whip cream for Jannah, and for Rey the cinnamon apple pie milkshake with double dip of caramel on top. Did I forget anyone?
Poe:Â Yeah actually I order the-
Ben:Â Great! So whatâs mission for today?
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